Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?
Q. So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hello.
She doesn't need to pose like that, but some people are just like that. They sometimes don't mean any harm. I've been in exactly the same situation as you in the past. Although I made the mistake of not thinking it through, and it conseque... (read in full...)
My teacher just got tooooo close!
Q. Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling f...
A. 12 November 2009: You must tell someone about this. Ideally it will be someone who will take this seriously, and someone who you can tell everything to. A friend might not be such a great option as they might not know what to do, so I would suggest one of y... (read in full...)
Will I ever love again?
Q. I recently left my emotional bully cheating husband, and emotional I am frazzled and don't want anyone else.. I feel it would do me and my 4 children good if I was alone for a long long time... But I wanted to ask the aunts, if I do eventual...
A. 12 November 2009: You're 35 - of course your life isn't over!!
Think of this as the next chapter, which should be exciting. You did an amazing thing leaving your husband, and you should focus on that. Men will be interested in you, especially for your qualitie... (read in full...)
My teacher just got tooooo close!
Q. Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling f...
A. 12 November 2009:
Firstly, how do you mean she touched you? This can be read in many ways and you need to be a little clearer with this. But as she has made you feel uncomfortable, I will assume that it was in a sexual way.
You need to think of someone you ... (read in full...)
How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?
Q. ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girl...
A. 12 November 2009: To 'sensational' and everyone, the law in the UK has got tighter with regards to under-age drinking.
Even though we have advised you not to go, we do understand why you want to be there. Of course you want to celebrate with your girlfrie... (read in full...)
I really like a boy, he doesn't like me. Yet he tries to make me jealous?
Q. Hey all! I could do with some advice on a situation im in. Ill try keep it short! Well im 17 years old, and im in college. I was with my boyfriend for 19 months, but finished with him in september, because he had started to become abusive and also...
A. 12 November 2009: Hello.
It seems like you get on well, and you write that he has all the qualities that you would wish. You're able to speak to him. I say go for it !!
Don't waste time trying to work our what he's thinking. You like him, so don't be afraid ... (read in full...)
How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?
Q. ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girl...
A. 12 November 2009: Hello.
Could you suggest to your girlfriend to wait until your birthday to celebrate it in a club? Surely she'd want you to be there, legally of course.
Don't use a fake ID - it's breaking the law and it could cause extreme embarrassment if... (read in full...)
I can't sleep when my girlfriend goes to a party or drinks without me!
Q. i am extremely worried when my girlfriend goes to a party or drinks without me but my girlfriend says she would never do anything with anyone else and that i dont trust her enough, but i just dont trust the alcohol and other guys, ive tried to ...
A. 12 November 2009: Hello.
You're in a difficult position, but you really need to relax. Everyone reacts differently when they drink alcohol. Have you seen your girlfriend when she has drunk alcohol? Because not everyone becomes so drunk that they don't know what the... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?
Q. Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we ...
A. 12 November 2009: The rumours might not be true. But if they are, he seems like a complete idiot and you are much better without him. There will be a lovely guy out there who will be patient and caring and everything else you dream of.
Try to be positive and not ... (read in full...)
How is the best way to handle her text messages?
Q. Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello. She seems quite rude. 'She'll forgive you'? For what? Showing an interest? Don't contact her any more until you hear back. You might feel the urge to text her, but don't. Wait for her now. Good luck ! ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't know if I want to be in this relationship any more... I'm so confused.
Q. I've been with my bf for 6 months and we've been having some issues recently. Our relationship has been really intense from the start and in all honesty I believe this is the most serious relationship he's ever had. His last long term gf was 3 year ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello, You say that you don't feel like you're 'that bothered'? That suggests that you're not motivated to stay in this relationship. With reference to the dating website, did he do it so that he would feel desired by other people, or was ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to give him a hand job in case I do it wrong!
Q. I'm 17 and i've only ever kissed and made out with guys. I'm now going out with this guy who's 18 and more experienced and i want to give him a hand job, but i dont know how to do it and i'm scared he might judge me if i do it wrong. Should i tell ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello.
Clearly you're not comfortable with the situation. Until you are, you shouldn't think about taking the relationship to any higher level.
There is no rush to move quicker, he's only 18 and experience doesn't count for much. If he's ge... (read in full...)
Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?
Q. Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello.
We all meet people who won't mind their own business, and upset us because of it. Clearly you're annoyed at them, but you're right to try and ignore it. You seem clever enough to see through them and what they're doing, so take comfort ... (read in full...)
How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?
Q. I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello. Why would he feel uncomfortable if you began dating? And why would it be wrong to date this guy? Physical appearance should not determine who we date, and although some people may not be able to look beyond appearance, it seems like... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?
Q. Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we ...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello, You need to tell him that you're sorry if you think that the mistakes he makes are small. It's always best to be open with your boyfriend. But what 'small mistakes' are you referring to? Although they may seem insignificant, if they make... (read in full...)
Will our relationship last if he moves half way across the country?
Q. heres the scenario.. We are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years. I switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our f...
A. 11 November 2009: Firstly, you do not seem naive. You seem very mature to be even thinking about these types of things.
I'm in a LDR and have been for a year now. My boyfriend lives on an island which is an hour flight away, and we can't see each other as much as ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to communicate better with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi Guys, I recently started going out (i think...!) with one of my very good friends, and I guess that means things are changing (obviously and hopefully). I (surprisingly, as I'm a girl) have lots of trouble talking, like properly TALKING about fe...
A. 11 November 2009: Hello Mervy,
Lots of people, both female and male, can have trouble speaking about feelings and making eye contact. Personally I used to have trouble looking people in the eyes! I gradually made myself do it, and I got better at it. I made mys... (read in full...)
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