Is it a good thing or a bad thing to just have one child?
Q. Im 25 with a 6 year old son, i always dreamt of having more children however i am adamant the next child will be born inside marraige. The problem is i am still single and worry about my son being an only child. By the time i find someone to settl...
A. 19 May 2011: im in the same situation as you are. im 28 and my son is 8. me and his father split when he was 1. I havent dated anyone that i would have another child with either. And on the other hand if i had another baby,the age gap would be so big,they ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if I move on quickly from guys?
Q. What does it mean if I move on from guys quickly? Like a guy i really really like, could hurt my feelings and make me feel worthless. But i wont get upset over it, i just think i'm not going to let them get to me. Or if it doesn't work out...
A. 8 May 2011: Im like you. All my girlfriends tell me that I act like a dude more than a woman because of this. I always keep a plan B guy on the side just in case me and the main guy dont work out. I figure heys guys do it to us,so y not do it to them. And it ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has been unemployed for 3 years and its getting to me!
Q. hi everyone so heres the thing my bf of 3 years is unemployed hes been like this for 3 years since weve been going out . is it wrong that its getting to me now as i have to pay for things and he constantly beg money from me for ciggerets and when...
A. 28 April 2011: you're being used honey. im suprised uve stayed with him for 3 yrs! wow. as long as u supply-he'll stay. cut off his resources and see what happens-he'll dissapear. he doesnt love u or care for u-ur just a convenience to him... (read in full...)
Once a week is all I get. It's not enough. Help!
Q. help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is ...
A. 18 April 2011: He's with his child's mother. There are so many obvious clues. He doesnt take u out in public and doesnt make time for u,but he does for her and the baby. Let him go,find some1 who makes you top priority... (read in full...)
Do all girls smell fishy down there?
Q. hi, im having a very embarassing unusual probelm. my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, so he is the only person iv slept with since.. during our relationship or before it, iv never smelt bad down there ever. and now all of a sudden the ...
A. 25 August 2010: go see your gyno. it sounds like you might have a condition called bacteria vaginosis (bv). your doc will most likely prescribe you an antibiotic that should eliminate the oder and cure the infection. and to let all the men know-it is NOT normal to ... (read in full...)
Are his reasons for breaking up with me ridiculous?
Q. My bf broke up with me and the main reasons were that I get insecure because I've been cheated on in the past, I understand its not good and fair to treat him that way because of my ex bfs' doing and I was trying to work on that.. But now he say...
A. 21 August 2010: dnt loose weight for nobody. your height and weight together are normal. you're far from being obese. im 5'2 and 137 lbs and it looks so good on me. dnt let a man determine your self worth. you are better than that. i know you love him and its gonna ... (read in full...)
Sex for the very first time
Q. i am going to have sex for the first time tomorrow but am scared that his penis will not fit in me :S hellp please? what should i do ? ...
A. 9 August 2010: you have your whole life time to have sex. wait wait wait!... (read in full...)
Finding a casual sexual partner
Q. Why is it so difficult to find a casual sex partner? This guy I just slept with a few weeks ago, in the beginning we had an understanding that I wasn't looking for a relationship, just some fun. But since we had sex he has become clingy and needy an...
A. 7 August 2010: guys become attached to you quickly because you're independent and not clingy like alot of women tend to be. people want what they cant have. alot of women who say no strings attached become attached and clingy. men run to the hills with those type. ... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 7 August 2010: im an african american woman who is with a haitian man. he isnt circumsised. where he is from they dnt do that. he is a very good lover. as long as you keep it clean under your forskin,most women shouldnt have a problem. if she's a narrow minded ... (read in full...)
Would I be making a mistake to marry her?
Q. I will be marrying my fiance next year. I have discovered that in her past she had an abortion, had an affair with a married man and had sexual relations with several other guys. She also has the tendency to lie. She says she has changed but ...
A. 20 September 2008: Dont do it. avoid your divorce or your life of misery before it begins!!! Run!... (read in full...)
Im 16 hes 40, I cant imagine life without him so how do I get him ot marry me ?
Q. I wrote yesterday "So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! I'm 16. He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for ...
A. 11 April 2007: girlfriend move on! he's already married-ur just settin yourself up to get hurt BIGTIME if you stay involved.andif he did decide to marry you-he'll just try to control you because you're sooooooo much younger than him.you've got your whole future ... (read in full...)
Yesterday I left my bf of 3 years, but not sure I did the right thing, he puts drink and his friends before me but I already miss him!
Q. yesterday i left my boyfriend of nearly 3 years and moved in with my mum with my one year old daughter.my question is did i do the right thing. i have many reasons to leave him, he is controling, i do everything for him and it just isnt enough and ...
A. 9 April 2007: stand your ground! dont go back! its not worth it! if you go back you're giving him ALL of the control.there are decent men out there and in time you will find one.in the meantime.be strong,get your stuff together for you and your childs sake,only ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends mum doesn't like me!!
Q. im a 14 yr old gal. i have been with my boyfren for quite a long while... a few months already. we get along well but the problem lies with my boyfren's mom... she doesnt like me very much. i always call my boyfren when im free, but everytime i call ...
A. 28 February 2007: maybe you should tell your mother about your boyfriend of and have him try to reason with his mother.whats the worst that can happen?... (read in full...)
We split 2 months ago, he wasnt ready to settle down, now we are in contact again, I love him but dont want to get attached!!!
Q. me again been here before. basically i been split from my boyfriend for 2 mounths after a 2 year and a half year relationship. He wanted me to wait for him till he was ready to settle down, in the end i said i wouldnt put my life on hold for him. ...
A. 28 February 2007: i would say that if he's suggesting a hotel-he wants to do more than talk.he could've said a anywhere else but a hotel....dont trust him girl.he wants you back on his own terms.you are not some old dishrag that he can just pick up and use whenever ... (read in full...)
Has he had a change of heart??
Q. My ex broke up with me after four months of our relationship.It was very unexpected and it hurt me really bad. He is 22 and i am 24. He said he was too young to be in a relationship and yada yada. Well i slept with him right after our breakup ...
A. 22 February 2007: thanks for all of your advise guys!it really gave me some insight!im going to move on...there is some one out there who wants to have a real relationship with me and the sooner i let him go,the sooner i can move on.... thanks... (read in full...)
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