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He's probably just using me on the weekends

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Question - (9 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *overnotafighter writes:

Hi..

I really like a guy I work with.We get on great and always have a laugh together when we go out in town.Were always textin and I've really fallen for him in the last couple of weeks.Hes in college an I'm still in secondary school,but hes kind of with someone and when hes not in college with her hes constantly hugging me and kissing me and tellin me he likes me.

I realise hes probably just using me at the weekend but im not too sure if im comfortable with him using me just for a weekend how do i tell him i want more from him..??

xxx

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A female reader, Lorenn. United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

it seems that you'd rather share him than not be near him at all. But you shouldn't allow yourself to be known as second best. You should want more than that, but not with him, and i think that seems to be your weakness, if he can have two girls at a time what stops him from wanting more? if you want my opinion i'd get out of that situation as fast as you approached it. You can do so much better! leave him to it, let him mess around with her heart. Not yours!

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A male reader, Spear South Africa +, writes (9 January 2010):

It's simple unless you are capable of telepathy your gonna have to ask him what his intentions towards u r guessing will get you nowhere fast.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

He is using you, and it's not worth telling him how you feel, because you can do better than a guy who uses you for nothing more than the weekend and is seeing someone else. Don't accept a guy who is second best.

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