Men don't like me, what can I do?
Q. I am getting so wary, in my whole life I had only a handful of terrible relationships, and because I prefer to be alone than in a terrible relationship I was mostly alone. I thought for many years that it was because of my looks, last year I even ...
A. 5 May 2011: I would suggest looking at a different type of person to the type you are naturally attracted to if you haven't already.
Date a different type of man. A smart intelligent type. Doesn't necessarily have to be pretty to look at.
Give other's ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to think that my wife and I might reconcile?
Q. My wife is divorcing me after 12 years.We've had ups and downs but no abuse, alcohol or drug problems. The biggest problem probably is depression in both of us. She is on anti depressant and I only started a few weeks ago, I'm 57 and know I should ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hi,
Clearly the problem is that you both suffer from severe depression, and I do feel that if you were both better then why shouldn't you be together in an otherwise healthy and happy marriage?
Most relationships have money troubles at some... (read in full...)
I can't seem to have conversations with people! I overthink!
Q. I'm an 23 year old guy in college, and every time I have a conversation, I consciously think of what I'm going to say next, rather than just listening to the person and expanding on what they say.My conversations aren't natural liked they used to be ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hi,
Sounds to me like you may have a "social anxiety disorder".
I would google it and decide for yourself.
If you do there are ways to overcome it, which also, you can google.
Hope I helped :)... (read in full...)
She is trying to regain my trust. Does she deserve a second chance?
Q. This could be sort of long. I met this girl in mid-December on a website. I had no intentions of ever getting anywhere with her. As the title suggests, we wound up in a long-distance relationship. After a little over three months, she decided t...
A. 4 May 2011: Go on give her another chance! she seems like she was just trying her luck with two guys, I am guessing she is quite young.. But anyways she obviouslly has some feelings for you so I'd give her another chance. Although I would make this a o... (read in full...)
I want to have a threesome but he has cheated in the past...
Q. I want to have a three sum with the man im planning on spending the rest of my life with. I trust that we can find someone that we are both comfortable with but... He has cheated in the past (we have gotten over it) an i have some issues with him ...
A. 4 May 2011: Yes it is a bad idea. Sometimes it's more fun if you just fantazise about these things. Sometimes the actual reality never seems to live up to the hype! Trust me Leave it alone if you love each other and truely do intend to spend life together. ... (read in full...)
I think her vagina has stretched following childbirth, is there anything that can help her?
Q. After natural birth of our son, her vagina makes fart sounds durng sexual intercouse and my penis seems to be a bit small. i think because of her vagina been streched during the delivery. Any help please, can she get help?...
A. 4 May 2011: Hi there,
Your partner needs to do some "pelvic floor excercises".
She can google it to find out how.
Some woman though do not feel confident they are doing them correctly, and so there is another option, she could purchase a "pelvic floor... (read in full...)
I forgave her, but I think she is at it again. What should I do now?
Q. i feel like my GF is cheating on me because she is not talking to me from last week till today..she is not replying me for my any messages on facebook..but she is chatting with others..but suddenly when i said hi today, she said "hi i love you, and ...
A. 4 May 2011: Hi :)
I feel you should break up with her, by the seems of it she wants you to be faithful to her, but is not willing to do so with you.
Either stay with her knowing that she does not really love you and will keep doing this to you until the en... (read in full...)
My boy friend sometimes just walks off and leaves me alone in a bar. no explanation. what do you think I should do about it?
Q. I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. Sometimes, when he gets in a mood, and we have been out in a bar, he has left me on my own at the bar. It's happened a couple of times. The first time it happened, he left but then came back a ...
A. 4 May 2011: How long have you been together, and do you love each other?
Some men cannot face confrontation, so if you were both arguing or something he would flee. Do you think this is the case with him??
Anyways, it is not your place to try and figure o... (read in full...)
What does his reaction mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy points you out for staring at him? Like, I'd sometime unintentionally look at my crush, and he used to stare right back, but now he'd be like, "What?" and it'd snap me out of my daze....
A. 4 May 2011: Maybe he doesn't like all the attention. He can probably feel you staring at him and it may be making him self conscious. He is probably a shy person insode.
So I wouldn't take it personally at all he just doesn't love attention from someone ... (read in full...)
Why do I suddenly feel so sad and betrayed when I see pictures of the Royal wedding?
Q. Last week as we all know, was the Royal wedding in England. Well when the news broke out of the engagement and i accidentally read an article about it, i suddenly felt REALLY sad and i guess a bit jealous. A lot of people may have felt that way, but ...
A. 4 May 2011: Hi there,
Sounds to me like you may want the same thing for yourself.
-Not prince William, or a royal wedding for that matter!!
But a romantic love story. Ask yourself, would you be happy if your bf asked you to marry him?? Would it make yo... (read in full...)
I think he still has feelings for his ex!
Q. We have been together for about 8 months. But even from the beginning I have felt he had feelings for his ex. She is gorgeous but she cheated on him and broke his heart. She seriously is the type that only thinks about herself. I have found messages ...
A. 4 May 2011: Hi there :)
I sympathize and can in a sense relate to your problem.
Personally from the information you have provided above the advice I would give you is this;- tread carefully.
By the seems of things your partner is being very selfish.
... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and haven't ever masturbated. Does this make me weird?
Q. Just a short question, I am a 16 year old female and haven't ever masturbated in my life because I don't know how to :/ Does this mean I'm weird? Or am i normal? Thanks so much to anyone who has any advice for me, i really appreciate it :)...
A. 2 May 2011: Hi there :) I do not feel you are odd for not "knowing" how to masterbate! You are most defiantly normal,.. I am sure there are many young girls and men in your position. Mu husband for example told me that he never explored masterbation unti... (read in full...)
I have some questions since several members of my family have "come out."
Q. Hi, Recently, all of a sudden 4 cousins. in our family have come out that they are gay. 3 boys and one girl. all in their 20's. its quite a big family. 6 aunts/uncles. So lots of cousins. I find it quite crazy, you come to terms with one, then...
A. 2 May 2011: Hi there, My advice would be try not to allow yourself to be overwhelmed by it all.. be grateful that your family is so close knit that your cousins feel secure in "coming out".. they know they will receive love from their family regarless of the... (read in full...)
I was told I had a covert schizoid personality disorder
Q. Hello, This may sound very strange and I am not sure if it is a problem or not. I seem to be able to relate to everyone or anyone regardless of age sex ethnic group etc and I have been told by people that they feel a connection with me. I don't...
A. 2 May 2011: Hi there, To me it doesn't sound like you really have much of a problem, If people feel comfortable with you that is good, obviouslly as long as you only have good intentions for people in your heart! Being empathetic, knowledgable and being a... (read in full...)
My mother doesn't approve of my relationship with a 34 year old
Q. I am 19, dating a 34yr old. My mother hates me for it. She says if my dad were still alive, he'd be dissapointed. She shuts me out doesn't want to listen to anything I say. I try and try but nothing. She compares me to a whore and says she'd rather ...
A. 2 May 2011: Why are they SO against your relationship, has he ever been violent towards you or anything like that??? Have you ever confided in you mother of a problem that you have had with you man, and so placed him in a negative light in their eyes?? ... (read in full...)
She keeps pushing me away and asking me to date younger woman...I'm at a crossroads
Q. Hi all, thanks for reading my question. I'm 32/m/Aus. I broke up with my ex about 4 weeks ago. We were together for nearly a year. She's older than me and being sick. Our connection and feeling was very strong from the very beginning and de...
A. 2 May 2011: Hi there, I sympathise with you, as clearly this older lady you love is extremely insecure about herself and it can be hard to be in a relationship like that. My personal feeling on the matter is that the older lady you love is trying to be sel... (read in full...)
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