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writes:Hi, my friends reckon this guy friend of ours likes me but im unsure. I always thought of him through noticing the past that if he likes someone he will always talk to them try to be around them, although hes never actually asked them out or liked them enough to.When we go out hes the total opposite with me so i dont know what makes them think he feels this way. He makes no speical effort to sit or talk to me. Infact he always, where possible goes and sits with my friends and starts a conversation with them. He doesnt with me at all. Not sure why because we're all friends. Apprantly sometimes he appears shy around me but im unsure about that its just what i've been told. He has no reason to be. But he doesnt make the effort with me like he does with others..Could they be right? Does he like me? For someone who usually talks to anyone espiecially people he likes could he just change like that because i'm quieter than the rest?
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reader, LisaSE  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 Maybe you should try talking to him. Does he dodge your approach? If not, try striking up a conversation, maybe even in tease. "Got some big secret I can't know about?" :D If he doesn't reach out to you and you aren't reaching out to him either in return, maybe he's taking the lack of your effort as his answer that you don't like him. It could be...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Sounds like this guy has the ability of putting up a shield around his inner heart, completely. He does not let many, if anyone in, and you may be the very one, the only one, THE ONE, that has actually been able to "crack" that shield, and crack it completely open. Now, he is leary of you getting further into the shield below that shield, and will shatter his shield, and he will have to really throw up even more shields making him to be bout one of the coldest persons on the planet, if not the coldest. You are very unique, many have tried to crack that shield, and he has even let one or two to get a glimpse of the shield, yet no one has cracked the code yet. He knows without a doubt you have the key. No one else on the planet has this key, cept you. He knows that once you crack the first shield, you will begin to see him as a human being, and hardly no one on the planet earth has ever seen him be human. It is almost as if superman himself was walking the planet, and, he has seen supergirl, and what happens when two super people get together? Supergirl puts the "wwhooping" on superman, and he becomes human, and so does she. He does not like to be seen as being weak, he has always had to be strong. Once, many moons ago, he opened his heart, and there was joy. Then it ended. That day, shields went up, full strength, full power, fully defensive and offensive. Only you have the very special key, and he is very aware of that. You are the only one, the only one, that can unlock his first shield, which no one has not been allowed in there, for many years. He is afraid of the love bug, I guess you could say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Sounds like he wants to open up and communicate with you, yet he is not sure you will communicate back to him. Sometimes, as a guy I can honestly say this, we will find someone so strikingly hot, sexy, intelligent, radiant, ok smoking hot out of this world hot like the kind of totally untouchable, we just don't try for fear of rejection. Kina like the doorman asking out the hottiest movie actress in the world. You see what I am saying? Like there is a chance of at all to give him the time of day much less go out with him. :)
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (13 August 2010):
Maybe you are not the same as other girls you probably do make him shy talk to him first ask him what does he have planned for this weekend he see how his reaction is to you he will open up talk to him..ps.good luck!
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