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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: If you're a man and aren't aroused at the thought of being with a woman but are aroused a bit when you think of having sex with a man even though you recently were capable of having fulfilling sex with a female several months ago and never wanted to have sex with a man, are you gay or is it arousal to the taboo/forbidden act? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (25 April 2016):
Don't label yourself. So you might be feeling a little confused at the moment, but that is okay. If you are attracted to a girl great, if you are attracted to a guy, great, just do what feels right.
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female
reader, chigirl +, writes (24 April 2016):
Look, there is something you need to understand about sexuality. It's not either or. You can like both, or you can like one more in this and that situation, or you can like one guy and ten girls, or the opposite.
Sexuality isn't 100% either into women or into men. Trying to force yourself into a box and put a label on it is not ever going to work. You like what you like, WITHOUT a label. You're not straight, nor gay, nor bisexual. You are you, and you like what you like, and you don't owe anyone an explanation.
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female
reader, mintrablooms +, writes (24 April 2016):
Well being gay means being sexually attracted to the opposite sex so I'd say it sounds like you are.
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