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I'm 14 and I am thinking of giving him my virginity on Valentine's Day! Got any sex tips?

Q.   hello i 14 and still a virgin, by bf is 16 cummin on 17( not a virgin) i reali reali lyk im n we av been totching each other and so on, n he sed e wud neva kiss and tell (all his mates say e wodnt as well) i thinking of losin my virginity to him on ...

A.   4 February 2007: guys give it a rest! this is supposed to be an agony aunt page not where you can express your own views on others. if shes gunna do it shes gunna do it regardeless of what you lot say. basically chicken if you really want to do this and ure 100% ... (read in full...)

If somebody was raped are they still a virgin??

Q.   If some one was raped and they never has had sex before would they still be a virgin. When you ask poeple that know what has happened then if you try to talk to them they just say what you want to hear so it dosen't upset you and not wat they think ...

A.   4 February 2007: I agree completely a friend of mine was raped when she was 13, but she says the first time she truely had sex was with her boyfriend when she was 16. the time before was she rape, not sex.... (read in full...)

Some advice for a virgin please!

Q.   Hi me and my girlfriend tried to have sex a couple of days ago but i couldnt get it in .... are the any positions that will help us two virgins?...

A.   4 February 2007: relax relax relax! harder than it sounds, keep trying and maybe use lube? be careful though some lube doesnt work with condoms so dont go using cooking oil or anything! dont set a date for sex just do it when ure both horny enough. xxx... (read in full...)

I've only just lost my virginity but he says I'm too loose and he can't feel anything!

Q.   ok girls, I need some advice on a delicate subject ... Me and my bf started sleeping together a few weeks ago - first time for both of us. the problem is that i'm worried about whether there might be something wrong with me, and since he's my fi...

A.   4 February 2007: christ, ure probably tighter than anything, i agree with these guys, he sounds like a dick (no offence). and probably has a small penis... xxxx... (read in full...)

I'm worried to sleep with my boyfriend because I'm worried about how my labia minora's look!!

Q.   I need your advice, im 17 and thinking about sleeping with my bf for the first time. the problem is im really embarressed as i have large labia minora's that hang down outside the lips of my vagina. Im really insecure about them and i dont know what ...

A.   4 February 2007: think about it, penises are the most disgusting looking thing ever invented, be glad uve not got one of those!! dont stress, porn stars are to blame for this insecurity, boys dont care, fanny is fanny at the end of the day (if ure american i ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and want to have sex but i'm scared of getting pregnant!

Q.   Im 14, and my boyfriend and i want to have sex both were both scared that i will get pregnant so what should i do?...

A.   4 February 2007: i know how you feel! i was so nervous my first time that i made my boyfriend fill the condom with water to make sure there were no holes! if your that worried why not go on the contraceptive pill (i dont know if ure allowed to do tht where you live ... (read in full...)

I'm 31 and still a virgin. My boyfriend wants us to have sex but I'm scared! Please help.

Q.   Hi guys and gals, please help me! i've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months. I'm 31 and still a virgin he's 28 and slept with 27 girls. 3 of them long term, and has an 8 year old from his first serious relationship. He knows i've never had ...

A.   4 February 2007: doctors are professionals they deal with sex everyday, no one is going to laugh at you! everyone builds up sex and the longer you wait the more terrifying. its nothing to worry about. i doubt it would be painful for you and if ure worried about ... (read in full...)

My friends are all having sex and I've never even been kissed!

Q.   I am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. All my friends are now having sex and i have never even kissed one. They always tease me and i dont like being round them when they are talking about things like that. Do you have any suggestions about ...

A.   4 February 2007: I had exactly the same problem. chill out. dont worry about it. if someone teases you laugh it off, there immature and one day theyll realise it. try NOT to build sex up into something scary, trust me its not! but go with the flow do it when your ... (read in full...)

Foreplay, cum, fantasy etc, etc...Explain all these 'sex' words to me?

Q.   what is fore play?..fantasy a girl?..is orgasm same thing as cum?..how do you know when you orgasm?..what is all this sex words!!..i dont get it!! plz explain! tnx!...

A.   4 February 2007: I dont know if its different where you live (im in uk) but a man can come as in orgasm and we also refer to sperm as 'come'. ... (read in full...)

Can't get over my ex (even though he can be mean)...

Q.   hi im a teen and i get upset every night thinking of my x boyfriend since we have not been together we have done things you would do if you was together and a few weeks after we did somthing together he went out with someone else and we have done ...

A.   4 February 2007: aha, everyone feels like this. there an absolute ******* to you and yet you cant quite get over them. i still feel the same about some of my exes. itll take time, im not going to tell you to get over t cos u cant. find a nice new boy to take ure ... (read in full...)

I need details...how do I kiss a boy?

Q.   hi, all my friends are going out with lads and kissing them(snogging) a lad has taken an interest in me but i feel that he'll want to kiss me and i want to kiss him back i just dont know how. HOW DO I KISS A BOY? i need details. from hopeles...

A.   4 February 2007: theres no manual, everyone just has to learn. one tip, dont shove your tongue in, its not nice, open mouth kiss (itl come naturally) and just gently touch tongues. have fun kiddo xxx... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my bf asked if he could take my virginity. What should I do?

Q.   im 13 n still a virgin. i've been goin out with my boyfriend for awhile. one day i was on the fone with him n he just asked if i as a virgin. of course i said yes. then i asked if he was on he said no.i said oh ok, cuz it didnt really bother me. so ...

A.   4 February 2007: I agree with the others, if your feeling scared you arent ready. age has nothing whatsoever to do with it, some people are more mature to have sex at 13. i was 17 when i lost mine but tht was because i was a late developer and was not interested in ... (read in full...)

About thave sex with my bf...so should I shave it all off or keep it?

Q.   Pubic Hair Horror, i am about to have sex with my boyfriend and i would like to know whether i should get rid of my pubic hair or keep it plz help x x x...

A.   4 February 2007: aha! a tricky one! when i started having sex i was quite nervous about this sort of thing, porn stars are to blame. in my honest opinion as long as you keep it relativley short and neat, boys aren't bothered. when you get more into sex then you can ... (read in full...)

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