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30-35,
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writes:Sex for me is never enjoyable, I am really tight and every time I have sex with a guy he is never able to get all the way in. I've tried relaxing and everything but still the guy can never get all the way in.. I've never had an orgasm niether.. what can I do?
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reader, michellesays  +, writes (20 March 2008):
you may have a medical problem if it is so tight that it is causing you pain and it would be worth checking yourself out at the doctors. also most women dont usaually orgasm from penertration anyway so there are lots ways you can reach orgasm without this most times women orgasm is through cliteral stimulation.there are many programes on the tv now to show good ways for women to reach climax and websites that can help you to find out ways of orgasm. try new things and some thing will hit the spot eventually.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (20 March 2008):
 This sounds to me like a condition called dyspareunia in medical terminology (pronounced “dis-pair-une-ee-ah”), and is more common than you might believe and is a curable condition.
I found a link to a website that should provide you with all the information you need on this subject aside from seeing your doctor. Doc
http://home.cfl.rr.com/dahmd/dyspare.htm
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reader, BigSis +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Like DoubleM says, try foreplay, if you do not get naturally 'lubricated' that way, then there are always gels or even baby oil that can help, get him to rub some on his thingy and you on yours, or even better still do eachother's, because that alone will arouse the pair of you.
Those lubricants will definitely help with insertion. Also by rubbing a gel or oil over and around your nether region will more than likely help you to orgasm too.
Read my tips on how to orgasm, just follow this link. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-feel-anything-masturbatingam-i-doing-it.html
I hope this helps. xXx
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 March 2008):
 You are a "dream" to many guys, but I suspect that they are not providing enough arousal for you to truly relax, get your juices really flowing and become ready for vaginal intercourse. Regardless of your physical stature, unless exceptionally small, your vagina is quite capable of accepting penetration of reasonably normal-sized men once you are aroused enough. It is flexible enough to accomodate eight-pound babies when the time comes.
My suggestion is for you to demand and expect a great deal of foreplay, possibly including extended oral stimulation for you, before your lover has any chance of the reward. That should help loosen you up and generate a good deal of natural lubricant, but you should also demand gradual and easy insertion until you are comfortable. Many petite women (if that is the case) deserve loving gentle and consideration.
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