How do I get rid of my reputation from the past?
Q. Hey Well this mey be kind of long but this is more something i need 2 get off my chest rather than a qustion. When i was younger i used to be quite popular in my class at school, but i have a older sister and she was always coming top in cla...
A. 26 January 2009: Why would you regret being geeky? Focusing on your popularity is absolutely the WRONG way to go. You should focus on being at the top of your class. For a lot of women, how to be popular is all they learn in school. When that's over, they spend the ... (read in full...)
He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her
Q. dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as t...
A. 25 January 2009: Please tell me you aren't a teacher and this isn't your student.... (read in full...)
I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?
Q. I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...
A. 25 January 2009: So you don't want to wear condoms and you don't want to get her pregnant... There are a few of good options for you here. One is to go to Planned Parenthood and get some birth control pills prescribed to her. Other solutions include alternate means ... (read in full...)
Would love sex but have no drive to date a girl...
Q. I don't know what is wrong with me so I really want physical/sexual contact with girls but I have no drive what so ever to date one. I don't know, I could ask out at least 30 off the top of my head that would go out with me. I just don't feel like ...
A. 20 January 2009: You want to have sex but don't want to date? Congratulations! You're officially a teenage male. I wouldn't worry, you're perfectly normal. Just remember to use protection.... (read in full...)
Do most men "slut it out" before they turn 40 and settle down?
Q. Do most(single) men "slut it out" and play hard right before they turn 40 and is that to get it out of their system so they can settle down?...
A. 20 January 2009: I think a lot of men chose to wait, but it isn't necessarily a casual sex vs. relationship scenario. Sometimes men and women get caught up in their careers/life goals and would rather fulfill those dreams before thinking about starting up a family. ... (read in full...)
Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!
Q. I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great ti...
A. 19 January 2009: You should definitely leave her. Nothing good will come out of this.... (read in full...)
Cultural differences.
Q. Sorry my english not too good but I like this girl who goes to the park where I play football and her and her friend sometime watch us play football but the problem is I am italian and she is english so I do not know whether she would want to date ...
A. 19 January 2009: It seems like being Italian would work in your favor. A lot of women have a thing for foreign men. You should get some confidence and go talk to her.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says "if baby isn't mine, get abortion"
Q. i am in the most horrible situation possible, i never thought i would e ever be in a screwed up situation like this. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and love him more than anything in this world. About two months ago I told him that I ...
A. 19 January 2009: You should break up with him and decide for yourself what you want to do with the baby. It's really unfair for him to raise a child that isn't his, but you shouldn't be pushed into anything you don't want to do. Better to just end it. It sounds like ... (read in full...)
Is he just secretly using me because he's not getting laid?
Q. I was with this guy for 7 months.We had some problems that involved me lying to him and he couldn't seem to forgive me about it.The lies themselves had to do with me either going out one night to a friends to party or telling him i was going to be ...
A. 19 January 2009: He sounds like he's just using various women for sex. Even if you got back together, I'm willing to bet he would cheat on you at some point in time. You should avoid this guy like the plague.... (read in full...)
24 year-old guy that looks younger than his age and has never had a girlfriend.
Q. Hello, DearCupid! I need opinions/advice. As the title states, I'm 24 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands or gone on a date, and no girl has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I'm not exactly handsome ...
A. 19 January 2009: You sound like someone who is fairly smart. Are you going to college? Once you have a degree and a good job (or even while you are in school) you shouldn't have to hard of a time finding a decent girl for a long term relationship. Most girls you ... (read in full...)
He's hurt because I went back to my ex for a bit. What should I do?
Q. I am a 20 year old female. My boyfriend and I started dating in our Senior year of high school and were together for two years. Our meeting was rather unusual, he was the friend of a guy who I was dating, R. R. introduced us and we ended up becoming ...
A. 19 January 2009: As the previous poster mentioned, you completely broke his trust and that is not a very easy thing to get back. You should probably consider this relationship over and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
Love my husband so much, not sexually attracted to him, adicted to my lover
Q. I've been with my husband for 12 year, married for 5. Although we once had very steamy sex and were completely in love and "in like", for me, the attraction is completely gone. It has been for probably 9 years. There's a lot of resentment on my pa...
A. 19 January 2009: You should get a divorce right away. No offense, but your marriage sounds absolutely awful. Ending it now is the right thing to do. ... (read in full...)
Should my girl's sexual history bother me?
Q. So first off i want to say i am a virgin and this girl and i have been talking about sex. Well she is also technically a virgin guys have never done anything to her but she told me she has done things orally to like 5 different guys. I mean i am ...
A. 19 January 2009: It's a bit stupid for her to do those things then brag about being a virgin. Being a virgin has more to do with your overall values than with whether or not a penis enters your vagina. If someone is technically a virgin, that doesn't necessarily ... (read in full...)
Am I Considered A Whore?
Q. okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make ...
A. 19 January 2009: I suspect that this group of guys views you as reliable source of sexual gratification and will expect you to do similar things or go further in the future. It's up to you as to how you should feel about that. If you enjoy it, then don't worry. If ... (read in full...)
I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?
Q. Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...
A. 19 January 2009: It would also be extremely unlikely for a girl to get pregnant from loose semen around the vagina. To reach the egg it has to be injected up into the uterus, "balls deep" as they say. If you feel like you have a baby in your colon, maybe you need to ... (read in full...)
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