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51-59,
*amuel D
writes:I will be marrying my fiance next year. I have discovered that in her past she had an abortion, had an affair with a married man and had sexual relations with several other guys. She also has the tendency to lie. She says she has changed but sometimes she acts as though she feels no remorse about the things that she has done. Would I be making a mistake to marry her, am I setting myself up for disaster or should I give this relationship a shot. Please help
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reader, maofone  +, writes (20 September 2008):
Dont do it. avoid your divorce or your life of misery before it begins!!! Run!
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (20 September 2008):
 When in doubt. Dont do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): When you say "she also has the tendency to lie", preceded by a long list of before-you-knew-her events that give you real pause, I'd say you've got enough doubts not to marry her. About that tendency - is this occaisionally, or often? Small things, or not so small?..I can see a BIG concern with a marrying a liar who has had an affair and doesn't regret it. To me, the other matters aren't nearly such a threat to future happiness, but only you can make that call.
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