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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Before me and my boyfreind were together he would call me every day, txt me goodnite, send me sweet messages, compliment me, talk to me all the time. he has changed a lot since we have been officially together, he hardly ever calls me or does those sweet things. he is really flirty and chatty with other girls just like he used to be with me. when we first met he had a girlfriend but showed a lot of interest in me and not her, he cheated on her and now i am scared that the same is happening but to me.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 May 2007):
 Thats just not true.....Once a cheater always a cheater. Ok so you made a mistake by going with him before he left his last relationship. That wasnt very nice, but then it takes two, and if he had been happy he wouldnt have given you the time of day would he?.
Whatever he feels like now, he is taking you for granted, So dont let him do it.
You are very young, and you need to make him aware of this or move on. Tell him nicely you feel you are not being treated right and if he cant make you feel special, you will find someone who will.
Be strong and things will change.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 i hope u didnt think his cheating ways will end as soon as he leaves her for you right? once a cheater always a cheater and the worst part here you enjoyed it while he was giving you more attention, im so sure now the attention is on someoneelse as the other girl is out of the picture. confront him as he is the only one with answers.
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reader, Nizza  +, writes (23 May 2007):
I think he falls in love with the fantasy, there is nothing wrong that you did. He sounds like those people who would be sexually attracted to women but immediately fall out of love because he got what he wanted.
I am sure he has a very low self esteem when it comes to keeping a woman..... u know non- comittal
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reader, LenaTobery  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 if he cheated on her wht makes u think that he wouldn't do it to u ......
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reader, DV1 +, writes (23 May 2007):
 It sounds like he's fallen out of love with you. You need to be upfront with him, and tell him that you have needs. If he's not willing to meet them, there's always another person out there who is.
DV1
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