Give the engagement ring back... or sell it???
Q. I was with my ex-fiance/girlfriend for nearly 4.5 years. Our relationship was very up and down, and I believe I never could make her happy. In fact, I don't think she's a very happy person at all. When we met, we were friends, her then 4 month...
A. 18 January 2010: The law varies depending on which state you are in.
States' decisions on returning engagement rings can be grouped into four types. The first group of states considers the ring a conditional gift. A conditional gift is one that does not become f... (read in full...)
I need an English name similar to my Chinese name which sounds like Melwhi Lam
Q. maybe it looks stupid to ask for help here because of my name thing anyway,my Chinese name sound like melwhi lam .and I'm a girl .in the past ,i usually teach others to pronounce my Chinese name .now it's the problem .I NEED A ENGLISH NAME.my ...
A. 3 January 2010: Hi There,
How fun! Not everyone gets the chance to pick their own name :)
For all the other aunties on here that are outraged that you have to come up with an English name I have to say it's hilarious how PC people are these days.... The OP ... (read in full...)
After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman
Q. Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...
A. 17 December 2009: You're probably better off without him if he hasn't been able to form a relationship with your son after this long.
The god business is probably just his way of dumping you without having to do so to your face, cowardly some might say....
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Is it possible for someone to have accessed porn because my router has no password? Or is my boyfriend lying to me?
Q. Hi there, I am looking for a little bit of advise. I have a very strong view on porn n I total hate it. Personal reasons of course. Do not want to offend anyone who enjoys it. Anyway, my boyfriend of 4 years knows my view on this but I went for a...
A. 24 November 2009: Your boyfriend looked at porn when you were out and he's lying to you about it. Silly thing to do but he obviously feels he can't tell you the truth.
I'm sure you realise that this is not a good thing for your relationship and it's probably... (read in full...)
Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women?
Q. Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women? I mean, I myself am a very insecure female, especially regarding appearance. I always have a bit of an internal freak out when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend and a naked, big bre...
A. 24 November 2009: I'd have to say that it all depends on the context.
Most women (myself included) go through a rough period during their teens when you get a bit insecure about your looks. It's only natural and most grow out of it in a couple of years.
It is u... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has genital warts, but I don't have them. Does that mean she cheated?
Q. my girlfriend of a year got pregnant over 7 months ago and noticed some warts on her women area and didnt take much notice now there a group of them. now she claims shes as not slep with no 1 else. and shes not cheated. the doctor as called them ...
A. 24 November 2009: Hello,
Genital warts is a highly contagious sexually transmitted infection caused by some sub-types of human papillomavirus (HPV). It is spread through direct skin-to-skin contact during oral, genital, or anal sex with an infected partner.... (read in full...)
She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?
Q. i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...
A. 23 November 2009: Just to clarify, are you actually in a relationship?
Judging by your post you've only ever been on a few dates, but you're still concerned by the fact that she might be cheating? Unless the two of you have decided that you're in a relation... (read in full...)
Work/union dilemma (non relationship issue). Perspective needed.
Q. I know this is a place for relationship advice, but I don't think anyone will mind me asking this. And the mod can always block it if it is inappropriate so here goes... I'm looking for a bit of perspective on a dilemma I'm having at work, and I'm...
A. 9 November 2009: Hi there,
I completely disagree with the other auntie.
Quit the union as soon as possible! They are very ill advised if they think right now is a good time to be arguing about pay raises - people are being fired right left and centre because c... (read in full...)
What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.
Q. I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...
A. 3 November 2009: There really isn't that much stigma attached to tattoos or piercing anymore HOWEVER it's very possible that your daughter will regret the decision to have one.
Ex. I had a tattoo done myself when I was 16, it was a very 'cool' thing to do and I fe... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 1 November 2009: Haha my god, this certainly made some entertaining reading.
In answer to the unwarranted accusations from rhythmandblues (why I always seem to attract the loonies I just don't know!). I am married and have been for a couple of years now. I don't ... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 28 October 2009: To rythmanblues2
Yes, I agree that what you are saying used to be the common opinion, no doubt you have heard or read about it and found the statistics compelling.
However, this really only goes to prove my point... Unless you are willing to c... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 28 October 2009: To rythmanblues2 I had a look at the article you suggested and have to say it looks like complete nonsense. Another wannabe love doctor trying to build popularity and a clientele by offering free marriage advice on the net. Empirical evide... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant...Help!!
Q. Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...
A. 27 October 2009: You are 14 years old and think you are ready to have a child? The fact of the matter is that YOU are still a child! I understand that you are against abortion but I think you should really re-consider this option. You are not old enough to be a g... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...
A. 27 October 2009: It is a very bad idea! Having a baby is a very big deal and not something for children to enter into as a game.
I urge you not to proceed with this as it is immature, irresponsible and a very selfish thing to do at your age. Wait until your mid... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 27 October 2009: I agree with the other aunties with one major exception. The idea that you should be engaged or planning to marry in the near future in order to live together is ridiculous and a very bad idea.
I think couples should try living together for at l... (read in full...)
What can I do to stimulate my girlfriend? She's always dry.
Q. Dear Cupid, My girlfriend can't seem to get wet for me. She gets in the mood but when we attempt to have sex, she is as dry as ever. But yet, she still can be stimulated by touch, but not MY touch. Why does this happen? What must I do to s...
A. 26 October 2009: Use lubricants to get going. If she's taking any medications (even just over the counter sleeping pills or cough drops) these can cause vaginal dryness.
Has she always had this problem or is it a new thing?
Try having her teach you how to rub h... (read in full...)
Is my friend correct about my hymen not being intact?
Q. I can fit my middle finger inside my vagina without any discomfort my friend said that this probably means that my hymen isn't intact, even though I've never had sex is this true?...
A. 26 October 2009: I agree with the other Aunties.
In these days (because women are so active) it is very possible that your hymen no longer is intact even though you're still a virgin.
Sports such as gymnastics, horse back riding, yoga etc are known to stretch... (read in full...)
Ladies: do you think guys that are virgins are cute?
Q. Do ladies around my age (17-23 I guess) think it's cute for a guy that's 19 to be a virgin? I know a few girls, one is 18 now, and she said she wants a guy with experience. But on the other end, one day when I was in class these "experienced" (lol) ...
A. 26 October 2009: Yes, I would say that it's cute.
At the end of the day though I would probably say that the whole virgin thing is a bit over rated, for women and for men.
I don't think it will matter a whole lot if you chose to stay a virgin or if you were t... (read in full...)
Has this man got narcissistic traits?
Q. Please i really need some help here to understand this man. I'm beginning to think he has Narcissistic traits but i'm not sure. i have been in a relationship with him for 8yrs,the trouble is he never says I love you or shows a lot of affectio...
A. 26 October 2009: Agreed, let this one go in favour of someone that will be there to support you when you need it. Best of luck L... (read in full...)
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