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writes:Well no easy way to ask this so i'm just gonna blurt it out. My sister just walked in on me wanking and i think i'm going to die from embrassment. This is so much worse than i could imagine. What do i do? Do i say anything to her? Or do i treat it like when mum's busted me, and just pretend nothing ever happened and avoid eye contact for a few days? Please guys and girls i need advice badly :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell battista thanks for the advice & she's my older sister, not younger. As for the "icing on the cake" thats a whole different story.
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reader, Battista  +, writes (16 April 2011):
OP I've got to ask, what do you mean by"...then I finished with the icing on the cake..."?Well done though, you've handled it really well. Your sister is probably more embarrassed now as she has also got caught looking at porn. Little sisters eh? I know how it is :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): I am 99 percent sure she is already doing everything possible to erase that moment from her memory, short of burning out her own eyeballs with hot pokers.Look, it happens to us all. At some point we all get busted. It's just an unwritten rule that we all pretend it didn't happen and never, ever mention it again.You think that's screwed up? I went out for a few drinks with my sister and a friend of the family for drinks one time and somehow we all ended up in a strip-club getting a private lapdance in the champagne room... at the same time. And you think YOU know awkward?Flynn 24
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reader, macdubh712  +, writes (16 April 2011):
Dude, if your sis said something like that to her friends, I would consider that a betrayal. She is your sister so she should not tell anyone.
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirstly I'd like to give a massive, huge thank you to all the people who gave me awesome advice to help me through my dilema. I nearly ran away when i walked through the front door and heard my sister and her friends laughing in my room going through my stash of mags, DVD's and toys and paying out on me. But i walked into my room as cool as a cucumber, and said hi to the 3 of them, asked how they were. They were alittle stunned by my attitude, and gobsmacked when i asked if they were enjoying my stash. I told them as cool as can be that its perfectly natural and everyone massterbates, then i finished with the icing on the cake and left them with there jaws on the floor.
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the great advice. Guess your all right by saying just don't let it bother me. Just left my best friends place and about to get home. My best friend gave me similar advice, but said don't let it bother you and don't worry about it, just strip naked if your sis and her friends tease you and start wanking.. What an idiot.. Just about home and can see my sisters friends cars out the front. Time for the brave face and not to let it get to me!
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Act like it doesn't bother you. Theres literally no fun in it if it doesn't bother you.If her friends tease you about it, just say, "Know you know what YOUR brother does when you're out of the house."
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks heaps for the advice everyone, but my sisters two best friends have just come over so to avoid any extra embrassment i've gone round to my best friends place to listen to his wacky plan to deal with my sister. Hopefully by the time i get home later my sister and her friends have left. Just wondering what crazy plan my friend has come up with to deal with this problem?? He told me its fool proof, so i'm worried.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 She's just teasing you. What is she going to tell people anyway? Anyone she says this to,will tell her, "so what?? Who hasn't done it"??!!Relax! It seems like a huge thing now, but it isint really. Henceforth, make sure your door is locked because this is your personal business. Why give anyone a chance to say anything?
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice everyone. Just need to clarafiy that i was in my bedroom, but wasn't expecting anyone to be home or come home. Parents are away for the weekend and my sister was meant to be at work til like 6pm. God this is embrassing :( So i had magazines laid out over my floor and a DVD playing unfortunately my door was wide open, thinking i had hours to myself. Didn't hear my sis come in cos she used the backdoor. Wasn't until i felt someone watching i turned round and she was standing in my doorway. It was horrible, i was so stunned to see her i just froze there butt naked with boner in hand with a stupid look on my face! What am i gonna do if she tells all her friends! I'll never live it down! The only other advice i got was from my best friend and it's the dumbest thing i've ever heard and no-way am i doing it! What should i do? Shes gonna tell people i know she will :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Just ask her not to talk about your private stuff to her friends....or you will start talking about her private stuff to them too! If she challenges you to list her secrets, just give her a long knowing look and say you know 'things'. That will rattle her cage! She might bluster but im sure it will stop her talking about you.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Eh. You weren't doing something wrong. You were in private, hopefully in your room, It's awkward and embarrassing, but so is passing gas in public. Don't bring it up unless you want to. If she went into your room without knocking, tell her that you would appreciate if she would knock to avoid anything like this. If you were in the living room or a public office, apologize to her and keep that sort of thing in your room.If she has a habit of barging into your room, you might want to invest in a simple lock. That will keep these things to a minimum.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (16 April 2011):
Everyone's right, it will pass soon and she shouldn't say anything. You want some security? Pray you find some dirt on sis and she knows it; then she FO SHO won't say anything.
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (16 April 2011):
One of those unfortunate things- just let it go. Also she might be grateful if you avoid shaking hands with her for a week or so...
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reader, Madmasterbater +, writes (16 April 2011):
Madmasterbater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone really supportive. Unfortunately my sister is fine talking about it and doesn't want to forget about it. I was just in the kitchen pretending like it never happened, when she starts going on about it. Saying "have i finished wanking?" or was i just getting a drink and going back to my room to wank more adn how did i get such a huge porno magazine collection. She said she was going to tell her friends what i was doing and that i got a huge porn collection! What should i do? Is she just teasing? or should i ask what she wants to not tell anyone??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Doesnt anyone knock first in your household? As long as you were doing it in your bedroom! Then ask your mother and sister to knock at your bedroom door first and wait for a response. Just walking straight into your room is bad mannered. You are entitled to some privacy! If your sister is old enough to know what was going on, then i wouldnt bother mentioning anything. She might apologise, she should really. But if she is very young it might be worth having a word and saying what she saw was something boys do and she mustnt walk into your room anymore. Or if you feel uncomfortable doing that, you could ask your mum to have a word with her. Maybe just say 'X' walked in on you when you were doing 'something private' and ask your mum to have a word with her about privacy and knocking on doors first!These things happen, so try not to get too stressed about it.
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reader, Miss Misunderstood +, writes (16 April 2011):
 I'm not a guy, but if I was in your situation I just would act like it never happened and never speak of it unless she brings it up first, but I doubt she would.. so eh, just don't worry about it man. It's a normal thing. Nothing to be ashamed of. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Act normal it'll pass give it a week.
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