How do I let her know she needs to move on without her getting too upset?
Q. Ok, well my last ex and I broke up around January 2009. It was a mutual break up because she moved to America (I live in Australia) and we agreed that it could be too dufficult keeping a long distance relationship. We've kept in touch because we ...
A. 19 February 2010: I would try and remind her why you both broke up in the first place next time she openly tells you how she feels.
I would also distance yourself a little from her and try and not indulge her when she tells you she still likes you.
She is living i... (read in full...)
We connect and we love kissing but neither of us wants a relationship.
Q. Ok im in love with someone who loves me we connect well and wen we kiss its amazing he doesnt want a girl friend and vice versa wat should we do...
A. 19 February 2010: you answered your own question here if you dont want anything and he doesnt want anything then do nothing but have fun.
Then again I think you may want something more but dont want to show it to him cause he doesnt in which case i would just be ... (read in full...)
We have a mutual understanding about harmless flirting, but should I tell me Fiance I told a guy to meet up with me?
Q. Ive been with my fiance for nearly four years. Im very happy with him although we r not havg as much sex as i wud like. We ave discussed this and are working on it. A few months back we wer both at a bday party and so drunk we both cant remember ...
A. 19 February 2010: I think that if you arent in contact with this other guy and it genuinly is harmless then there is no point telling your fiancee about it as he might make it more than it was. When your drunk everything always seems like a better idea at the time ... (read in full...)
I'm going out with him and some friends. I'm nervous! Any advice?
Q. I'm so nervous !!!. I'm 25 ( almost 26 ) and i like a guy who just turned 21 on Wednesday. He rang me today and said he is going out with a group of friends tomorow night, and asked if i wanted to go with them. I said i would, and he is going to ...
A. 19 February 2010: Maybe take a friend with you if you can, that means you might be able to relax a wee bit more. Just be yourself, you want him to like you for who you are. Get a little tipsy to boost your confidence lol remember to chat to his friends and try and ... (read in full...)
Seems he doesn't need me anymore. Why the need to call me then?
Q. Hello all, I think I need some guy's opinion here. Here it goes, my ex for a year now has been keeping in touch with me from time to time as a friend. Along the way, I slept with him once 3 months ago but i regretted it so badly that I asked him...
A. 19 February 2010: He obviously still likes you whether it just be in a friendly way or more. I think he probs just wants to be your friend, im still in touch with two of my ex's just because we didnt work as a couple doesnt mean we cant work as friends.
The o... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my boyfriend of 5 months and am worried it is too soon. What do you think?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. Im 27 hes 30.i have a 5 yr old daughter which he treats like his own. We are very much in love we dont live together but see each other all the time. Ive just found out im pregnant. Weve had conversations ...
A. 19 February 2010: Hi,
Congratulations! Don't worry about what other people think, see as long as you are happy it really doesn't matter. Some people are with their partners for years and wont feel the way you do after 5 months. Time shouldnt be an issue as long ... (read in full...)
Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?
Q. How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....
A. 30 May 2008: You Don't. Simple.... (read in full...)
My BF of 4 years constantly cheats on me and does not even try to hide it...
Q. My boyfriend of 4 yrs ( within this time frame has been unfaithful over 6 or more times that I am aware of) but within the last year has been faithful until 6 months ago, but now is in another side bar relationship with a married women, I also know ...
A. 30 May 2008: right your stupid for staying with him. he clearly doesnt care. he sees you as a walk over for accepting his cheating. if my boyfriend even kissed another person i'd be out that door faster than the speed of light. have some respect for yuorself and ... (read in full...)
He drinks too much and abandons me in the weekends, should I leave him?
Q. I was just wondering if anyone would know what to do if they had a boyfriend that was always drinking going out all weekend even though we have been together 6 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter and im 5 months pregnant and he keeps saying ...
A. 30 May 2008: your exactly right and remember marriage is just a ring on your finger that doesnt change who he is. it does seem like he has drinking problem. I would give him the ultimatum of its me and the kids or your drink and see how he reacts. Remember you ... (read in full...)
My question is, is it intimidating to a guy to know that I am a virgin at 20? What would the first impression be?
Q. Alright heres the scoop: I am going to be a junior in college and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I kissed a guy. Honestly, there have been plenty of guys that have wanted to do stuff with me but I have not really liked any of them enough, ...
A. 30 May 2008: first off the reason why u may feel that a guy is hot and cold is maybe cause your not showing them enough that you like them ie kissing them so they are unsure! second off most guys will be happy your a virgin to be honest as it gives them a cha... (read in full...)
I have not started my period yet and am worried...
Q. i am slightly worried i have not started my period yet and i am in year nine but my discharge has started going brown should i be worried ? i need some advice thanks ............
A. 30 May 2008: im not going to lie to you it shouldnt be brown but everyones different. dont worry everybodies body works differently ive heard of people not starting their period till they are 18. But to ease your mind definetly get to a doctor as soon as ... (read in full...)
He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!
Q. Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife...
A. 30 May 2008: Life is there to take a chance. Age isnt a problem you cant always please your family by making yourself unhappy. To be totally honest i think he made the right decision in the first place to go bak to his wife as it shows he clearly felt gu... (read in full...)
Is cybersex classed as cheating?
Q. when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ...
A. 30 May 2008: its a form of cheating, your looking for someone else to fufill something sexual that you a) don't want your bf to b)he cant.
rules reversed how would you feel?
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Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.
Q. Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...
A. 30 May 2008: its clear you don't want to be with your girlfriend so there is no point in making yourself miserable being with her, life is to live not to be unhappy. It is hard due to the fact that she is ill but if you stay on really good terms with her and ... (read in full...)
We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other... when do you say enough is enough?
Q. Hi there, Ive been with my partner for 3 yrs now and living together for 8 months. To be honest we fight so much I can't take it anymore. We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other.. when do you say enough is enough and walk ...
A. 30 May 2008: If i were you I'd let him see that you were serious about the fact that your fed up with him, scare him a little. I'd maybe take a break from him for a week or two. That way you can see if your happier being away from him or if you think about him a ... (read in full...)
He has a very high sex drive whereas my libido decreased after giving birth - it does not help that there is no foreplay before the actual sex! How to get my sex life back on track?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend two years and our sex life is non existant due to me. It was fine before i got pregnant with my son over a year ago but now im never in the mood and i only do it to stop him bothering me. I love him and prefer cuddles and ...
A. 30 May 2008: This is kind of like a catch22 here, you NEED time for yourself your giving and giving and it's simple things in return like cuddles that makes you feel better but he has needs too. Just now, personally i think you need you time and he should ... (read in full...)
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