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Sibling rivalry. What to do?
Q. Hi all, I'm at my wit's end, I don't know where else to go. I have a very strange issue of sibling rivalry that is not exactly sibling rivalry. I'll try to explain as succinctly as possible [warning: LONG] I live in a household where intell...
A. 2 August 2009: Uhm I got a plan. I'm formulating it right now. If you and you're bro are tight, then have him work on this with you. Just for an example, if you want a new phone, have your brother ask your parents for it, saying he wants it. Then have him give it ... (read in full...)
How do I forgive my wife for being a prostitute?
Q. We have now been married for 7 months. I met her at a bar and we started dating. She is a very good looking girl and 26 years old. Im 25 and hansome. I feel for her very quickly and we got married in 4 months. When we were dating i asked her what ...
A. 2 August 2009: Do you love her?
Yes.
Did she quit her job?
Yes.
I think it's safe to say that she loves you enough to get rid of her only source of income. And she quit after she found out it hurt you so bad.
But you need to think of her time the... (read in full...)
Was my instinct right about this?
Q. im very confused at the moment. 7 days ago my ex fiance from 6 years ago contacted via email to do this facebook thing. i was happy to hear from him because i thought at last it was a chance to clear the air from the past. we had a very bad split...
A. 2 August 2009: You know, maybe he just wanted to see how you were doing. I bet it was genuine. I would find his profile, send him a message, but don't add him to your friends list.... (read in full...)
I found out my crush has a girlfriend, but I still want to be friends! What should I do?
Q. ok, i just got back from church camp yesterday! There was this boy, Jared, hes super sexy!hes really nice too! he danced w/ me once too! I really want to be his gf, but hes already got one! I was sad when i was told that! I still want to be ...
A. 2 August 2009: Hello Cherrybell,
Ah, church camp.....those were the days.
However you have yourself in a bit of a pickle. The worst you can do is keep liking him. I would try to find yourself another "super sexy" guy to talk to. There are 6 billion people i... (read in full...)
Is my discharge normal?
Q. i have had a muscus like vaginal discharge i havnt went to the doctors becasue i am nervous and i think it might be something bad i researched and some say its normal but i'm not to sure it doesent burn or have a bad oder but i get self consious is ...
A. 2 August 2009: Can you be more descriptive? Is it clear, is it red? How often does it happen? When does it happen?
Knowing these things can help me help you decide what to do.
-LoveDocBruce... (read in full...)
How much do parents really contribute to their children's adult lives?
Q. My children are all 18 years older,but they are making huge mistakes, like they never learned anything good from us. We tried to teach them good values, but they are clearly not showing any good results, there is drugs and drinking ,trouble with the...
A. 2 August 2009: You know, the only thing you can do is be there for them, but there comes a time when you need to take drastic measures.
For the alcoholic binge drinking son, find out where he goes, call that place and tell them he's an alcoholic and you will pre... (read in full...)
Not cheating, but accused of it...
Q. I know I'm not perfect, and don't pretend to be. My girlfriend of several years is convinced I have been cheating on her, when in fact, I have not. What should I do? Thanks...
A. 2 August 2009: Hey there,
I think you should ask her who she thinks you have cheated on her with.......then call that person (if you can) on the spot, and ask if you have had sex with that person since you have been with your girlfriend. It may be awkward ... (read in full...)
Do actions speak louder than words?
Q. I'm quite confused here and I need help! I'm starting to like a guy at my workplace. He started flirting with me and I wasn't very interested. I thought he was attractive but I was still in recovery from my ex and I wasn't paying much attentio...
A. 2 August 2009: If you have a hard time communicating with him in person, then do it digitally. Right him an email saying that you can't say it in person, and tell him what you are thinking. Ask him if he is giving you the run-around on purpose, tell him you really ... (read in full...)
I feel hopeless... Is he ever going to stand up for me? Should I leave and try to find a new life without him?
Q. I feel hopeless, violated and disrespected I have been with the same man for over 7 years, also we love each other very much, of late it seems like nothing is happening. We have some problems, but three of the most prominent are the constant int...
A. 31 July 2009: Hello anonymous 30-35 year old,
Certain views have always been one of the main reasons why families hate the family member's partner. That's normal. What's not normal is your man not sticking up for you.
That means you are going to have to... (read in full...)
One friend thinks we'd make a cute couple, the other one thinks I was stupid!
Q. Okay, i met this boy, and i really really like him but he's sixteen and i'm thirteen. We're really close though and he tells me everything because we can trust eachother with our lives. So earlier this week we met up town to just talk and stuff, and ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hello anonymous 13 year old,
Although I find your story a bit, creepy, I will put aside any biased thoughts to help you out as much as I can.
What I have to say is, as long as both parents know that you two are together, and they approve, th... (read in full...)
If two fingers hurt a penis is going to horrible!
Q. the other week i was at a party and ended up making out with a guy i like, he fingered me but he only used one finger and when he tried to use two it hurt alot, how can i make it looser? cz i'm 17 and wanna have sex but if two fingers hurt a penis ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hello,
I agree with sugar_sugar somewhat.
There are scientific and biological things you may not know. And don't take this a insulting your intelligence, please. Every body is different. Chemical reactions fire differently. Body's are grown... (read in full...)
Just want him in my life...
Q. We started seeing each other a year and a half ago. We have never been committed, and we have done a lot of terrible things to each other. I love him. I was finally moving on (because he started being really horrible to me) and seeing another g...
A. 31 July 2009: Hello,
The one you love is going through a very traumatic time. Unless it has happened to you, you couldn't imagine the pain he is feeling. Right now, if he wants space, then you must give him space. Grief works in five stages.
* 1. Deni... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to carry on and to hope that I'll feel like I did, or to let him go.
Q. Basically, to try and cut a long story short.. I was in an abusive relationship for 11 months, i got cheated on and there were kids behind my back etc.. And at 16, getting knocked out by your 'loving boyfriend' was pretty horrible :( as i finally ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hello there anorexic,
You have described an interesting scenario. There a few things you can do. And each one requires you to think about you. Not your bf, not your relationship, just you.
You ask, do I deserve this guy? Yes. Whatever happene... (read in full...)
So confused, sick and tired of my relationship!
Q. I'm really starting to get sick and tired of my relationship. I have been involved with this guy for three yrs. I love him dearly , but I have a trust issue with him and I am trying hard to get over the fact that he has lied to me in the past. When ...
A. 31 July 2009: You know, I hear this a lot from a lot of girls. The main thing to think about, and this goes for life too, is does he make you happy? If he doesn't anymore, then dump him. You may love him dearly, but he obviously doesn't. If he did, he would ... (read in full...)
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