Caught my bf masturbating while chatting to another woman, online!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while ...
A. 21 January 2010: You're the cheater. It sounds like he's jerking off to porn. That's totally normal. Starting a relationship outside of your own, that's cheating. And it's unfair to him. If you get to see other girls, he should be allowed to see other girls, as ... (read in full...)
She has a problem with my drinking!
Q. So last night i was drinking shots and i popped a couple of xanex pills to establish a buzz faster than useuall well i was having a good time, and i went to sleep.. well i wake up this morning, and everything in my room is broken, one of my walls is ...
A. 21 January 2010: Are you seriously this delusional or is this a joke?... (read in full...)
Help! On the pill, could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom, i am on the pill and he withdrew every time. Could there be a possible chance i am pregnant?...
A. 20 January 2010: I'd like to point out the pill actually normally regulates your period not messes it up.
My boyfriend and I generally only use the pill as our major form of birth control and after hundreds of sexual encounters, no pregnancy!... (read in full...)
Feelings for other women
Q. I am currently 21 and have for years now had feelings for other women. These feelings have recently become a lot stronger and focus on one women.I dream about this women and have fantasise about us becoming an item. However i dont know her feelings ...
A. 20 January 2010: I would pursue it the same way I would pursue any relationship. Think about it, if you were straight how would you be sure the guy you're going after is straight? You don't sit down at a bar and be like "Hey, do you like women?" to a man. So just ... (read in full...)
I'm miserable at home and I have no idea where to turn any more???
Q. hello, thank you in advance for reading my post. To start out with, i'm an 18 year old girl, senior in high school (I go to school for less than half a day), and I just recently lost my job a few weeks ago. I have no money saved up, im currently...
A. 20 January 2010: I agree, you need to go to the police now. They have shelters and information to protect you from him once they are in the know. It is important to keep yourself safe as well as your little sister, and even your mom who is living in fear.... (read in full...)
I did what she asked and now she beats me up
Q. I'm am very upset. A couple of months ago my friend told me to tell the guy tht she liked tht she liked him. I told him and she got mad at me. At first she just ignored me. Then she started bumping ke and tripping me in the halls. Then she beat me ...
A. 14 January 2010: Go to your school guidance counsellor and tell her the situation. Even if you don't want to be confrontational and make a big scene with the girl herself, maybe ask that all the teachers be quietly informed of the situation so you know that they ... (read in full...)
I have ugly feet and keep them covered all the time
Q. Ok I have a problem..I never showed any of my boyfriends my feet because I'm very insecure with them.I love my boyfriend and we are about to move in our own apt. He never seen them. I would like to do all tha fùn things with him that all the girls ...
A. 14 January 2010: Get over it!
I used to hate EVERY SINGLE THING about my body. I had redonkulously bad self esteem. I would have sex like pretty much fully clothed. And then this boyfriend loved me enough and thought I was beautiful and he made me feel comforta... (read in full...)
Am I always going to feel guilty for cheating on him?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago shortly after starting uni, I told him almost immediately and we are working through it. My boyfriend seems to be handling it a lot better than me, he's already pretty much forgiven me, he says 'the worst ...
A. 14 January 2010: Forgiving yourself is a choice, it's not just something that happens. You make the choice to forgive yourself, to put it behind you, and try to move on. You can do that any time you want. You have a chance to keep your relationship, and there is no ... (read in full...)
I'm miserable at home and I have no idea where to turn any more???
Q. hello, thank you in advance for reading my post. To start out with, i'm an 18 year old girl, senior in high school (I go to school for less than half a day), and I just recently lost my job a few weeks ago. I have no money saved up, im currently...
A. 14 January 2010: If you're 18 you can legally leave. You can also call social services if you feel you need to protect your other siblings. I don't suggest you ignore it if you feel you have any other option, if there is another family member you could stay with ... (read in full...)
My partner puts me down all the time ... and I don't know why
Q. Hi, I'm really hoping for some help. I think you guys are great (I've posted on here before) and now I'm very upset so I thought maybe I could get some perspective here. I've been with my partner since 2002 and when I first met him he was loving, ...
A. 12 January 2010: Yes, you need to leave him, he is being emotionally abusive. He is selfish as all getup, and you seem like a wonderful woman who deserves somebody much better. Your health should be a major concern to somebody who loves you, they should want to work ... (read in full...)
Is my straight friend bi or gay?
Q. Ok this is driving me crazy would appreciate ur thoughts.im 23 openly bisexual and totally in love with my straight friend ben.known him for about a year thru his bestmate. The second time we met at a rave we were both very drunk and he couldnt keep ...
A. 7 January 2010: Lovely, what does it matter? He's got a girlfriend. Show some respect.... (read in full...)
How can I trust her after her fling?
Q. My girlfriend of three months, whom I've known for six years, chose to have a two day fling with her ex while he was in town. We have talked about what happened and I don't feel I got a strait answer of why this occurred. She has told me they are ...
A. 7 January 2010: Although I wouldn't put her in the Ted Bundy category, I do agree that if she's cheat on you and she's still in contact with the person she cheat on you with, you need to walk away. She broke your trust and she's obviously continuing to be elusive. ... (read in full...)
Ex is not interested and it hurts
Q. Dear Cupid...so far you are the only person i talk to and who has been kind enough to help.Thank you. Nway with the newyear,i had to make resolutions, that can help me be a better person. So among other stuff, i decided to get into a relationship ...
A. 7 January 2010: Honey, do you love him, or are you just lonely and you want anybody that you associate with loving you? It seems to me like you told yourself, I am going to make a relationship, and then somebody you remember loving you (who seemed like a safe ... (read in full...)
Why do guys push the girls head down while she's giving him a blowjob?
Q. I have a question for guys. Why do you push a girls head farther down while they're giving you head? does it feel good or is it just like, there? My boyfriend does that (i've only given him head twice) and it makes me gag sometimes. and i heard a ...
A. 7 January 2010: I know my guy doesn't PUSH and if I ask him to stop, or push his hand away, he stops right away, but he does like to "guide." I don't see this as being any different than a man guiding a woman's hips during sex. It just establishes a rhythm he ... (read in full...)
I'm walking on eggshells. Is he a cold person?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. When we first started dating he dropped hints about being very intense and mentioned that his parents used to tell him not to be mean as a child. I didn't understand because he seemed so laid back, ...
A. 7 January 2010: Walk away. I mean, you could wait around to see if the therapy thing pans out. But that might really damage your self-esteem. If I were you, I would say "I really love you, but if you're going to behave this way I can't be with you. I ... (read in full...)
Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?
Q. I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...
A. 6 January 2010: I agree you need to leave him. You do not deserve to be abused by anybody. Don't beg him to forgive you, there's nothing you need to be forgiven for. He's the one who is being a bad person, for more than one reason. He's abusing you, and he's ... (read in full...)
Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?
Q. I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...
A. 4 January 2010: I have a boyfriend about 4 years younger than you who has slept with 30 women (and if I hadn't come along, I'm sure could've slept with 70 by the time he got to 28.) I know it's true that sociologically, men and women who haven't slept with anyone ... (read in full...)
Isn't she into me any more?
Q. Ive been in a relationship with the same woman for over 14 years and we are both in our thirties. We have two children 2(boy) and 7(girl) my lady says that i annoy her too much when i try to cuddle (she says i'm too heavy or i'm squishing her. I'm ...
A. 3 January 2010: She may be having problems with sexual aversion.
"In an effort to satisfy the spouse with the greater need for sex, the spouse with the lesser need often sacrifices his or her own emotional reactions. Instead of sex being an experience that the... (read in full...)
Is this my problem...or our problem?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have been dating for eleven mos. It's been a pretty rocky relationship, and a lot of it stems from the fact that I suffer from both major depressive disorder and PMDD and I am not settled on any medications yet ...
A. 2 January 2010: Thanks, guys, I'll try to remember what you've said and take all of that into account :) You're both really sweet!... (read in full...)
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