I am sad and he is happy!
Q. Am in a distance relationship and its been tough he has beat me up insulted me now he's far from me.when am with him I feel good and in my heart I love him so much he doesn't answer me on time when I send him an message and he just posts pictures of ...
A. 21 December 2013: Its clear you have feelings for this man, but he really doesn't deserve it. Violence and abuse of any kind in a relationship is NEVER okay and you really can do so much better than that. You should stop looking at his page and get rid of him online ... (read in full...)
Change of heart or just looking for sex?
Q. I was involved with someone casually for a few months and he finished it. But recently he got in contact again to ask how I was. I finished the conversation by making it clear I did not want to stay in contact. My question is how can i be sure I ...
A. 21 December 2013: If this guy had wanted you for anything more than a casual hook up honey he would have tried his ultimate best to keep the conversation going even after you had quite clearly tried to blow him off. You deserve to like someone who will fight for you ... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend wants to be friends, but I'm not over her
Q. Dated exGF for about a year and a half. For a part of it we were off/on but the "off's" didn't last longer than a day or two. Anyhow, she broke off everything almost 3 months ago, but has continued to contact me, saying she still loves me but "can't ...
A. 29 March 2013: Hi, I really do feel for you – I have been exactly where you are right now. I know this is the last thing that you want to hear, but this woman is just keeping you around until she finds her ‘something better’ it does literally seem as though... (read in full...)
Did she steal my boyfriend and what should I do about it?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were together for just over a year. He was my first love, I lost my virginity to him etc. He meant everything to me and was my best friend for a long time. 6 weeks ago he started talking to this girl who was interested in a ...
A. 29 March 2013: I know you loved this guy and probably still do, you lost your virginity to him so you will always have that one special thing for him, even when your married with kids someday. But I'd personally leave well alone, let him learn from his mistakes... (read in full...)
My mum dislikes my BF because of our past problems. How can I change her opinion of him?
Q. I started going out with one of my closest friends at the start of last year and I was so happy. I loved him so much. Unfortunatly, he left me after 9 months whilst I was on holiday. I was so devastated and it put me in a really bad place, and my m...
A. 6 January 2013: Look, your parents hate to see you sad and anybody that hurts their child hurts them just as much back because you are a part of them both. You think they don't already know your seeing this guy if you are up all night on the phone to him any... (read in full...)
Why am I never good enough?
Q. He left me and I'm feeling so heavy. I really do love him but he doesn't feel the same way and it hurts. The last time a guy left me he left me for my best friend of whom he's engaged to and now this guy left me. It makes me feel like I'm not good ...
A. 12 June 2012: It sounds like your having a really tough time right now, you need to make sure that your looking after yourself. Your body's natural response to stress is to be drained and tired, especially when it's a stress that's hurt you deeply. I really feel ... (read in full...)
Should I try and improve myself for my g/f or break-up and concentrate on my job?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a 24 years old guy who has a 22 years old girl. We have been seeing each other for a little over 9 months. We're both working in the same company albeit different office. We're doing sales. It's a very time-consuming line of work ...
A. 10 June 2012: This girl sounds like she is scared of committing herself to you, this could be for the reason that she has trust issue thanks to boyfriends who have cheated on her in the past and she wants to slow it down and learn to trust you first.
This ... (read in full...)
I sometimes wish I could act out my sexual fantasies!
Q. I'm basically a "good girl"...always have been, but sometimes I wish I was a slut. I see so many of my friends randomly hook up with guys, have threesomes, have one night stands and all this other stuff and they seem like they're really living life ...
A. 10 June 2012: It is not healthy to "hook-up" and would dirty your reputation to get into an unhealthy cycle like this, however if it's just fantasies why not just pretend with a boyfriend if he's comfortable with it?
Dress up, go to far away places, I'm sure... (read in full...)
I looked in my boyfriend's email and guess what I found!
Q. I am 21 and have been with my current bf for over two years. about six or seven months ago I found a questionable email in my bfs email. it was dated at least two years prior to meeting him and it was from a guy in the email my bf asked this guy to ...
A. 10 June 2012: Well, if he functions sexually and romantically with you as well as finding males attractive then it's possible that he is bisexual. If he is cheating on you with other males over the internet, then you can do better and I would leave him.
Howev... (read in full...)
Where ever I go, there he is!
Q. Ever since me and my ex have stopped talking (i stopped talking to him) he has been following me sometimes at his work, in public and going to the plaza alone alot (without his gf when he used to always have her with him). he always seems to be in ...
A. 10 June 2012: How long were you together? It's quite possible that you two still just go to the same places, especially if you live closely and enjoyed the same interests.
If it starts to concern your safety and he begins making threatening contact with you, then... (read in full...)
I'm feeling pretty hurt right now ---
Q. My boyfriend said something worrying to me tonight and I'm not sure how to get it out of my head. My boyfriend has really mild aspergers and that usually means he's brutally bluntly honest no matter what. So when he says things that are mean, it's ...
A. 10 June 2012: Yes, this man has a condition of which he has no empathy or understanding of what his actions do to effect people. But you must tell him straight that if he wants to continue to have a relationship with you, in order to keep it healthy he must not ... (read in full...)
Do I put up or shut up?
Q. Hi, guys. i will try keep this short but i really would like some advice. I have been living with my partner for 3 years been together for 4. He has 2 children from a previous marraige that spend a lot of time with us. We take them on holidays. Buy ...
A. 10 June 2012: Kids will be kids, but you are not their servant. If your partner does not respect you enough to back you up, then he is not worth your time, leave him to be their servant and I bet he won't last a week putting up with what you have. I know this ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to wait 'til he is ready, or just let it go.
Q. I'm confused and in pain right now.I have loved a guy who happens to be my bestfriend. He just broke up with his girlfriend last january. His experience with his past relationship was not that good either. He was supposed to propose to the girl ...
A. 10 June 2012: A break up for anyone is extremely difficult, especially if he was cheated on. It has only been a few months since they broke up and he will still have unresolved relationship issues with trust and commitment. I understand that right now, you want ... (read in full...)
If it's so great there how come I can't go too?
Q. I'm 31, my wife's 30, and we're from Seminole, Florida. However, she's recently been doing a disappearing act, going off to Duluth, Minnesota, and I cannot for the life of me work out why... and even worse, she's used my favourite car for this (my...
A. 10 June 2012: I think maybe your wife needs some time out to think, I'm sure she'll return.. Has she dropped any hints that she is unhappy in your marriage? Or that maybe she is seeing someone else? If she has been missing for a week, I suggest that you get in ... (read in full...)
How can I encourage him? My boyfriend is not affectionate
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. We have only held hands once. I just find it wierd that he does not want to hold my hand, hug, or kiss me. I try to hint to him that I want him to hold my hand, but I don't think he gets...
A. 11 February 2012: Maybe, he doesn't feel ready for an intimate and serious relationship with someone yet. Do you know of any girls he has before been intimate with?
Some guys are a little shy at first when they start dating a girls in general.. If this is the case... (read in full...)
I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?
Q. Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...
A. 29 December 2011: He's 26 years old, which means he has chance to heal from your break up as well as to find someone else - which is always a good start.
If you need to be alone, and mature in your own time then that is not a crime - you shouldn't have to feel as ... (read in full...)
Every time we have sex now it hurts. Why is that?
Q. So. A few weeks ago me and my bf were havin sex and it hurt. And it has never hurt before it was lower abdominal pain. An almost everytime we have sex it hurts idk what it could be. Any suggestions...
A. 8 August 2011: You should go to the doctors and ask.
It could be various things causing you pain, are you having trouble or pain when urinating? Because it could be something as simple as a urinary tract infection and just need to take a course of anti biot... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love with my Best Friend's Brother.
Q. I've liked my best friend's brother is 3 years older than me and I've been madly in love with him for 4 years. During these 4 years I've been trying to convince myself that I'm too young to be in love, theres no way he'd ever like me, there are ...
A. 8 August 2011: Well this all depends on how old you are exactly, if this boy is 18 and going away to college.. He won't be able to be with you if your under 16 anyway.. he could get into lots of trouble :/
If your friend is so close to take you on holiday with... (read in full...)
It is a crime to upload sexy picture and could they be found on the internet later?
Q. i want to upload some racy pictures on net of my girlfriend..dey arent nude but are sexy showing a little bit of cleavage here and there.. my questions are 1)i am from india and so is it a crime to upload pictures of my gf on net 2)is it safe and ...
A. 8 August 2011: Yes, it is illegal to use your girlfriends picture without her permission if she has it under copyright. Yes, the picture could easily surface again if you deleted it, that's what copy and paste were invented for. And they will easily be misused. ... (read in full...)
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