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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with this guy for 7 months.We had some problems that involved me lying to him and he couldn't seem to forgive me about it.The lies themselves had to do with me either going out one night to a friends to party or telling him i was going to be at work one day and i wasnt.I came clean about everything but he had already lost the trust in me.The was a new girl that moved in upstairs and I always thought it was odd that anytime something happened around the apartment that he would go and ask her about it for example a strange truck was parked in our assigned spots and he thought it was one of her friends.Finally,one day i got off work and we had got into another argument because I had asked him if i could go to my mom's house to stay the night and he got upset and told me to get out so i took all my stuff.Well,about 3 days later,I found out that he already found a "new girl" and that he wanted to make things with her because she is "everything he could want in someone."He had asked me if things didnt work out with them either a week or two or a month from now if i would go away with him.I told him i would.A few days later,he calls me up to go over to talk to him because he was going through a rough time.One thing lead to another and he ended up cheating on his gf cuz she wasnt there.I went back over there a few hours later after work and more stuff happened and he said he is just going to keep me a secret either until he decides that he only wants to be with her or me.My question is: Is he just using me because he's not getting laid by her or because he misses me but doesn't want to let her go?Also,is there any way that i can become 'his girl' again and not just looked at like 'the other girl? and able to gain his trust back?
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reader, mrflip +, writes (19 January 2009):
He sounds like he's just using various women for sex. Even if you got back together, I'm willing to bet he would cheat on you at some point in time. You should avoid this guy like the plague.
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