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writes:Do most(single) men "slut it out" and play hard right before they turn 40 and is that to get it out of their system so they can settle down? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to all of you
Mr. Flip.........do some men postpone fulfilling their life or career goals to avoid having to settle down out of fear of losing their freedom. Are career guys more likely to do this
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reader, mrflip  +, writes (20 January 2009):
I think a lot of men chose to wait, but it isn't necessarily a casual sex vs. relationship scenario. Sometimes men and women get caught up in their careers/life goals and would rather fulfill those dreams before thinking about starting up a family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Some do, some don't.
You cannot generalise like that. Not all men are souless morons who don't realise the benefits of a relationship versus casual sex.
It takes some men longer then others to see it. Some never do. But most men eventually do.
One way to think is... if a guy is flirting in a nightclub and dry-humping on the dance floor, then chances are he hasn;t figured it out yet.
If a guy is sitting and having a laugh with his mates at a bar, flirting with, but not sleazing himself towards, anyone who cares to talk to him and he seems both interested in your looks as well as in the things you are saying to him, then chances are he's young and knows how to have a good time but knows how much better a relationship can be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): most men all they do when there young is have sex party and drink and then when there at least 30 start to want to settle down and feel that they ruined there life and regret not settling down earlier.
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