Starting your period - influence upon breasts size? Do they stop growing?
Q. My friend told me that when you start your period your breasts stop growing. Is it true?...
A. 14 November 2007: Your friend is misinformed. When I started my period, I was a C. Now, I'm a G. Go figure ;)... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love but she is 100 miles away....
Q. hey, I met this girl on holiday in august (i'm 16 she's 15) and we really got on well, just as mates. I got her email address and we've been sending each other the odd message. The problem is that i can't stop thinking about her, and even though i...
A. 14 November 2007: Do what my boyfriend did 18 months ago. He lived about 100 miles away, and the day after we told each other via MSN we loved one another and it was mutual, he surprised me in my home town where I was performing at a concert. There and then, he asked ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 26 October 2007: When you're old enough legally and mentally.
I say this over and over again, but there's a reason the UK age of consent is 16. When you're that age and over, and in a committed (it is CRUCIAL that it is committed) relationship, and comfortable in y... (read in full...)
My partner wants a baby too but won't talk about it with me. Tablets I can take to help me get pregnant?
Q. i want a baby but dont know how to go about it, i know my boyfriend wants one but he wont talk about it with me, i feel as if our relationship is falling apart because of it, is their any way i can take any kind of tablets to help me get pregnant? ...
A. 25 October 2007: There are many things that seem so, very wrong about this to me, like the fact he's double your age with a child already and the fact you're only my age, and that you don't seem to know just exactly what you're throwing away. Shame on your ... (read in full...)
Yeah, I'm hot for teacher
Q. Hello, I have a prob! okay so yeah theres this amazing guy who is incredible he is the sweetest and the funniest dude i know! but... here it comes! hes my teacher!! i hate it so much!! i mean why cant i just have a crush or whatever on a boy that is ...
A. 25 October 2007: You are only 16. You ARE too young. Why are you asking for our advice if you've obviously no intention of listening to our opinions?
I'm sorry to break it to you, but your teacher does not fancy you.
At his age and your age he is old enough t... (read in full...)
My partner wants a baby too but won't talk about it with me. Tablets I can take to help me get pregnant?
Q. i want a baby but dont know how to go about it, i know my boyfriend wants one but he wont talk about it with me, i feel as if our relationship is falling apart because of it, is their any way i can take any kind of tablets to help me get pregnant? ...
A. 25 October 2007: I'm going to echo everyone else and say that you are far too young to be even thinking about having a child. I was expecting this question to be asked by someone in their mid twenties.
You're 16 or 17, you're either studying for GCSEs or A-le... (read in full...)
What will I tell Mom and Dad?
Q. Hi my name is Ashley. I have been seeing a guy named Adam for a while now. we are sexualy active and use a condom, but a few weeks ago we did not have any condoms. We had sex and he said he would be careful and get out in time. I am not sure if he ...
A. 18 October 2007: Pulling out before he comes is an EXTREMELY unreliable method of birth control. On top of pregnancy you could risk getting STDs, too.
When a guy's penis is erect, it starts to leak pre-cum. It contains amounts of sperm. There is a chance you coul... (read in full...)
I want to divorce my wife and marry her sister
Q. i had a chance to be with and tell my wife's sister that i am in love with her, but didn't. know i feel depressed and feel i've missed out on opportunity to be with someone that i have fallen in love with and love with all my heart. My wife and i ...
A. 5 October 2007: That's despicable. You should be so ashamed of yourself. Not only is that sick, it's fickle and you clearly don't deserve your wife. It sounds to me like you need to grow up a little before you get involved in such an important relationship that is ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I want a baby!
Q. i am 16 and i lost a baby with my boyfriend who i have been with for 1 year and a half my mam did not no i was pregnant and now she has just found out i am haveing sex and i really want to try for anouther my mam thinks it will spoil my life but my ...
A. 28 September 2007: Think about what you're proposing to us here. I'm sorry to sound horribly patronising but it's only this year that sex has become legal for you. When I was 16 I gained my first boyfriend, but there is no way on earth that we could have children... (read in full...)
Condom broke and he didn't ejaculate, any chance that I may be pregnant?
Q. hi,yesturday i had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke but he didn't ejaculated, is there any chance that i get pregnant?...
A. 28 September 2007: There could be a small chance that you're pregnant, as there are small traces of sperm in his pre-cum, which leaks from the tip when he is erect. Get a pregnancy test for your own peace of mind. x... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???
Q. i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...
A. 28 September 2007: No.
It is illegal, and could permanently damage you and put your boyfriend in jail for statuatory RAPE.
There are reasons there are age limits in place. You really must wait until you are physically and mentally ready for it- I'm sorry if it so... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me twice and has hi me 3 times... I've found somebody else, but I'm not sure where to go from here
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and hes cheated twice and hit me 3 times. he was genuinlly sorry but everytime i try talk to him about it he ignors me and the only person i feel i can talk to is another boy and now me and him keep sleeping ...
A. 17 September 2007: NO-ONE deserves to be hit in a relationship. Leave him.... (read in full...)
My partner of 5 yrs has left me. I am 8 weeks pregnant!
Q. My partner of 5 years has left me, I am 8 weeks pregnant. I have a daughter who believes he is her father and he has left. He has backed out of getting married to me and buying a house with me. We have been engaged for 4 years....
A. 17 September 2007: No offence, but it sounds like you're well rid of him. Any man that can do that is despicable... I know, as it happened to my mother whilst pregnant with me. Please, do not dwell on this... I know it must feel strange seeing as you were engaged for ... (read in full...)
He's been uploading pictures of his genitals to the internet and won't stop
Q. My husband hasn't been wanting sex much recently, and I feel disappointed. But today when he was at work I found out the reason.. he'd been uploading images of his penis and pictures of him in the nude to Wikipedia and adding them to articles...
A. 28 July 2007: The way he's treating you is disgusting. He's lied to you, betrayed you and undermined your position as his wife!
Like the other people have said, it's down to you for what you decide to do. Try talking to him, and keep persevering.
I know he ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him I'm not going to cheat on him?
Q. Trust issues with my BF: Ok, so we've been together for 11 months. I'm 18, he's 22. He's my first BF, and I'm the first girl he has lasted so long with in a relationship. One of his exes cheated on him with one of his friends. His father abandone...
A. 28 July 2007: You need to "accidentally" leave this page on the computer, showing the response to the agony aunts you just posted.
Either way, he needs to learn how much you love him, and that if you were going to cheat on him then you would be honest and tel... (read in full...)
14 and confused about whether I want sex or not! Help!
Q. i am fourteen years old and i want to lose my virginity to a guy that i really like and he likes me to and i am totally confertable with him. i'm just not to sure i'm ready for the pain of it. I have given oral sex before to two guys and i have done ...
A. 28 July 2007: What no-one seems to have mentioned is that it's illegal for you to have sex if you're under 16.
If this boy is your life, and he is willing to wait then PLEASE wait until you're 16.
You don't always bleed though- if you've worn tampons, or you h... (read in full...)
What can I say to him without offending him or making me sound like a pervert/stalker.
Q. I'm gay and in love with a clebrity called Tom Sangstar I've left massages on his website about my love the prbblem is should I tell him I love him when he chats to his fans on Tuesday or should I not? I'm probably never going to meet him but I ...
A. 19 July 2007: I'm sorry, I really hate to sound contradictory but in no way can this be true love. Sweetheart, it's just a fantasy. We all have them about celebrities- believe me, I've had my fair share. I agree with Jess and Anonymous, and I also think it would ... (read in full...)
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