Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?
Q. if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...
A. 17 August 2010: I need to be honest; when I saw your question I burst into laughter! I'm sooooo sorry.
Here's why: my parents have been married for 24 years now. My mom is currently 50 and my father is 63! That's 13 years, for the record! And their worst ar... (read in full...)
Is it a one night stand or rape?
Q. I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...
A. 17 August 2010: If you consented, it's not rape... o_o I'm afraid it's nothing more than having a hard time holding your liquour. That's called a black out... or he was so bad you're repressing it! :D Otherwise, the only other option is that something was slipped ... (read in full...)
If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!
Q. Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk ...
A. 17 August 2010: Hello. I have a suggestion. If your girlfriend is computer-savvy, there is a program called SKYPE! It's free to use from computer to computer so you could literally TALK to each other as if you were using the telephone. All you each need is a ... (read in full...)
Guy threatening to give my boyfriend proof that I cheated!
Q. I had an affair with A, a guy from work. And I called it off after 2 weeks, no more texts, phone calls, email, facebook. I felt really bad and guilty towards to my bf, because deep inside me i know it is not his fault that he has to work long hou...
A. 13 August 2010: You need to decide what to do, but there are several options.
- "A" might contact your bf and he'll find out from "A".
- You could sit your bf down and talk it out from start to finish.
- You could press charges of some kind and it will result ... (read in full...)
Sex while on her period?
Q. izit okay to have sex with my gf while shes on her periods? most of my friends do, and im not sure i would do that couse i think she might get hurt or something. izit okay and what bad thing could happen if we did? thanx ...
A. 13 August 2010: Talk to her first. See if she even wants to.
I hope you don't mind my complete honesty, but I find that release during my period helps me with my discomfort! Most women have pain from periods due to cramping or bloating. The release of the horm... (read in full...)
Live in partner has been looking at porn!
Q. The other day I was going into my history because I was searching for a holiday and forgot the website I found one on. My partner and I share the laptop and while I was in the history I was shocked and disgusted to see a free pornographic website ...
A. 13 August 2010: I see both sides of this. Before I start, I do have one thing to say and I apologize if this offends: If he was having an affair, he wouldn't have time or need porn! He is being faithful to you, but we are human and our bodies have primal biological ... (read in full...)
Could my mates be right? Does he have feelings for me?
Q. Hi, my friends reckon this guy friend of ours likes me but im unsure. I always thought of him through noticing the past that if he likes someone he will always talk to them try to be around them, although hes never actually asked them out or liked ...
A. 13 August 2010: Maybe you should try talking to him. Does he dodge your approach? If not, try striking up a conversation, maybe even in tease. "Got some big secret I can't know about?" :D If he doesn't reach out to you and you aren't reaching out to him either in ... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to make out of what she said?
Q. What does this mean. "I love you, I'm in love with you, but I don't love you as much as a wife should love you?" I kind of understand it, but she's really upset with me right now. Shouldn't this be expected? A marriage counselor that we saw s...
A. 13 August 2010: As a woman, I can assure you that we are very complex creatures: we often portray very self-assured women while being terribly insecure. Maybe you could help assure her. Maybe it's a insecurity thing. The question "what makes you think that?" might ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure what I need to fix?
Q. Hi, I wonder if someone could help me I don't know what happened/ is happening with this guy, could someone please help? Until saturday he was just a friend,we talked everyday but we hadn't met up since the day we met two months prior at a party...
A. 13 August 2010: If he uses facebook, why not try writing him a real note? Proper english, fully structured, the whole shebang! I think you need to let him know that you were a little out of it on date night because you were so tired and, maybe that's the reason, ... (read in full...)
Are there signs here that he likes me?
Q. Hey everyone.. im just back from my hols and my older sister invited her boyfriend as well.. and i think he likes me.. im not sure.. Okay so here are a few of the things he did.. When ever i sat beside him he would always smile at me..and when he ...
A. 13 August 2010: It's very hard to deal with someone who is with a sibling at the moment. I have a rough sketch in my head that I'll share with you of how I would handle it.
"You know, you're a really nice guy. My SISTER has pretty good taste. Speaking of which, h... (read in full...)
No love in sight!
Q. I am a single mom, and was in a horrible relationship with my child's father. To the extent that he is still talking his talk 4 yrs after he has moved out. This bothers me so much that I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone. ...
A. 13 August 2010: You will absolutely find someone! A mate comes in different kinds of packages. The best advice I ever heard came from a movie: "I married my best friend!" That's what you need to start with; a best friend who knows the score and is willing to help ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I am falling in love with him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now and the physical chemistry between us is now very strong. I did not notice his attraction towards me for some time. He has been doing loads of things to help me. My question is that we seem to ...
A. 13 August 2010: Direct might be hard, but you can be a little subtle. "I'm moving away, but I really like you and would really like to keep in contact. Maybe we could arrange to go out Friday nights..." or whatever! I had a guy problem: I liked him, but I was ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to throw in the towel. Should I leave?
Q. I'm ready to throw in the towel. Should I leave? Our house is in foreclosure for the 2nd time. Our Gas (hot water) was disconnected for the 3rd time. Not to mention the other times that our water, trash, electric, phone and cable services have bee...
A. 13 August 2010: OMG! I would SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO be out of there! My dear woman, you are a hard-working, self-motivation confident and SMART woman. Emphasise on SMART! Get smart! Take what you can and sell it! The rest, you move out and, if you can swing it, take ... (read in full...)
My daughter's friend never invites her over! Tried talking to the Mom, but no luck! Advice?
Q. I helped someone out with her daughter a lot in the past, and we became friends. We invited her daughter over a lot. She never, ever reciprocated. But she didn't invite other girls either. Recently they have been inviting other girls, especially ...
A. 13 August 2010: Feeling Hurt: I think that you should be perfectly honest with your daughter. Tell her: "Honey, I notice you never go visit at ____'s house. Is there something wrong at school?" That really is pretty much the best way to put it. At this point, the ... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex but now he's dating someone else! Any advice?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. A week after he broke up with me he started to date this girl. And my head is getting mix messages cause he's getting his friends to talk to me and ask questions about this guy I'm kinda ...
A. 13 August 2010: Based on your description of his actions, I'm definitely thinking he's still in love with you. Here's my suggestion:
You need to tell him you still love HIM! And, that although you don't want to come between his family & friends and him, you can'... (read in full...)
Is he distant because of his tour of duty, or because he doesn't love me?
Q. Ok, I know this is rather lengthy so I apologize. But please read it, I need the insight. thanks. I've been in a LDR with a guy for about 4 months now. For the first couple months we talked practically everyday. We're long distance because...
A. 13 August 2010: I don't think it's wrong to look around online if he's being stubborn! :D However, I have a little opinion about his side of the story... He was growing distant and you said he got really messed up. Well, all this time over there, he's probably been ... (read in full...)
Scared I might be pregnant though I had my periods after a dry-humping session.
Q. A little over a month ago, my boyfriend and I dry humped. He was naked and I had on panties. Three days later my period came on the day it was supposed to, but it was on and off. The next month my period came three earlier and it was on and off. ...
A. 13 August 2010: By a month later, if you were pregnant, you'd be getting positives. And two periods? :S If you have had ANY period (that is a flow of blood even if only a little and not just spotting), it means what little blood you had lining your uterus is gone ... (read in full...)
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