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I don't know who the father is, should I terminate or give it up for adoption?

Q.   Heya, i just found out I'm pregant but I dont know who the father is, I went to butlins about four weeks ago and I sleet with 3 boys, ( I didn't know them or talk any numbers or anything) a week later I slept with two more boys, ( I know these b...

A.   27 July 2012: I think you should give the baby up for adoption if you do not want the baby yourself. Because you're right, there are plenty of people with sexual reproduction problems who would love to have a child, but can't do it themselves. Whether you know... (read in full...)

Guitar solos turn me on? Does anyone else have any strange turn ons?

Q.   Oh gosh, this is kinda strange but I've just recently realized that guitar solos really turn me on.. more than porn or anything else. It's so strange.. does this sort of thing happen to anyone else? Not just with guitar solos, but anything? lol I ...

A.   6 February 2012: haha thanks for the feedback guys. glad to hear that i'm not alone. it's just that when i'm playing guitar or listening to someone play really well, i get so turned on. lol i told my boyfriend the other day and he said he's never heard anything... (read in full...)

If he isn't happy then I am not happy either...

Q.   hi everyone :) i am 16 years old and i am with this guy for a year now and 3 months. he is almost 19 and i am crazyyyy in love with him. i just cant describe how much i like him, i adore him, and he is my whole life since we've been together...

A.   9 May 2011: Wow.. that sounds EXACTLY like my boyfriend was at one point except both of us are the same age. O.O We have been together for about 2 years now and I am willing to give up everything for him because I just love him so much. I don't talk to anyone ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend never wants to take any pictures with me & I have no idea why!!

Q.   First off I would just like to say I'm not the type of girl that stops and wants to take pictures every 5 seconds. I'm not that way at all, I actually kind of don't like taking pictures much because I don't like the way I look.. but anyways besides ...

A.   8 May 2011: I have explained to him why I want to have a few pictures with him, but he never really seems to acknowledge it. He says it's because I used to be the same way about pictures with him because I hated the way I look (and still do) but eventually I ... (read in full...)

Sometimes my boyfriend just makes me feel so invisible..

Q.   I love my boyfriend dearly.. but sometimes he just makes me feel so invisible. Like he'll invite me over every day we are able to see one another just about, but almost every time I visit him he will just completely ignore me for hours playing his ...

A.   1 May 2011: Well thankfully for the last couple of days we have been spending lots of time together and really having lots of fun with one another. :) I just don't think he knew the true extent of my love for him.. and a few days ago after him having a really ... (read in full...)

Sometimes my boyfriend just makes me feel so invisible..

Q.   I love my boyfriend dearly.. but sometimes he just makes me feel so invisible. Like he'll invite me over every day we are able to see one another just about, but almost every time I visit him he will just completely ignore me for hours playing his ...

A.   25 April 2011: I try to tell him that it bothers me when he plays his xbox without paying me hardly any attention at all but then he says "You don't support me." because he's big on video games and has begun collecting old game systems and stuff or if he does stop ... (read in full...)

My sister just walked in on me wanking & I think I'm going to die of embarrassment!!!

Q.   Well no easy way to ask this so i'm just gonna blurt it out. My sister just walked in on me wanking and i think i'm going to die from embrassment. This is so much worse than i could imagine. What do i do? Do i say anything to her? Or do i treat it ...

A.   16 April 2011: I'm not a guy, but if I was in your situation I just would act like it never happened and never speak of it unless she brings it up first, but I doubt she would.. so eh, just don't worry about it man. It's a normal thing. Nothing to be ashamed of. ... (read in full...)

Please help.. judgmental mom doesn't like my boyfriend of 2 years for no reason whatsoever

Q.   My mom is being really mean saying that she doesn't like my boyfriend of whom I've been dating for 2 years now only because he is shy and doesn't like to talk much. Gosh it's really irritating me.. gahhh I feel myself getting closer and closer to ...

A.   9 April 2011: @ CindyCares I really appreciate your outlook on things, and I know that my mom is only trying to look out for me, but good grief that does not mean she should insult the guy I love only because she hasn't gotten a chance to fully get to know him... (read in full...)

Please help.. judgmental mom doesn't like my boyfriend of 2 years for no reason whatsoever

Q.   My mom is being really mean saying that she doesn't like my boyfriend of whom I've been dating for 2 years now only because he is shy and doesn't like to talk much. Gosh it's really irritating me.. gahhh I feel myself getting closer and closer to ...

A.   8 April 2011: I've spoken to her about it countless times. She said she just doesn't like how he doesn't talk much and finds it to be rude although he truly doesn't mean anything by it, he's just very shy around people he doesn't know well, especially if he can ... (read in full...)

I don't feel like I can be loved

Q.   I don't know why I'm writing this maybe because I just need to let it out. I have been only a few real relationships in my life and have found that I don't feel like I can be loved. I won't be someones love because there is something deeply wrong ...

A.   20 March 2011: One of my close guy friends is going through the same sort of deal so just know that you are not alone, and I'll just tell you the same thing I told him. :) You are young, and you have much more of your life ahead of you. You will find your tru... (read in full...)

What do girls look for when they seek friendship?

Q.   hey, i'm a guy and not all that comfortable around girls. What i'm really trying to do right now is to just get a bunch of girls as friends. I'm kinda a shy guy and I'm just wondering what I can do to become friends with alot of girls/ know what you ...

A.   9 January 2011: Well I think what any girl wants/needs in a good friendship with a guy is for the guy to understand them, and for the guy to try to help them when they need it the most.. and more than likely she will do the same for you. And also, don't try to b... (read in full...)

Is it dangerous for two people to make out with one another when one person is on top of the other, and both have clothes on?

Q.   This is kind of an odd question.. but my boyfriend of about 2 years and I as we began to become alot closer to one another, we started making out laying down on his futon/bed type thing. It all started because a months after we had begun dating...

A.   7 January 2011: Thankyou very much for all your responses. I'll be sure to tell him the next time I visit him. :) You guys rock, thanks once again.... (read in full...)

Why is oral sex frowned upon?

Q.   Hi(: Okay this is going to sound really awkward but I just want to know. Why do some people have such a strong opposition towards oral sex? I know this girl who told me (in her exact words by the way) "You're nothing but a slut, you sucked h...

A.   3 January 2011: Some people just don't find it to be a very clean way to have sex. However you know what they say, "To each his own." meaning everyone has their own preferences. Some people don't have a problem with it, some people do. However the same thing ... (read in full...)

Which girl should I go for? And how do I best get her to like me?

Q.   i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play figh...

A.   3 January 2011: I think you should just continue to get to know the both of them better as friends, do not rush into a relationship right away. Over time, you will notice more things about the two girls both the good and the bad, and knowing these things can help ... (read in full...)

Will I ever be good enough for him?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years now.. and I love him with all of my heart.. he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is the first guy to ever actually seem to care about me and love me.. unlike my ...

A.   2 January 2011: He is not fat at all.. he weighs about 135-140 and is probably around 6'1, and I am about 5'6 and weigh around 115. He doesn't need to lose any weight, he is skinnier than I am.. I'm pretty sure he was only saying that because his abs don't show as ... (read in full...)

Does he really love me, even though in person he's different?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel ...

A.   2 January 2011: My boyfriend was the same way for the first few months that we had started dating. He would text me all the time about how much he loved me and couldn't wait to see me again, but with the both of us being very shy people being together in person was ... (read in full...)

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