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writes:I'm gay and in love with a clebrity called Tom Sangstar I've left massages on his website about my love the prbblem is should I tell him I love him when he chats to his fans on Tuesday or should I not? I'm probably never going to meet him but I still love him and whant to tell him my feeling. What can I say to him without offending him or making me sound like a pervert/stalker. I don't know if he is gay or not? Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): hi I've told him and he seems to be ok with it and the cool thing someone who knows him has got in touch but i think i might have offended him and was wording how to found out if i have and what i should also i would to buy him a present to say thanks for saving my life but would that make it worse
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): I've been there... Lots of time. I seem to have some sort of issue with that, liking guys and thinking I love them. My first crush on a guy - I told everyone I loved him. They said it was a crush, but I said it wasn't. He made me feel happy, special. He gave me butterflies. He was the only guy I'd ever want... and it happened with the next guy, and the next. :/ My point is, I REALLY thought it was love, each of those times, only to realise it wasn't, when I finally got over them. It sounds like a crush to me... whether you tell him, it's your choice. Good luck. x
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reader, melodaea +, writes (19 July 2007):
 I'm sorry, I really hate to sound contradictory but in no way can this be true love. Sweetheart, it's just a fantasy. We all have them about celebrities- believe me, I've had my fair share. I agree with Jess and Anonymous, and I also think it would be offensive to Thomas, given you don't know his sexual orientation. It could really scare him, you know. Love is a very strong word and not to be thrown about without care.
You'd be so much better just saying something like "Tom, you're a very talented actor and I admire you for it."
I believe that would make him smile :)
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reader, i love tom +, writes (17 July 2007):
i love tom is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni`m going to tell him my ture fellingis becausce this isen`t just a crush its real love for the frist time in my life i fell human and happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): your young and need to think how you would feel if someone you didn't know proclaimed their love to you. it would sound in your head like the person doesn't know what love is.you cant love what you dont know, it sounds like you have fallen for an innaccurate perception of this person.it also sound like you are isolated and alone, maybe watching to much television or on the net alot(I am now so it sounds hypocritical) try and meet othe people your age who are gay to limit this aloneness that feeds this empty fixation. going for what you are unlikely to get is another way of punishing yourself by setting yourself up for a fall. i am also gay and it is worth stepping into the light. find a love closer and more attainable, far more real and rewarding because your worth it
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reader, JessAgonyAunt +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Hey, well find out information about him on google to see whether he is gay? being gay is nothing to be ashamed of so i would go ahead and tell him, i used to have a huge crush on Zac Efron but eventually i got over him and dated boys i can actually see everyday, why don't you try going out places and meeting new people so you can take your mind off your crush?? I hope i have helped can you please rate my answer thankyou xxxxx email me if you would like any advicegood luck babejess xxxx
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