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writes:hi everyone :)i am 16 years old and i am with this guy for a year now and 3 months. he is almost 19 and i am crazyyyy in love with him. i just cant describe how much i like him, i adore him, and he is my whole life since we've been together. i changed my phone number i deleted my facebook and my msn and i am all his. recently he asked me to stop talking to my best friend because she has too many guy friends. and he basically asked me to choose him or her. and as stupid and immature as i might sound i choose him. because i cant loose him he is everything to me.. i have such a great time when i am with him, he is all i ever think about and i see us as something serious. i seriously dont want to loose him. but i cant say he feels the same way and it just hurts so much.. he says he loves me and i believe him but sometimes he acts as if he is wasting his time when he meets with me(because he gets out of the army only for 2 days a week)i mean i really dont mind him meeting with his friends and i am happy that he is happy with them but he told me today that he wants to live his life with his friends and i just wonder.. is he like dead with me i dont understand? i never met his friends and i never will.. he doesnt want me to so i never pushed him. but he thinks i have a problem that he is meeting his friends and i dont think he believes me when i say i dont. my problem is that he is really annoyed and angry all the time with me.. whenever i say something he gets angry and he takes it the wrong way. he is not always like this, sometimes he is really sweet and nice but others he is mean! i know am not perfect and i never said i was but is it that bad to spend some time with me? i need some advise because no one understands how i feel. they all say just break up or just relax, but if he is not happy with me i cant relax he is my everything and if he is not happy then i am not either..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Miss Misunderstood :)
really? hahaha!!! thats funny xD thanx so much and i agree on everything you say, and by the way i do that too- i listen to small stuff he says and then i go and either buy them or make them for him:) i really want to fulfill all his needs and fantasies! it's great knowing that somebody finallyyyy understands the way i feel and doesnt tell me to break up :) thank youuu sooo much xxx :D
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reader, meethi  +, writes (9 May 2011):
Dont be stupid. The person who really loves you is the one who cares you. As much that you might have never even imagined.And at this age,deciding about the whole life is senseless. Just,let the time pass and when you grow up one day you will know that life is not only that what at this age you are thinking/imagining. It is much more beautiful.When u once enter in love, you see nothing else, but just come out of that,you will know a lot lot lot more,which will each time fulfill your heart with happiness.And if you choose to go only for love at this small age, the romance of life would very soon go and you will b left only with so called love,which would soon make you or your friend bored,because you two will find much more beautiful and useful chores/things in life that might reduce attraction for either of you. you will find love at many stages, after that the attitude to see the world change. So, why not first enjoy yourself, then you will have time for love also.
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reader, Miss Misunderstood  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 Wow.. that sounds EXACTLY like my boyfriend was at one point except both of us are the same age. O.O We have been together for about 2 years now and I am willing to give up everything for him because I just love him so much. I don't talk to anyone but him, and had to also choose him over my best friend (which was a guy who later on I found out liked me so I guess I don't blame him). And my boyfriend too takes things in ways I do not mean them at times, but then in others he is really sweet and kind to me. Whoa this is so weird that you are in such a similar situation..
Well.. the thing I found out works best with a guy like this, is when he gets angry about something sit down with him and look in his eyes and ask him what is bothering him, and make sure he knows you didn't mean for him to take whatever you said the wrong way, and constantly remind him how much you love him and how much that he means to you. Another thing, try to avoid boring routines. You have to be completely random, and goof around with him a bit keep him on his toes. :) Also pay attention to tiny details such as little things he says he enjoys, cool video games, movies, clothing he likes, etc and let that determine the next (birthday, christmas, etc..) gift you'll get him next, and if you did right he should be really really happy. hope this helps. good luck
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (8 May 2011):
 You are just a little girl in his eyes. he can manipulate you. you said YES to whatever he asked you to do. you never stood your ground and said NO. yet he never introduced you to his friends. HE IS THE MASTER OF HIS LIFE. YOU ARE NOT THE MASTER OF your LIFE. He does whatever he wants with you.
find a guy your age who isn't in the greek army. Find a classmate. You are very immature for a guy aged 19. No boyfriend should be mean to his girlfriend. Now make sure you say sorry to your bestfriend. Never end a friendship because of some stupid boyfriend.also, don't pay attention when a guy says that he loves u. LISTEN TO HIS ACTIONS. This guy is a jerk, break up NOW.
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