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Competitive friend that destroys me emotionally
Q. Hi there, I have a friend that I have known since I was 10 and when we were little we were very good friends. She has always been a little jealous of me but loves me at the same time if you know what I mean? We are now 30 and we have always stayed i...
A. 18 April 2013: tELL YOU FRIEND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER ONCE AND FOR ALL.... (read in full...)
Experimenting SEX, and I am Virgin
Q. Okay, I'm 13 and I'm a girl and my girlfriend is 15 she tells me she wants me to get a toung ring so I can eat her out . But were BOTH virgins nd I feel that I should finger her first befor I eat her out but I don't know how to tell her or know if ...
A. 18 April 2013: Please think about what you are thinking of doing you are, only 13 years old still a child,having your first sexual experence it something that you will rember for the rest of your life weather its with a girl or a boy ,it is very importaint that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to move out....but stay together.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. When we first met I'd only been divorced 6 weeks. Spark flew but I needed time. We stayed friends for about 3 months until I decided I wanted to be with him. But now he was going through a tough time ...
A. 3 April 2011: To begin with, you entered into a relattionship far too soon, as you were only divorced six weeks when you met this guy. As someone who is divorced myself, it takes time before you would be ready for a new relationship, at least a year or two, if n... (read in full...)
Will I get bored with just one man?
Q. I have a rather complicated question, to be honest I think I am looking for reassurance rather then an answer. I have struggled for a few years with my mental health due to this I decided not to interact romantically with men,I knew that I was ...
A. 20 November 2010: Please do not listen, to whoever told you thisthey more than likley have not beening through what you have in your firht against depresion.You are a very brave person,and no you will not get bored with one person just take you time and get to know ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend really in denial about his drinking
Q. why is that my boyfriend gets drunk all the time he is only 34 he is a truck driver? he wakes up looking for something to drink everyday and wonder why our relationship has gone sour he blames for everything he is really in denial about his ...
A. 20 November 2010: Dear friend,
Its obvious from your letter that your boyfriend has seriously become addicted to drinking.
I am to sorry to have to tell you but the fact of the matter is that unless he realizes and accepts that he has a problem there is not much... (read in full...)
Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?
Q. I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manag...
A. 2 August 2010: I can see your point that you dont want to be rude,but on the other hand it might be better to be safe than sorry and not to reply.If you do reply make a point of asking how her her parents and family are keeping, that way your reply is not solely ... (read in full...)
Is the age difference between me and my future wife too big?
Q. i am 28 years an i will marry a girl younger than me by 7 years she is 21 ,is the age difference large or it is a normal age difference? ...
A. 2 August 2010: Age should not come between you,the most importaint thing is that you love each other. Any way seven years is nothing my friend is nine years younger than I am best of luck Max D.... (read in full...)
I feel unloved and useless ever since we have moved in together
Q. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years, we have always argued due to my insecurites, his ex, work mates and the amount of time he spends with his family rather than with me but since we have moved in i feel that i have become more ...
A. 2 August 2010: There is nothing as bad as feeling unloved specialy when you say you are trying.You say that he has become quite distant,have you spoken to him about if not you should.You also have to tell him that he is hurting you by the way he is speaking to ... (read in full...)
I think he's just using me for sex
Q. Hi All I think my boyfriend of over a year is using me for sex but I can't bring myself to dump him. He never has time to come see me unless he cames pick me up and we go to his place for sex. after that he wont see me for about a week till he wan...
A. 2 August 2010: You have to make this guy, understand that you are serious in what you are saying.It does sound like he is using you for sex which is wrong,the longer this goes on the mor hurt you will be feeling which is not fair to you.I do understand that you ... (read in full...)
I'm alright for sex but nothing else?
Q. Im close friends with this guy i met about a month an a half ago. We go clubbing together most thursdays and some saturdays. I realised i like him after a couple of weeks of knowing him. I got really drunk one saturday and was really flirty wi...
A. 2 August 2010: You may not think it right now,but there are some genuine guys out there,which dont use girls only for sex.A true relationship is built on trust,of course you were hurt by his comments and if it is bothering you that much then you should tell him ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 6 years has just left me...
Q. hi, my girlfriend of 6 years has left me. we have two beautiful daughters, one aged 4 and the other has her 1st birthday in around a weeks time. we have had a fairly turbulent but very enjoyable relationship, with a few break ups along the way wh...
A. 2 August 2010: Where to begin,to start with stop trying to contact her every day as you said yourself it is only making her more frustrated and angry.I understand that you are going through hell at the moment,but you NEED TO GIVE HER SPACE if you dont you will ... (read in full...)
Is this dermatitis?
Q. My boyfriend has bright red spots on the head of his penis but they don't hur or itch and I feel like it's raw down there is very painful. It seems like it's irratated. Idk what this could be caused from? People told us his sounds like ...
A. 1 August 2010: Hi there the best thing you both can do is go to your doctor,and find out exactly going th the two of you,the doctor will set your minds at rest and you will feel happier knowing what is going on.Max D.... (read in full...)
How can I change the way I feel about relationships?
Q. I'm 22 years old and in my 2nd relationship. My first partner was abusive and this affected me badly. My new partner is different however he is far from perfect. When I'm seeing someone I find that they occupy my thoughts for most of the day. I've ...
A. 1 August 2010: From what you are saying the relationship with your first partner seams to had an aful and lasting affect on your feelings and thoughts.Abusive relationships are something that is not easly forgotten.Have you beening to talk to anyone about the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?
Q. Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...
A. 1 August 2010: To begin with, when your boyfriend slept with his sister in law, he was not in a relationship with you at that time. He didnt really have to tell you what happened at all, but it speaks about the type of person that he is. As for telling his brother ... (read in full...)
I'm 34, he's 25 can we work?
Q. Ok, a few weeks ago, I interviewed for a volunteer position within my company and another employee entered the room to tell me about the opportunity since he just finished his year on the project. We maintained strong eye contact throughout but I ...
A. 1 August 2010: What do I say,well nothing ventured nothing gained,so go for it.Do not let age distroy something that could be great,it is better to have tried and lost, than to be left woundering what if,take care and give it a try Max D.... (read in full...)
Bipolar boyfriend, should I stay or should I go?
Q. My bipolar bf went manic 6 months ago. Before that, he and I were so happy. We had planned a future together. Now he's a total stranger and he's so mean! He's like the worst parts of himself. When this episode began, he said he wanted help and ...
A. 1 August 2010: what to do is the burning question,firstly you must ask your self how all of this is afecting your wellbeing. You said that his depression started about six months ago and it seams to have got progressively worse.Beening in a relationship with ... (read in full...)
My dad molests me in my sleep. What should I do?
Q. It started when i was 12 (atleast i think). I am now 14 and going into highschool. I moved in with my dad and step-mom when i was 7. And we moved to another house when i was 8. It started after my grandfather killed himself after my cousin now 16, ...
A. 1 August 2010: Dakota you must get help straight away,please do not wait a moment longer,you have to talk adult,if you have to go to you nearst policestation also you shiould contact childline and they will help you.It is not safe for you to stay in that ... (read in full...)
I need Edward...for now
Q. Hello, My mother posted a message on this site about me, here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-serious-concerns-about-my-daughters-mental.html She asked me to come online and explain my case to you all, seeing as she co...
A. 25 July 2010: IF Edward is helping you in you day to day life,then I feel he must be allowed to stay.please ask your mum to take you to see a doctor,it is very importaint that you have some support out side of your family.You did not say how old your brother is ... (read in full...)
I have problems with sustaining normal relationships...
Q. Ok well... For the past few years ive been dating differnt men and i always seem to fall for the ones who are no good for me. When i say this i mean players, cheaters etc etc your typical "bad boys". From doing a lot of soul searching within...
A. 25 July 2010: Hi there this guy seams to be very genuine,have you thought of telling him what you have been through, you might find that he is very understanding about what you have gone through in the past.As you said you do not want to go back to your old ways ... (read in full...)
My wifes was not a virgin how do I get even?
Q. hai, ok my wifes sexual past haunts me. Married 6 years and i am recently just finding out about her.i was a virgin when i married her and when we talked during our dating years she implied that she was pure. I came acros her diary and yes sorry i ...
A. 25 July 2010: It is a fact of life that everyone has a past,whats past is past,you seam as if you are holding your wifs past against her,talk to her about it and sort it out otherwise it will fester in the back of your mind,if your so worried about STD go to a ... (read in full...)
I believe this married man is attracted to me, too
Q. I am friends with a married man and have been for a couple of years. Our children are friends and we have socialised together once with his family at our place. We were to go to their place for dinner one night, but my friend told me his wife was ...
A. 25 July 2010: The only thing that I would say,is think very care fully before you act on any feelings that either of you might have.... (read in full...)
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