The guy I'm seeing makes me feel worse about my life than I already do, should I dump him? When will I be ready to date again?
Q. I'm seeing this guy and he keeps telling me that I need to move out of my moms house and get a job. I just got out of a five year relationship a year ago and had to quit my job because my ex stalks me. I have been looking for another job but having ...
A. 26 March 2008: you answered the question yourself he should be giving confidence and not making you feel bad about yourself you will never get the confidence back while you are with this man. and you will know when you are ready to start dating just concentrate on ... (read in full...)
I know he likes me but he's a mess...can I start something with him or is this a bad idea?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering if anybody has any advice regarding my situation. I worked with some one for a year i kind of liked him and i know he liked me. anyway he had a girlfriend who he lived with. Weve kept in touch over the last few months, he broke up ...
A. 26 March 2008: i think that you should try this as you never know he might turn out to be the ONE and you might sit just wondering what if.
plus he left because he liked you and he is saying that he likes you talk to him about it tell him that you dont just want... (read in full...)
I ejaculate too quickly. I want my GF to be able to cum first, can you suggest something?
Q. Hi, I would really need some real help, and I appreciate some feed backs from people. basically, I have this problem of reaching the orgasim real fast, I don't know how to stop cuming, before she comes first. I have come a cross some ideas like ...
A. 26 March 2008: my boyfriend has the same problem we found a great thing called o cock ring so it dont matter if you come just carry on regardless!!!! loads of j... (read in full...)
Sex for me is never enjoyable...
Q. Sex for me is never enjoyable, I am really tight and every time I have sex with a guy he is never able to get all the way in. I've tried relaxing and everything but still the guy can never get all the way in.. I've never had an orgasm niether.. what ...
A. 20 March 2008: you may have a medical problem if it is so tight that it is causing you pain and it would be worth checking yourself out at the doctors. also most women dont usaually orgasm from penertration anyway so there are lots ways you can reach orgasm ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...
A. 20 March 2008: what is he masterbating to then prehapes you should try to become more involved in his activities and ask him what it is that turns him on so much about this pornographic material prehapes if your willing you can re-inact some of it for him you may ... (read in full...)
Can I stop myself becoming bisexual?
Q. I have an amazing bf and I love him to bits but i always watch lesbian porn coz its much more of a turn on and also sometimes i see girls and i dont think id mind having sex with them! i dont like the thought of being bisexual, can i stop myself or ...
A. 20 March 2008: Its not that bad a thing to think about things like this at your age. you cant stop the way your body is making you feel and you cant really say just because these things turn you on that you would like them anyway if you havent even tried them. i ... (read in full...)
His dreams are causing problems in our marriage
Q. My Husband of 6 years has been having sexual dreams almost every night,Of course he has a full errection.Several times I have heard him say sexual things out loud while in his sex dream.What really upset me is that he has even called out a females ...
A. 20 March 2008: we cant always control what we dream about and to look on the bright side you say that he is not being unfaithful to you. prehapes you should ask him if he is doing something different with these women in these dreams than he is doing with you in ... (read in full...)
Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!
Q. Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??...
A. 19 March 2008: im really shocked that girls are tinking about having sex at this very young age.do they not teach you in school what sort of problems that this can cause you in later life cervical cancer where your body is mature enough to be involved in sexual ... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 19 March 2008: by the sounds of things your mother is a very insecure person and it shocks me that even you still want to have a relationship with her yourself. being a mother now yourself you must realise the lentghs that mothers go to in order to protect their ... (read in full...)
Do I just walk out of this relationship?
Q. My ex dumped me 10 years ago, and shortly thereafter I started dating a co-worker. I was torn because I thought my ex would accept me no matter what and loved me. Because of him, I felt able to truly be myself for the first time in my life. After ...
A. 19 March 2008: i think that everybody always has one true love and no matter how hard we try we can never seem to find them same true feeling like we have with the other relationship. discuss this with your ex before making any big decisions to leave your husband ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 19 March 2008: yes i agree that nipple stimulation is defo the best and most affective way to speed up the labour process... (read in full...)
I keep flitting between anger and upset and I genuinely do not know what to do.
Q. Hi After being suspicious of my boyfriend's relationship with an ex over the past few weeks due to strange messages on his myspace and him becoming withdrawn and weird, I recently discovered that he had been texting her inappropriate messages...
A. 19 March 2008: been through a similar situation myself and know exactly how you are feeling. one good sign that you should leave him though is that his freinds are telling you to. this is never a good sign because he will be telling them exactly how he feels about ... (read in full...)
"Mum" problems...
Q. Hello. I am beginning to hate my mum and stepdad, but only about one thing. We moved from my home town last year and I've hated life since then. Now we've moved my emotions are everywhere and I think I need counceling. The real problem is th...
A. 19 March 2008: its normal actually to start resenting your parents round about this age. our hormones are all over the place and as the saying goes we always take it out on the ones closest to us. shame that is the truth what your mum says what she says goes ... (read in full...)
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