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In love with my best friend! It's a FWB.

Q.   I have a very close male friend with whom there have lately been some 'benefit' action. He always warns me not to get attached and that it's just a FWB situation but truth is, I am attached. I can cope with not being his girlfriend, our friendship ...

A.   18 January 2010: best friends don't stay best friends for long. But seriously. He aint worth it. Why is it convenient for him to just have it when he wants it :S he's obviously using you. It's meaningless. ... (read in full...)

I fancy my best friend's ex!!!

Q.   ok so i've been kissing on my best friend's ex of 3 weeks not alot but yea he came up to me and kissed me one day after 2 weeks of there break up and since then we been kissing and stuff for almost 2 weeks i like him before and i told her that and ...

A.   12 January 2010: You can't run from your feelings. But it does hurt when a best friend goes off with an ex. It's happened to me on numerous occasions. But; sit down and talk to her. And see what he has to say. Theres no point loosing a friend over a guy whos just ... (read in full...)

He's probably just using me on the weekends

Q.   Hi.. I really like a guy I work with.We get on great and always have a laugh together when we go out in town.Were always textin and I've really fallen for him in the last couple of weeks.Hes in college an I'm still in secondary school,but hes kind...

A.   9 January 2010: it seems that you'd rather share him than not be near him at all. But you shouldn't allow yourself to be known as second best. You should want more than that, but not with him, and i think that seems to be your weakness, if he can have two girls at ... (read in full...)

She broke up with her b/f and I've been waiting for this!

Q.   my friend had just been dumped by her boyfriend, and i have liked her for a long time now, however i want to know how she feels about me before asking her out, and if i do ask her out, how should ido it? i dont want to look a fool and then she ...

A.   9 January 2010: i think it's sweet that you've waited. But it's not as easy as you think. You need to be there for her emotionally, but only as a friend at this stage; obviously she's going to be hurt and the best thing now is for her to know someone other than her ... (read in full...)

I'm in a muddle with boys! Help!

Q.   I guess i should start from the beginning, i like this boy, but he knows i used to like his rother, maybe this is why he can't be serious when i have asked him out before. but i just can't stop thinking about him, maybe he thinks i'm going to use h...

A.   9 January 2010: Strange; but i was in the exact situation. Brothers and then the friend thing, and i was just as much confused! i think what you should do is definately tell the one you like how you feel. If you don't ask, you don't get? You never know, the ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of calling off the wedding! I'm tired of his moods!

Q.   Hello We are getting married this July and been together 15mths. We have a house together. Things have always been turbulent in our relationship. When we met he got made redundant and had to get a job on less money miles away so he has to get...

A.   9 January 2010: He sounds like he needs help. i don't think you should call off the wedding. But i do think you need to sit down and talk to him, to tell him that it's hurting you too. Surely he'll understand. Tell him how you feel, and that you're there to support ... (read in full...)

Girl wants to have unprotected sex with me and I'm only 14!

Q.   I am 14 and a girl i kno wants me to hav sex with her i am about 5 inches when erect and uncircumsised i am a virgin and she is not ... she wants to do it unprotected and hav a kid ... confused :S help pls...

A.   9 January 2010: DON'T DO IT?! Jheeeeez. You're only fourteen. You have your whole bloody life ahead of you. This chick needs help. Jheez you don't wanna be lumbered with a baby! You're still a child yourself. DO NOT DO IT. serious. Everyone else will agree!... (read in full...)

Losing virginity to stranger?

Q.   I'm a female and I'm 18 and a virgin. I was recently on craigslist because i want to find some one to have sex with me. I'm sick of being a virgin cause I'm always horny and i just can't take it anymore. So is it wrong to lose your virginity to a ...

A.   8 January 2010: My friend lost her virginity to a stranger and she said that she would much rather have lost it that way than to someone she loves, simply because she felt she wasn't strong enough to deal with the heartbreak afterwards. However i'm still a virgin. ... (read in full...)

I have a bucket list about sex

Q.   so i'm young. but ive already done stuff, witch was a mistake i got caught up in the moment. and i really regretted it. but now i have this "bucket" list all these things i would like to do before i graduate high school. abd there are a few sexual ...

A.   8 January 2010: why should you have to push all these things before you leave school? To be honest i don't think you should!! You've felt what it was like the first time around. i'm sixteen, and i'm still a virgin. i notice that girls can be easily manipulated by ... (read in full...)

Is this girl interested in me that I know from high school?

Q.   Foremost, I am a male and obviously can't ask friends for relationship advice if it doesn't apply to me "getting laid". A girl recently got in touch with me out of the blue and I was wondering if she may be interested in me. Ok, here's the sich. I ...

A.   8 January 2010: Follow your heart. isn't that the key to most things? Personally i would be rather annoyed that she texts all this time later. And i'd confront her asking 'why now, why has it took you so long for you to text just because it's convenient for you?' ... (read in full...)

Is it normal what I'm doing/feeling?

Q.   Hello, I'm 15 years old and I look at pictures of naked women online sometimes, which I like very much :/ and also when I'm out shopping and I pass a lingerie section, I always stare at the models, quite aroused. But the thing is I'm totally into ...

A.   8 January 2010: i'm the same age as you. i haven't actually been in this situation myself. But it's natural. We often get confused about our emotions. But it will all fade out naturally and as we get older realise who we are actually attracted too. You shouldn't ... (read in full...)

Marine guy has my number but he hasn't called!

Q.   Hi there, On Tuesday I was with my cousin and friend having a couple drink at this restaurant. A group of 6 guys come in and sit on 3 tables behind me. One of the guys that came in was really cute and I liked him. My cousin was sitting in ...

A.   8 January 2010: Seems like a tricky situation if you're asking me. You can wait around for him, but if it takes longer than two months. there's a problem. You shouldn't have to wait until he calls just because it's convenient for him! i wouldn't give up, but i ... (read in full...)

Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?

Q.   Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...

A.   8 January 2010: Personally, i don't think you can love two people at the same time. i think it's confusion as emotions do tend to take over and some people do not know what they want. You can't love two people, simply because that cannot be 'real love' your mind ... (read in full...)

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