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writes:Hi my name is Ashley. I have been seeing a guy named Adam for a while now. we are sexualy active and use a condom, but a few weeks ago we did not have any condoms. We had sex and he said he would be careful and get out in time. I am not sure if he did he grunted and I felt his penis throb then he pulled out and finished on my stomach. If he did not get out in time is this enought to get me pregnant, also after he finished on my belly he went back inside me is that ok or could I get pregnant from that too?I am so scaird and i dont know how to tell my mom and dad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): Hi, my name is Sarah and I'm 15. I personally have no sympathy for a situation like this. you should have known what you were getting into when you had unprotected sex. Not only could you be pregnant, but you could have an STD. I can't understand what was going through your mind at the time. Also, you are far too young to be sexually active. Regardless of what you may think.
Sorry to be harsh.
I hope your not pregnant. I hope things go the way you plan, I just think you made a bad move.
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reader, melodaea  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Pulling out before he comes is an EXTREMELY unreliable method of birth control. On top of pregnancy you could risk getting STDs, too.
When a guy's penis is erect, it starts to leak pre-cum. It contains amounts of sperm. There is a chance you could be pregnant. And the fact that he went back inside after he came? If you are not pregnant you are extremely lucky.
I'm disturbed to see your age bracket. The age limit is there for a reason, not only because of your body's maturity but of your mind's too. As misinformed as you have been, you should not have been having sex, because things like this DO happen if you don't wear a condom.
I'm sorry, but you have been horrendously foolish.
Please talk to your mom about this. Yes, she may flip out but at the end of the day you are her daughter and it'll be good to have her support. If you need to talk more, message me, okay? xxx
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reader, Aunt Lou Lou +, writes (17 October 2007):
 First off, book an appointment with your doctor. They will provide you with a pregnency test and also sit with you when they have the results from it. They can then guide and talk to you about your options if you are pregnent, and if you are not then you are lucky, and you will know not to do something like that again. The first and obvious rule is not to have sex unprotected. The guy only has to let a little out, and thats all it takes. Next time you have no condom, just engage in a little foreplay, and be satisfied with that. You can still pleaure each other without going the whole way and ending up in this situation. Don't panic just yet about telling your parents anything. It may be unnecessary worry. Know for sure first whether or not you are pregnent, and go and do this as soon as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): hi ashley, im 16 and i know exactly wat ur going through but what i suggust is go to a local supermarket and buy a pregnancy test and just go to the loo in the shops and do it there tht way u'll know whether you are or not and if you are u can decide how to tell ur 'rents and if not no harm done right and btw u can get pregnant from him pulling out then back in trust me i know lol.
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Of course you could be pregnant - from both of those actions. I am afraid you are going to have to face the consiquences of your actions - how could you be so careless, not only unprotected but under age aswell?!
You are going to have to either get the morning after pill from your doctor if it was less than 72 hours ago or speak to you doctor about other options available. While you are there see if he can provide contraception and condoms for you.
Other than that you need to tell your mom what has happened - dont expect her to be happy though but she may beable to support you at the doctors.
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