I'm unhappily married but attracted to a female colleague. What am I to do?
Q. I'm 40, married (and as usual - unhappy, married with kid 7y) I'm staying with her only b'cos of kid. My parents were divorced and it was very hard for me (I lived with father) I have problem with my colleage. She is so young (30), nice, bright...
A. 23 May 2007: i dont think that its her i think that its u.....u and ur stalking the other girl is whats clouding ur views ....... get it together or there maybe a sex-herrasment suit on your hands....... (read in full...)
He's treating me the same awful way he treated his ex! Is he cheating on me too?
Q. Before me and my boyfreind were together he would call me every day, txt me goodnite, send me sweet messages, compliment me, talk to me all the time. he has changed a lot since we have been officially together, he hardly ever calls me or does those ...
A. 23 May 2007: if he cheated on her wht makes u think that he wouldn't do it to u ......... (read in full...)
Is his watching porn caused his lack of sexual interest in me?
Q. My 30 yr old bf likes to watch porn featuring 50 yr old women. He said it has nothing to do with how attracted he is to me, but lately has not been able to perform sexually. Im really afraid he doesn't find me sexually attractive and is just with me ...
A. 23 May 2007: yes maybe he might watch stuff with older woman but really be in love wit u .......as far as sex go play with him a lil...watch the porn with him see what happens...
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I have low confidence in my looks. Should I just dress like all the other girls?
Q. i don't think i'm pretty enough coz all my m8s and most of the girls in my yr all wear make-up and rolls their skirts up and i don't see the point of gettin in 2 trouble for it so i neva 2 it. and after nine yrs of bein bullied for the way i look ...
A. 17 May 2007: no hun always be u love urself....make-up is a mask real beauty is under that mess...im 24 and i never wore it because i have nothing to hide.....people who pick have somthing they hate about theirself..wake up and make everyday about you and not ... (read in full...)
I miss him and want him to move here with me...Do you think it was wrong for me to move because of my job.
Q. Do you think it was wrong for me to leave my mate and move because of my job. We are not married but very much in love. We have been dating for a year and some months but known each other longer? I cry everyday cause I miss him so I want him to move ...
A. 17 May 2007: if he loves u hun he understands why u did what you do .....life is all about making choices but don't cry go get ur man....good luck... (read in full...)
His ex gf wants him back and he let me go until he can decide what he wants to do! Do I have a chance?
Q. ive been seeing a guy for a few weeks and things were going great, until of course his last girlfriend came along and told him she wants to give them another go! he has told me he is confused about how he feels and until he decides what he wants its ...
A. 17 May 2007: my thing is women are just like men in a way..... like they break up then whoever they moved on with messed over on them the way they messed over on the last person and they don't like it. so they always try to go back with the last person for thier ... (read in full...)
Is a condom enough or should it be combined with pills?
Q. Is using a condom enough whilst having sex or should I go on the pill too? ...
A. 17 May 2007: nothing is 100% unless u don't have sex at all. condoms can break,u can forget to take the pill,but u seem smart enough to know what works 4 u ....there is alot of options out there find which one is right 4 u because everybody is very different...... (read in full...)
She slept with someone else just to get back at me. Am I correct to have doubts about getting back together with her?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up (mutually agreed upon) for irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either part. However, after I moved out (having lived together for two and a half years), I tried to get through the split-up as best I could, after ...
A. 17 May 2007: ur right theres too many doubts on both sides ....why even try to get back together when all you are going to do is keep doing things to each other? she didn't do that to get back at you ...she did it because she wanted to ......walk away cause all ... (read in full...)
Why do I blame myself for my husband messing things up?
Q. my husband thinks i dont love him but its the other way around he messes up alot but why do i blame myself? ...
A. 17 May 2007: he gives me alot to swallow all he do is lie he lies about everything even me he told his one babies mom that i was my cousins girl on the side ,and he told this brod he was using for her car that i was ugly but this girl looks like shreks butt ... (read in full...)
Does it mean that he likes me if he picks on me?
Q. If a boy picks on a girl does that mean the boy likes her or not?...
A. 17 May 2007: as children yes because they don't really know what there feeling or even how to say it but as adults they might just have low self-esteam and wants someone to feel as low as they do.... (read in full...)
I cheated on the exams, what can I do?
Q. i feel so guilty because ive just cheated in my exams at university. what should i do?...
A. 17 May 2007: tell the truth... (read in full...)
can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?
Q. hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)...
A. 17 May 2007: hun did u have sex-ed in school?i think that if your giving oral stop and read a couple of books. u can't be 4 real. do u even know what sex is?... (read in full...)
Should I stay and keep working on it, or should I leave?
Q. I am in a really bad place in my life. My husband and I have been married for almost four years now. I have two girls from a previous marriage (it did not end well, he was very abusive) and one two year old boy from this marriage. In this four year ...
A. 17 May 2007: us women go through a lot because when we love we love with everthing that we have and in doing so it's very hard 4 us to let go even if it's bad.i understand that u don't want to hurt ur kids but also understand that u are because the hurt and pain ... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: move in or break up... but he's still married!!
Q. I am 33 and my boyfriend is 39. He is in the process of a divorce (she won't sign the papers, and his attorney filed for a motion...) and he has 3 kids 15, 12, and 9. He wants me to move in, we are not engaged, tho he wants to marry me. He live 45 ...
A. 17 May 2007: why mess with a married man he has alot of things in his life that he needs to work out before he can move on with u so it should be the other way around he needs to clean up his mess so that u and him can be happy with no static.we all have ... (read in full...)
We've been married 19 years but my wife goes to clubs to meet single men!
Q. My wife and I have been married for about 19 years. She's 39 and I'm 44. For the past 6 months she's been hanging out with her recently divorced cousin (female - 44) and they have been going to nightclubs for the past 6 months about 2-3 times/we...
A. 17 May 2007: ur not being nice u just go with the flow and take everything she throws at u and let it build up speak ur mind because without u saying anything she'll keep doing what she want tell her cousin to go to hell find somebody else to go out with ur wife ... (read in full...)
I'm only 15 but my BF wants to stop using condoms and make me pregnant!
Q. Hi there I have been speaking to my bf and he wants me 2 have sex with him without a condom. He wants my kids but I'm only 15! wot do i do?...
A. 17 May 2007: i would not do it because ur only 15 u still have a lot of life ahead of you having a kid now could mess ur life up ur only a baby ur self focus on ur life goals and then a lil later in life have all the children u want be a child ur self than whn ... (read in full...)
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