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anonymous
writes:So first off i want to say i am a virgin and this girl and i have been talking about sex. Well she is also technically a virgin guys have never done anything to her but she told me she has done things orally to like 5 different guys. I mean i am glad she is a virgin but this is kinda upsetting to me. Am i making a big deal about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Well I do think that she was very open to u telling you her past on oral sex.You should be glad she was honest not many girls do so.I know I had oral sex once and I'm a virgin as well but it was because I was not ready to be with him with intercourse not because I wanted to make a reputation on myself and he was much older then me so I felt better to have oral then loosing my viginity to someone I didn't love.
You should not make it such a big dell because at least she made a choice to save herself for someone that was more worth it like waitin for you.She is making the choice to be honest and truthful then you having sex with her and then time would have passed and you would have gottin mad about finding out much later on her oral passed.I know you probly had don stuff also in your pass u wish u hadn't done but no one can turn back time what done is done.
Only God can judge no one else.
We are all born sinners
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Well, she's not really a virgin in my mind.
People draw the line in different places. But five blowjob partners is pretty far away from "inexperienced" no matter how you slice it.
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reader, brynnieboo +, writes (21 January 2009):
I think that if you want to be sexually active you do need to be cautious about the person your having sex with, but this is a decision that needs to be decided mutually between the two of you.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Should my girl's sexual history bother me? Am i making a big deal about this?
If it does not bother you, you wouldn't post that your girl did a Lewinski maneuver with 5 guys. (just kidding) As a man, you acted naturally and you supposed to deal with this but not that big.
History is a story from the past, maybe she learned from it as mistakes and naiveness of the past. However, if she takes pride on doing it. Well, I guess you have something to worry about, pardner.
But both of you should be aware that there are types of sexually transmitted diseases (STD) which could be transferred from one person to another through oral sex. It is called chlamydia - giving oral sex to an infected person. The infection came from the male genital and the bacteria rested on the woman's throat awaiting another transfer. So it is quite possible that a virgin could acquire STD.
Hopefully she is in a clean bill of health.
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reader, mrflip +, writes (19 January 2009):
It's a bit stupid for her to do those things then brag about being a virgin. Being a virgin has more to do with your overall values than with whether or not a penis enters your vagina. If someone is technically a virgin, that doesn't necessarily make them any more "pure". Likewise, if someone isn't a virgin it doesn't necessarily mean that person is "dirty".
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