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Is this a big age difference?
Q. there is a man who is 11 yrs older whants to marry me ,,iam 22 and he is 33,,is it a big age diffrence??...
A. 12 April 2010: the age diffrence between my partner and myself is 15 years i am 21 he is 36 going to b 37 on the 16th. An age gap in a relationship only becomes a problem if you both feel that you are missing out on the things you want to do. I met my bfrienfd ... (read in full...)
Hormones playing about or pregnancy?
Q. Hiya, I'm quite confused because I always get my periods and there regular. Im on the pill at the moment however when I came off it for my period to start I got a tricle of blood and now nothing. I've been waiting for it to start again however it...
A. 27 July 2009: When i was on the pill my period came each time i inished a pack. But when i came off them it was a while before they became regular again. The pill can mess up your cycle remember when you bleed on the pill it is not a true period. Just wait a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend tells me I am loose "down there" what am I supposed to do?
Q. Before my bf i had little sex. When we started to have sex he would always say how it made him feel good that i was so tight it made him happy i didn't sleep around. Now, 2 years later i am not so tight anymore. We have sex quite a bit. He is ...
A. 25 July 2009: It sounds like your boyfriend is a total ass hole. I am sorry if this offends you but if he loved you and cared for your feelings there is no way he would say these things. I bet it is makeing you feel very self concious and a little worthless. Is ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my new employer that I am pregnant?
Q. Hi, I am happily married and my husband is a great guy. I just had a pregancy test and it is positive, however I am a bit worried because we did not plan to have a baby for another year or two and I have just got a job offered for a week and I am ...
A. 25 July 2009: uUnfortunately in life we are faced with issues and unplanned events. This is an unplanned event that you dident expect. I feel the same way i have just finished a 2 year cookery course payed for by my employer and now i am going to leave as i am ... (read in full...)
Why does it bother me that fiance masturbates all the time?
Q. I am together with my fiance for almost year and I can't get over the fact that he masturbates several time a day. I know already that it is normal for men to masturbate all the time, but we have sex a lot... some days up to five time and other ...
A. 26 June 2009: This may freek you out as well but i like to masterbate when i am not with my boyfriend. This seems even stranger as i am female. Just because i do this dosent mean that i dont love my boyfriend or want to have sex with him. It just means that i can ... (read in full...)
Am I old before my time?
Q. Im 25 years old, i dont drink much, i keep fit and im happily settled with my long term bf. Everything initially sounds rosy however since ive become happy and settled none of my friends want to know, i constantly try to organise days and nights out ...
A. 27 May 2009: No you are not a saddo and you havent grown old before your time. I think that you are wise and a good person to not use binge drinking to have a good time. Because if you need to get completely off your face to enjoy yourself that is sad. I am 21 ... (read in full...)
Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!
Q. my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i ...
A. 29 April 2009: last month my boyfriend lost his job and i dident know what to do. I was worrid because i would have to support him and help him. But i dident have that good a wage to do that. He signed on and we got a bit of help towards the rent. I had to lend ... (read in full...)
Porn - I want to be the only woman!
Q. I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...
A. 26 April 2009: i think that you are right to feel this way i would feel hurt if my partner was on the internet talking to women in cybersex. Cheeting dosent have to be actually doing it with someone you can still be unfaithful by lieing and flirting with another ... (read in full...)
How can I make my wife swallow?
Q. Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her n...
A. 26 April 2009: my boyfriend wants me to swallow in the year that we have been together i have swallowed twice. And i wont do it mainly because it tasts gross. No lie it is horrible, you should try it and see for your self. Popcorn honey and celery are supposed to ... (read in full...)
Air keeps going in and out of my vagina! My bf doesn'y mind but I'm so embarrased by it!
Q. Hi again, please help me I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years . We enjoy making love we do it almost everyday. But recently I started to notice that when we makelove there is air coming in and out of my vigina. It is so embarrasing as ...
A. 26 April 2009: dont worry it has happned to me many a time, its called a fanny fart. It makes me embarrised but we just laugh when it happens. The problem is your boyfriend is probley pulling back to far and letting air in. Try a diffrent position or tell him not ... (read in full...)
Why does he need porn if he has me?
Q. Iv'e just found out my boyfriend has been watching pornography and i feel betrayed and inadequate if he loves me like he says he does why does he need to look at porn?...
A. 26 April 2009: I need you to know something i am in a relationship with a guy and we have a good sex life. But i watch porn nearly everyday its unusual for a women i know but i watch the internet the films and movies. I think it is because it turns me on and gets ... (read in full...)
Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...
A. 26 April 2009: You need to decide whats best for you. Your boyfriend may say that he is going to support you and be with you but is he going to feel the same way in a few months time when the baby is here? I feel sorry for you becayse i was in the same sort of ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my english teacher.
Q. I am in love with my english teacher. There is a fourteen year age gap between us, so I know honestly that nothing can ever happen. I've felt like this for so long, and sometimes I just want to get over it, but othertimes it feels like I don't want...
A. 25 April 2009: When i was at school i had a crush on my excel teacher. He was about 15 years older than me and married, I fancied him for about a year and when it was time to leave school and start my exams i lost all feelings for him. When you are at school boys ... (read in full...)
Do women like to view porn?
Q. it is an old new quistion, please girls answer me i need more answers please GENERALY does women love to view porn?? because most of the girls that i know deny, while i am sure they do...
A. 10 April 2009: I must admit that i do like watching porn on the internet and i have lots of movies on dvd. I use porn with my boyfriend because it turns me on and i like some of the positions and the role play. We sometimes watch porn and have sex while we are ... (read in full...)
How do you ask a girl for anal sex?
Q. How do you ask a girl for anal sex? Iv been having "normal" sex for a while now and i find that i really want to just try anal sex with a girl. A lot of girls i know hate the thought of it and wud probably run a mile if you asked. But what is the b...
A. 10 April 2009: The first time that my boyfriend had anal sex with me he dident ask he just went in and god it hurt like hell. If you want to have anal sex you must ask your girlfriend if she wants to try it. Because if you do what my guy did she will probley neve... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to bring up the topic of using condom?
Q. I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy??? And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many ti...
A. 10 April 2009: Remember that it is your body and you are most at risk from pregnancy. He is the man and you are the one who may have to deal with the trauma of getting pregnant and deciding if you want a baby. If he wants to have sex with you then he must respect ... (read in full...)
Can all girls get a tampon on?
Q. Hey am 15 and I was wondering if all girls can get a tampon in. I have tried many times and I still cannot fit it in but my bf can fit his finger sort of in. Is this something I should be concerned of. Is this abnormal?...
A. 10 April 2009: Dear reader i started my period 4 years ago and still i havent got the hang of tampons. I dont like them so i dont use them. every women is diffrent so you just need to find the right sanitary product that works for you. If you like sanitary towels ... (read in full...)
How Old Is Too Old? Age Difference of 38? Is this right or wrong?
Q. Hi Readers, Please giver your opinion on this, Need Your Help/Advice! How Old Is Too Old? I Am 22..He Is 50..38 years difference? Is it ok for us to be together? Thanks. And, Can women have sex whilst on their menstruation? I have heard peopl...
A. 10 April 2009: I am dating a guy who is 16 years older than me. When we first started going out it was fun, exciting and the sex was great. But as you get further into the relationship you start to notice the age gap. For example i enjoy clubbing, going for beac... (read in full...)
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