He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?
Q. I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...
A. 6 May 2016: I agree. Your hubby NEEDS rehab at the very least. For the sake of you and your kids, and him, have him arrested and then sent off to rehab. He needs to see there's consequences for what he does. I would bet this is all terrifying for you. But you ... (read in full...)
Why does my mother always seem to favor my sister over me?
Q. My mom treats my sister better than me and makes me share everything. We're 14 and 13 and about the same size so when we go clothes shopping she makes me go with what M (my sister) wants which is usually shapeless pastel t shirts or lacy dress on...
A. 5 May 2016: I saw your update and it does sound like your mom isn't being fair to you now. You aren't your sister's parent and you aren't obligated to share or anything. It could be your mom may be venting her frustration with your sister onto you. It's not ... (read in full...)
He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?
Q. I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...
A. 2 May 2016: You got great answers but I wanted to add that on top of finally calling the cops PLEASE tell everyone in your family too. And please don't give in to anything he says to make you stay. Get support from everywhere you can. You'll be fine and that ... (read in full...)
Why is my partner dreaming about sex?
Q. Me and my other half have been together for 6 years, the last couple of months its become a little rocky. we haven't had sex in around 5 months. a couple of nights I have woken up to him touching me and kissing me. HES ASLEEP, only problem is ...
A. 2 May 2016: I think you should really talk to him. Just ask him to please be honest with you.... (read in full...)
Is he just leading me on? Is he really in love with me? Or is it just sex??
Q. Okay so I'm bi not out! Please read full story I started seeing this guy in September 2015 and it was great but after a couple of weeks he started to tell me he had feelings for me. I continued to hide back my feelings and made him continue...
A. 2 May 2016: I totally agree with janniepeg. He might mean the emotion but it really sounds like he's staying with his bf.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to screen out women as potential partners due to their past sexual history and how many partners they have had?
Q. I spent a lot of my teens having low self-esteem and have very little dating experience. I had a girlfriend in high school. Still a virgin even though I have done everything else. I used a lot of that time to make sure I have an amazing future and ...
A. 2 May 2016: It's fine. You want a woman on the same level as you.... (read in full...)
He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?
Q. I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...
A. 1 May 2016: ...why didn't you have him arrested years ago? If you divorce you should at least be able to get child support from him and he's even offering to pay your bills for a year if he was at all serious. With you making the lower wage and having kids you ... (read in full...)
Why do guys want intercourse so badly?
Q. Why do they want to have sex so badly? I was skimming the online forums about this; like those pua forums with the creepy guys who do everything they possibly can to get sex. And...I was reading all the replies and different terms, and I want to ...
A. 30 April 2016: @CindyCares that does make sense. Guys can be funny. There's no reason for them to brag when I could do those same sex acts with anyone I want...but I guess that's how some think lol... (read in full...)
Why do guys want intercourse so badly?
Q. Why do they want to have sex so badly? I was skimming the online forums about this; like those pua forums with the creepy guys who do everything they possibly can to get sex. And...I was reading all the replies and different terms, and I want to ...
A. 30 April 2016: @sageoldguy So if they lie anyway why would they still need the sex to happen if it doesn't matter? ... (read in full...)
Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...
A. 30 April 2016: It does totally sound like he thinks he's better than you and above the law. Please show him he's wrong and initiate a divorce and have him arrested. Your husband is delusional and sounds like a toddler.
And it sounds to me also that he LIKES an... (read in full...)
Why do guys want intercourse so badly?
Q. Why do they want to have sex so badly? I was skimming the online forums about this; like those pua forums with the creepy guys who do everything they possibly can to get sex. And...I was reading all the replies and different terms, and I want to ...
A. 29 April 2016: No, it's the opposite. I was shocked guys like that existed. It's creepy but interesting to read their posts.... (read in full...)
Why do guys want intercourse so badly?
Q. Why do they want to have sex so badly? I was skimming the online forums about this; like those pua forums with the creepy guys who do everything they possibly can to get sex. And...I was reading all the replies and different terms, and I want to ...
A. 29 April 2016: Thanks for your answers everyone...I know those pua guys online aren't normal, but...I'm still curious. But the male answer is interesting.
@sageoldguy why wouldn't the guys just lie about having more sex or something? I thought guys did that any... (read in full...)
When is it the right time to leave?
Q. Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...
A. 28 April 2016: Yes, I think you should talk to as many people as possible. And see if you can get a child support alternative, like buying the kids necessities and things instead of having to give your ex child support money.... (read in full...)
When is it the right time to leave?
Q. Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...
A. 28 April 2016: I'm sorry this happened to you. I don't know how you've managed to handle all of that. To be blunt, I think your wife got pregnant by you twice totally on purpose. The first time so she could move out and the second to make you stay despite her ... (read in full...)
Please help me! I’m feeling so suffocated by the choices my mother has made!
Q. Hi all, I posted on here before about moving in with my bf and how my mother and stepfather are dependent on me. Well, I made up my mind that I was going to move in with my boyfriend regardless and start planning on our dreams. Come to find out...
A. 26 April 2016: You aren't even remotely in the REALM of being selfish. I think it's terrible they both made you feel like you were. Let them deal with their own problems so they'll be forced to act like ADULTS for once.
Have you told your bf about your problems... (read in full...)
Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control
Q. (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...
A. 26 April 2016: FYI, if your future son who has as much sex as possible and gets a girl pregnant, there can be consequences for that. Child support, going to court, or even jail if he doesn't pay it. And that's the bare minimum. If your daughter got pregnant, at ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me to understand why I am feeling this way? I haven't told anyone, but I really want a baby.
Q. Hi im almost 14 and i really want to have a baby i love children my sister has 5 and there all babies i babysit them all the time. Their my world. I have a boyfriend but i havent told him or anyone about having a baby. I dont know why i feel like...
A. 25 April 2016: This is totally natural! I felt like this for years in my teens so don't expect it to end soon lol actually, I still feel this way now in my 20s but not as extremely. It's natural like I said, just pls don't actually have any.... (read in full...)
How can someone who claims to love you be so unfeeling?
Q. I got pretty sick this past week. I was bed ridden for days had no energy throwing up. My husband had it the week before so naturally I was concerned for him took care of his every need and made sure he felt loved and taken care of. Fast forw...
A. 25 April 2016: Some people are just this way. My mother is exactly like this with everyone. If you were sick how you felt or what you needed was not even a thought. I have so many memories from when I was sick...she stepped right over me or walked right by me when ... (read in full...)
Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control
Q. (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...
A. 24 April 2016: This is what I mean. You say in your update you've only been with one other woman. I'm being serious, get some more partners for yourself and these feelings will vanish. I think your version is a little extreme, but in general I think it's totally ... (read in full...)
Is the arousal because I'm gay or reacting to a forbidden, taboo act?
Q. If you're a man and aren't aroused at the thought of being with a woman but are aroused a bit when you think of having sex with a man even though you recently were capable of having fulfilling sex with a female several months ago and never wanted to ...
A. 24 April 2016: Well being gay means being sexually attracted to the opposite sex so I'd say it sounds like you are. ... (read in full...)
Do I cut all contact with him? He left me feeling disrespected when he took my virginity and then just left.
Q. I've been friends with this boy for just over a year now, for a good 3 months last year we were seeing each other but things just didn't work out. He then had a giflriend and we were like bestfriends but now they've been broken up for a while an...
A. 24 April 2016: I think you should ask him why he did that. And I mean really ask him. I can't figure out why he'd apologize so much bit so that to you in the first place. Anyway he was a terrible first partner but don't feel bad because he acted so selfishly.... (read in full...)
Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control
Q. (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...
A. 23 April 2016: I think you should not see her until you get more of your own partners. Then you won't be jealous anymore.... (read in full...)
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