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writes: I have an amazing bf and I love him to bits but i always watch lesbian porn coz its much more of a turn on and also sometimes i see girls and i dont think id mind having sex with them! i dont like the thought of being bisexual, can i stop myself or something? whats wrong with me? i really dont wanna be bisexual..
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reader, natalieejanex  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 there are so many of these questions is unbelievable. ok, porn does NOT determine somebody's sexuality, ok? jut because a straight person watches gay/lesbian porn does not mean that its gonna make them change their mind about their sexuality or how they feel towards the same sex. it just turns you on and gets you off, that's it, end of. we are born a certain way and there's nothing nobody can do to change it. porn nor does sex determine a persons sexual orientation. maybe its just a sexual desire or fantasy to have sex with another girl. try it and go from there. maybe you are bisexual but there's no way of knowing until you actually date a girl. if you are emotionally attracted to the same gender you are bi or lesbian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): im in the same situation as u apart from i ended up trying it with a woman it didnt go all the way but it was good.
if u r having really strong feelings for the same sex u should consider trying it out , then if u enjoy it or not ur mind should b ut to rest.
good luck, all the best
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Stricly speaking you are bi-curious.
The famous kinsey reports had a scale/ranking from 1-7or8 going from purely heterosexual to purely homosexual and a seperate one a-sexual (never sure if that one was included in the ranking or not)
Another shrink asked a series of questions like what gender do you have sex with, which do you emotionally bond with the most, which one do you hang around with and used that to determine your sexuality.
The details don't matter, what it tells us is that sexuality is a LOT more complex then just hetero - bi-sexual - lesbian as you seem to think.
Plenty of straight people prefer same sex for companionship. Is every male who hangs out with his mates bi-curious? Is every lesbian who has male friends a closet hetero?
You don't want to be bi-sexual? Easy, don't have sex with both men and women but you can't change feelings, only how you act on them.
As for the porn, it can be harmless fun but only if you don't take is as some kind of gospel.
What is the reason you watch lesbian porn? Don't naked men do it for you, are you turned off by the typical 'hetero' porn of "Detroy that [orifice of your choice]", ATM and guys whipping it out the moment the girl is even remotely starting to enjoy it and giving her a red eye.
Porn is fantasy, it ain't real. Find some "made for women" hetero porn.
Kinsley ages ago proved that human sexuality is far more complex, just because you respond to women does not mean you have to act on it if you don't want to.
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reader, michellesays +, writes (20 March 2008):
Its not that bad a thing to think about things like this at your age. you cant stop the way your body is making you feel and you cant really say just because these things turn you on that you would like them anyway if you havent even tried them. i wouldnt say they you are bi just because you enjoy watching lesbian porn either because most other porn is not as sensual as lesbian porn and it may be this that turns you on alot of women prefere this to male on female for tis reason stop panicing.
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