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writes:Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP
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reader, leannebabe09  +, writes (5 November 2009):
hello,
dont worry about it
im 14 and i never long had an abortion and know i completly hate my self!
do not get an abortion keep the baby
having an abortion ruins your life and makes you depressed,
i had an abortion in febuary and now im that depressed i want to have a baby
please dont have an abortion!!
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): i got pregnant at the age of 13 and i am now 15 with a beautiful little boy called Theo. It is alot of work doing your school work and looking after a baby even though i have my boyfriend, family and friends. Im against adoption aswell and wish i had waited before i had a baby but i wouldnt change him for the world. Just go with what you and the father want, dont listen to people who think being a young mum is stupid because i love it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): Where is father in all of this, anyway? Have you even thought at all about HIM? The child is half his after all.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): I suggest you watch Degrassi Junior High and the character SPIKE.She had a kid when she was 14 or 15 and didn;t abort or adopt. She studied, went to school and took care of her kid (with much help from her own mother) and lo and behold the child didn't turn out to be a nut-case later in life.She gave her child the best she could give. It was hard for her, but with plenty of help, some perserverence and patience and the support of family and friends, she succeeded.Flynn 24
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reader, Dsears1989 +, writes (28 October 2009):
Don't abort if you don't want to. Yes you can keep the baby and go back to school. You can do what you want. Don't let anybody convince you to abort or adopt. You said yourself you want to keep the child so keep it. You can do it. I'm in the same situation but I'm not 14 I'm 20. And I'm not in school but I am pregnant and so not ready for it but I'm keeping it. Mail me if you want to talk.
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (28 October 2009):
 ok well only thing i can say if you want want to abort is adoption.Your going to need to choose one day, and it will be sooner rather then later, Im against abortion. In my opinion you made your bed you should lie in it yada yada yada.What about the baby's father? Talk tohim about it, it is his baby tooAnd talk to your parents or carer. See what they say.End of the day its your body, your choice.other then that, after all this is overUSE PROTECTION
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): there are other alternatives than abortion. like adoption. My other question is, do your parents know? and what have they said? this is something you will have to discuss with them... as they will be the ones raising it with you. this is not a question that can be answered and fixed over night.. its something that will have to be worked through with the love and support of your family.
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reader, LaraC +, writes (27 October 2009):
You are 14 years old and think you are ready to have a child? The fact of the matter is that YOU are still a child!I understand that you are against abortion but I think you should really re-consider this option. You are not old enough to be a good parent yet and this could ruin your life, not to mention putting a large burden on your family that will have to support the both of you for another ten years!Tough as it may be I think you need to make a grown up decision and terminate the pregnancy. Best of luckL
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reader, B123  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 Ok first calm down - its not the end of the world. Its a gift! Be happy. Try to be...I know you are going through an emotional rollercoaster right now...but remember this is entirely YOUR choice - no-one else's. If you want that baby you keep the baby. Simple. Do not let your age affect your decision. If this is something you want then you do it...I know you are scared right now and feeling vulnerable. You can finish school even if you are pregnant. You may be back a year in terms of study but that by no means - means that your life has to stop just cos a baby is on the way. Please take care of yourself. Eat well - rest and put the feet up. You will also need to tell your family. You need support from your family and friends. If they react badly at first, please do not let that get to you okay...get the pregnancy confirmed by the GP and stand your ground. If your parents and family want you to get rid of it..dont if you want to keep it okay. They will eventually come around to your way of thinking. Life is what YOU make it...good luck and enjoy the little miracle - they now need you so take good care and if you need to get in touch feel free to mail me. You are not alone..xx
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