Is 20 years too long to apologize after a bad break up?
Q. Is 20 years after a bad break up too long to apoligize? We had a really bad break up and I cheated on him. We had dated for about 2 years. I was not happy and he was so self absorbed he never caught on. I recently saw him and he avoids me. Turn and ...
A. 10 December 2011: Well if he is avoiding you he already has his closure. You clearly gave that to him 20 years ago. You are the one still looking for closer. Live with your choice. I say this with experience. I have had gals try to get back in or talk to me 16 years ... (read in full...)
He left money for me on the bedside table and left without saying goodbye
Q. Hi I met a guy at a festival and we had really good sex so we arranged to meet up again back home. We live different sides of the country so we met in the middle and got a hotel for the night. I was aware that this was just sex however what hap...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi OP Don’t listen to all of the bull you hear from men about this. One question I’m asking myself is why did he make the trip? That has me puzzled. But You didn’t and don’t deserve being called a whore or hooker or any other bulsht you ... (read in full...)
Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?
Q. I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as...
A. 18 August 2011: It looks like you got a few of the answers. Most people never check to see what people have said with this question I know you will check. Truth be told some of the answers you won’t get because you are anonymous. You won’t get a bashing from me but ... (read in full...)
Telling my lover he can't come to my home..will make him angry! How do I deal with this?
Q. I know I will be judged for what I am about to write, but I am just looking for open minded opinions. I am a 37 year old female, have been seeing a 39 year old married man. I was in a relationship myself (not married, but dated and lived together...
A. 26 July 2011: Do more than run. Get on a plane move do what ever you need to but get as far away from him as you can. He is very very bad news now and in the future.... (read in full...)
She chose her husband over me and I can't deal with it!
Q. My married girlfriend just told me that this is the end of the affair. I don't understand why would she dump me if I was there for her in time of need and always very supportive. She says she still loves me but she can not take the pressure that I ...
A. 30 June 2011: I’m in almost the same boat.
But for only 14 months.
This is what I’m going to do set a date 2 weeks. Tell her I will be at that spot in 2 weeks. Ignore or answer calls and say I will be at that spot on the date.
In 2 weeks you have your an... (read in full...)
Can guys really just be friends with girls, even when they have a girlfriend?
Q. I imagine the question is relative to every guy, so I would like your own personal opinion, plus your opinion on what this guy's true intentions are. Of course, I know they can't be accurate as you don't know him personally and truthfully, but any ...
A. 30 June 2011: Hi girl
I will tell you this.
I'm a guy. I have in the past and will have many female friends. They are good to have. One of them was even married and still is. We new each other growing up. Every body thought we had something going we didn't ... (read in full...)
My lover is married, how do I get people to stop judging me?
Q. I'm so fed up of people judging me for being with a married man. Once again my best friend has broadcasted on facebook that I am a homewrecker and my boyfriend will only cheat on me blah blah blah I started seeing this man a year ago but never as...
A. 27 June 2011: I think you two need to do what your hearts tell you to do. If they are your friends and family they will always be with you TRUST me. Maybe he will cheat on you but made he won’t. I know a lot of people that have been on both sides some still ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 22 June 2011: I need to know if anyone is still watching this question especially if you are a gal and has had or is currently having an affair.
I will be very brief. I’m a single man having an affair and in love with her. Need help.
... (read in full...)
Somebody please talk me out of cheating.
Q. Somebody please talk me out of cheating. I am married with kids ( marriage has become a little boring , rutine and very predictable), but I'm craving that excitement of the affairs. I know for sure I WILL NOT get caught ever, and I am sure I WILL N...
A. 14 June 2011: So it sounds like both gals need help.
I'm not sure what you need.
Here is my story.
I'm a single guy that has been having an affair with a married gal for more than a year. It is killing both of us
The promblem Is that I know it w... (read in full...)
So sad... How do I mend my broken heart?
Q. How do I mend my broken heart? my husband left me 3 weeks ago for another woman he has been seeing on and off for years. will their relationship last i so want to see it spiral down the toilet. i can't sleep or eat my whole world has ended. i feel ...
A. 12 March 2011: Hi girl
Do this make him work for you. By that I mean make him work just like he had to do back then in the beginning. Play hard to get if he doesn’t let him go. Not too long but just enough a few weeks months you will know. I say this because ... (read in full...)
Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?
Q. Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...
A. 28 January 2011: I feel your pain. I'm on the back side of it. I loved and am still in love with this lady for years even though we only hooked you several months ago. I asked mine point blank last week what she wanted. I thought she would say more time inst... (read in full...)
I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave?
Q. I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave? I have known this gal for about 5-6 years she is married I’m not. I have had feelings for her since then, the past several years I have been in love with her. She is ten year...
A. 22 January 2011: I have been seeing a married woman for about 8 months. I’m a single male. She decided to stay with her hubby. I do love this gal and have for years before this started. I love talking with her. We have weekend places very close to each other. This ... (read in full...)
I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave?
Q. I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave? I have known this gal for about 5-6 years she is married I’m not. I have had feelings for her since then, the past several years I have been in love with her. She is ten year...
A. 4 January 2011: Thanks for all of you input. I think I will give it a few more weeks then make myself not as easy to contact or find. Do you think she will chase me if so for how long? If it gets to that point I already told her no frienship. I think if I was her ... (read in full...)
| *bill48's friends
These are mutual friends, so *bill48 has
added them and they have added *bill48!
|
