He cheated!!! What do I do now???
Q. Hi my names megan. My husband is very atractive. And me, I'm just a little on the chunky side. Not too big not too small. But its sad when I stand next to him (he's... Just that gorgeous) But as I expected I wouldn't have him long, I knew so...
A. 5 June 2010: Firstly, Where the hell is your self respect? . No wonder he cheated swanning around in your god like praise he must of thought he could get away with murder!Only you will know if he is really sorry and you must make him prove himself before you ... (read in full...)
Will I ever overcome my eating disorder?
Q. I've suffered from anorexia and bulimia for about 4 years, i've had councelling and numerous aids to try and help me overcome my disorders and sometimes i can improve for a few months, but there is never a day where i don't think about what i'm ...
A. 5 June 2010: I ve been anorexic for 30 years, long before it was fashionable,ha ha . I think, sadly it stays with you , i work hard at mine , i bully myself, 3 meals a day, everyday, cos i want to buy clothes (nothing fits lol)and if life goes wrong first thing ... (read in full...)
My teacher kissed me! I know this is wrong so how do I move on and get over him?
Q. Okay so I'm going through a really rough time at the moment, and this teacher is so lovely and has been helping me through it, organizing councelors and just helping and stuff. One day when I had a breakdown in his class, he followed me out as I ...
A. 5 June 2010: Maybe hes not a pervert but he s still off limits , he s a teacher and its illegal to have a relationship with a pupil, not forgetting he s married too, he could lose everything , it the truth came out, try and stay away from him, its a crush and it ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Why do you need another person to validate your life? Get out and do stuff, build your confidence and increase your knowledge so when you do meet a lady you will have lots to say and the rest will come naturally x... (read in full...)
Told teacher I had a crush on him, what will administration do?
Q. I am a gay male, so recently I told my MALE teacher that I had a crush on him. I made sure to tell him that i did not intend to take in any further since first of all, he is straight and married (with a daughter). and obviously it is illegal. The ...
A. 5 June 2010: Firstly , well done for coming out, secondly i m not sure admin can do much to control the crushes of any young lad , gay or not. Your teacher has done the right thing and is not avoiding you because there is no need . we develope crushes for lots ... (read in full...)
My husband thinks I cheat; why don't I just do it?
Q. I´ve been married for nine years but together for 16. Since the beginning of our marriage, and because of our personalities we´ve fought often but have remained together (this mostly because before we got married I cheated on him once, and he found...
A. 5 June 2010: How long is he going to punish you for your mistake? .If keeps throwing it at you , he will wreck what is left of your love for him and your children will suffer too. I would ask him to come to counselling to sort it out or your marriage will not ... (read in full...)
Felt completely excluded among my b/f's colleagues; they made me feel like a loser
Q. Hi guys! This is a social-relationship question, and I appreciate all comments and suggestions :) Last night I joined my boyfriend and a few of his work colleagues at a bar in the city for "Friday night drinks". I wish I stayed at home! ...
A. 5 June 2010: I think we would all feel the same in the situtation you described , it could be they picked up on your feelings and made you feel worse. Could your bf appeal to then to be more friendly to you , may bring along their gf s so you could make friends ... (read in full...)
I can't understand why I am still single!
Q. I just cant understand how im still single, I really cant! Im a nice looking girl.slim ive got blonde hair. Ive got a really nice nature, Ive got a 5 yr old daughter, I dont smoke, do drugs. Go out getting smashed having one night stands. Ive never ...
A. 5 June 2010: You say you are healed ?, i would say you re not , please don t be offended but you sound needy and men do tend to avoid those signals. Relationships like you were in can cause untold and lasting damage . Even a year on you still talk about the ... (read in full...)
Why is my family so cold to me?
Q. Dearest Cupid and Everyone here, I don't exactly know what i need here. All i know is, im looking for a chance that somebody here can tell me why life is always like this. I have a lovely and understanding children, not living together with me...
A. 5 June 2010: Well ,you must be doing something right, perfect husband and kids, so well done for that .As for your mother , she sounds cold, don t take the blame for her shortcommings , count your blessings, don t allow your family the luxury of disappointing ... (read in full...)
Cant get over my ex girlfriend
Q. hey i have just broken with my gf for nearly one year . the reason was she didint love me , didint feel we connected like before. i still love her alot but she dosent she told me to get over it . well in a msg she wrote me was ''listen im so...
A. 5 June 2010: You poor man, i do feel for you .This was a very large part of your life and you need to allow yourself time to grieve.It sounds like this lady did care for you and she is trying to be honest but kind. Talk to a trusted friend or relative , in time ... (read in full...)
My last attempt for this love.
Q. This is a long post but my question is how do you start trusting a compulsive liar? My ex and I were together for a year and a half and 9 months of that she was pregnant with my son. I was supporting all of us so we didn't have a lot of time and ...
A. 5 June 2010: I wonder if your gf has post natal depression ,its clear she s been in contact with some one but is still holding on to you , that might be a good sign, get her to see her gp to make sure all is well then maybe try some counselling together . If she ... (read in full...)
If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me?
Q. If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me...? I was driving yesterday. and noticed a car sort of behind me and then noticed it was my ex with his new gf in the car. He was about to pass me until and get in the turning lane...
A. 5 June 2010: Its clear he hasnt moved on, but unless he will admit this to you , theres nothing you can do really. If you are happy with your new guy, forget your ex and enjoy your new love, If not maybe its time for you to be brave and ask your ex straight , ... (read in full...)
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