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writes:Do you think it was wrong for me to leave my mate and move because of my job. We are not married but very much in love. We have been dating for a year and some months but known each other longer? I cry everyday cause I miss him so I want him to move with me. Did I make the right decison? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lovelife5887 +, writes (18 May 2007):
Lovelife5887 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have asked him serveal times to move with me and he states that he cant just pick up and move like that he have things to consider such as his job. But he is not making that much and he can make much much more where I am at. And I have applied for alot of jobs for him, and he dont want to right now. My job is better more money and everything but I just miss him, he miss me and we love each other alot. He told me last night that he will move with me before fall, but the problem is I have to make it there first. He understands where Im coming from and why I had to move, I think he is going to come but it is just hard right now for both of us. Then I dont think it is going to be as bad as I think because we is going to see each other ever weekend, and the days he is off doing the week he is coming to see me.Can someone give me some advise to cope with being alone and things I can do?
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reader, LenaTobery +, writes (17 May 2007):
 if he loves u hun he understands why u did what you do .....life is all about making choices but don't cry go get ur man....good luck
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 you'll discover that you will always make decisions which you wish you g=could reverse but the fact is you made this decission because it was the best decision at the time. accept that. as for your friend, have you told them how you feel, that you want them to move? and and as tiem goes on you have to make the decision which is best for you from here
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