Does my ex love his new girlfriend?
Q. Does my ex love his new gf if he does not leave me alone after i've told him to? I don't know what to think!!? My ex and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called the engagement off this past march because i was so scared and want...
A. 2 January 2009: I have to agree with DoubleM... it's not only men that behave this way. Women do it too.. it's just more common for men because they're typically known as the "Players". Many immature, insecure men base their existance on their EGO. And they believe ... (read in full...)
Lost my baby--looking for support
Q. Hello Everyone... I'm looking for some support. I posted in here on November 23 about spotting during first trimester pregnancy. A few days later I had a sonogram and saw the little peanut with its heart beating and everything was fine. The spott...
A. 2 January 2009: Thank you both for taking the time to reply to my post. I sincerely appreciate it. Today is 2 weeks since I lost my precious peanut. The reality is still very hard to deal with. I find myself having to REMEMBER that I am no longer pregnant. I want ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and spotting...
Q. I'm nervous. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and haven't been to the doctor's yet. My appointment is December 10th. Well for the past 2 weeks I've been spotting sporadically. Not heavy enough to require a pad or even a panty liner, but there was blood whenever ...
A. 27 November 2008: Thank you to everyone that replied. I went to the ER last Saturday night. And then to the Dr the following Monday. I had a transvaginal sonogram and the little peanut looks great. Heart beating at a normal rate. No clue why I'm bleeding though. I ... (read in full...)
Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?...
A. 21 October 2008: I agree with Sirena.. but not everyone bleeds the first time they have sex. I didn't... at least nothing showed up like that. ... (read in full...)
I have all the symptoms.... Am I or am I not???
Q. I have not gotten my period in about 4/5months. I haven taken a test yet but I'm not sure if I am pregnant, my period was always quite irregular but I have never gone this long without my period in a long time. I have been getting back pains and I ...
A. 21 October 2008: First of all honey... get a test.. going 4 or 5 months without your period isn't normal at all. If you're NOT pregnant, there could be something serious going on. When you say your periods are irregular, how abnormal are they? My periods were always ... (read in full...)
He cheated and lied, I can't get over it!
Q. Ok, so...I've been in a relationship for just short of two years now. In the first three months, the man cheated on me and I did dump him but I've always been forgiving so I took him back. The part that hurt more than his cheating was that at that...
A. 18 July 2008: I know exactly how you're feeling. My current bf and I have been together for 3yrs off and on. He's cheated on me numerous times. Lies about almost everything and expects me to trust him. It doesn't happen. I too obsess over things where he is ... (read in full...)
My free-loading bf left me and our daughter! Should I ask for money?
Q. I have a relationship problem that I would like advice with. My boyfriend and the father of my child has left me. We had a disagreement about money. The way things are is that I pay all the bills, rent, food, childcare costs (we both work), heating, ...
A. 27 June 2008: In my opinion, because I have a free loading boyfriend of my own.. you did the right thing. According to your post, it seems as though he's basically care free about holding down a job. Why should he? You pay for everything and everything is in your ... (read in full...)
He loves me then leaves me!!! What should I do?
Q. Please help me, I have no idea what happened. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. Since day one we both have been together almost every day. He continued to tell me on a daily basis how much he cared for me etc...and that no one has ...
A. 27 June 2008: I've been where you are. And I have to honestly say.. LET GO! For him to freak out to that degree over something so insignificant is giving you a "glimpse" into what your life with him would be like. He can do what he wants and if you don't like it ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant, we already have 4 kids and I can't handle any more! She won't agree to abortion, any advice?
Q. My girlfriends pregnant again... We already have 4 kids, she popped the first sprog out when she was 15, had to stay with her ever since, i dont wanna leave her but i cant handle any more kids! Its doin my nut in! She wont get rid of it either., ...
A. 23 June 2008: You sound just like my current boyfriend. He has a son from a previous relationship that they gave up for adoption, he has a son with his more recent ex gf and he has a daughter with me. I got pregnant again and he demanded an abortion. He was cold ... (read in full...)
What is this man thinking?!? I really don't understand the guy!! Help!
Q. Hi! I would really appreciate your perspective on this. I was with my boyfriend for two and a half years, we lived together for one and a half. Broke up in October 2007 after which I found out that the whole first year he lied and cheated on me ma...
A. 22 June 2008: Sounds to me like he's just keeping tabs on you. Wanting to see if you'll agree to meet with him. Because even though your broken up doesn't mean he's letting you go. It's his way of playing with you. I could be completely wrong due to the fact that ... (read in full...)
He seems perfect. Why do I feel so insecure?
Q. my boyfriend has never cheated on me, doesn't flirt or look at other girls, tells me i've been better to him than any past girlfriends and makes it clear how picky he is in meeting people. he's not a party guy, very level headed, turning 29, can ...
A. 22 June 2008: What has happened to you in the past? Prior to your current boyfriend, have you ever been cheated on? What are your thoughts on male/female friendships? Do you believe that people of the opposite sex can be in a platonic relationship? Are you able ... (read in full...)
As we started seeing each other again, I see he has not changed at all hsi unreasonable jealousy - yet I want to get him back and earn his trust?
Q. This is a bit of a long one..I hope you take the time to read bc I am in need of some advice My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years..we had our fair share of ups and downs due to his jealous nature..he would always accuse me of cheating o...
A. 22 June 2008: Happytochat makes a lot of great points. However, speaking for myself... I have to say that insecurity isn't only the fault of the person that is insecure. Perhaps they're insecure due to circumstances beyond their control. Previous relationships, ... (read in full...)
I feel undermined in my marriage and get no joy from it, how can I... take action?
Q. I have been married for 15 years. I have been unhappy and unfulfilled. I have not had any / hardly any sex for at least half that time with my husband. The reasons are many and varied on my part. I no longer find my husband emotionally attractive ...
A. 22 June 2008: While I've never been married for the length of time you have, I know how you're feeling. I was married for 4 1/2 yrs but with the man for 6 1/2. He was very controlling and manipulative. The relationship I'm in now is much the same. The only advice ... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he come back to get his things?
Q. he went to his exwife of 2 yrs when i kicked him out we were fighting and i told him to go, he was living with me, the next day i was not angry anymore and sorry, i called him he cried and said he wanted to come back that night but then his cell ...
A. 19 June 2008: Oh boy.. I know what you're going through.. do I ever! My current live in boyfriend of almost 3 yrs on and off has been nothing more than a boomerang. Bouncing back and forth between his ex gf and me. When we break up he goes right back to her and ... (read in full...)
Meeting this guy just reminded me of how good I could feel. I really miss feeling loved.
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a month. He is depressed a lot and isn't at all affectionate (sp?), but I love being all cuddly and kissy. Sometimes I will ask him to kiss me and he says "no" or he "feels like i'm forcing ...
A. 19 June 2008: MOVE ON!! I can't stress it enough! I've been right where you are before and I was married to the man. It's a living HELL. Don't waste one more minute of your time with a person like that. Have you talked with him about your feelings of nothingness ... (read in full...)
I found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex on his phone... can I believe nothing has happened?
Q. Hiya, i found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex gf on his phone and messages from her. he has a son to her so i understand they need contact with eachother. he says nothing has happened between them but i dont know what to believe, can you help ...
A. 19 June 2008: the choice to believe him resides in you and the strength of your relationship with him. How long have you been together? How long was he with her? How much time was it after those two broke up and you two got together? What was the reason for the ... (read in full...)
I can't trust him. Do leopards ever change their spots?
Q. hi, i need some advice on what to do. i have this boyfriend, we've been going out for about 18 months, and its not exactly been easy :( he cheated on me right at the start of our relationship, i forgave him. then he told me he was still in love wi...
A. 12 June 2008: Leopards DON'T change! I know this from personal experience. I've been with my current live in bf for 3yrs on and off. And he sounds A LOT like the guy you're involved with. Cheating on me whenever he wants. Leaves me at the drop of a dime. "If the ... (read in full...)
Please help me find the strength to bin my cheating boyfriend.
Q. I need help. I've been in a relationship for almost 3yrs on and off. We live together and have a 16 month old daughter. During the course of our time together he has been bouncing back and forth between myself and his ex gf. He has also cheated on ...
A. 11 June 2008: I want to THANK everyone that has responded as well as thank everyone that read my post. As I read my post back to myself and read the responses... as it's in black and white.. it's really a no brainer as to what I should do. But actually doing it ... (read in full...)
| *alybug2008's friends
These are mutual friends, so *alybug2008 has
added them and they have added *alybug2008!
|
