My mate is driving me Nut's, how can I tell her?
Q. My friend is a nutter, and bugs the hell out of me! She never stops talking about herself, and lives in a complete fantasy world. She imagines herself married to a guy after ten minutes. I don't mean the normal 'I wonder what color eyes our children ...
A. 21 January 2008: you have got t be firm. But when i say this be nice about it. She can't be a real friend if she does not respect your feelings and you have to let her know this or the situation will carry on unchanged. You have to talk to her, make it known you ... (read in full...)
I feel really guilty after my affair!
Q. I met a married man online after a month I felt very close to him thought we could meet and the next thing I know I was sleeping with him anyway he told me how he was depressed with wife and kids hated his job I felt sorry for him he told me it had ...
A. 21 January 2008: Listen what's done is done. You can't change what you've done and you shouldn't try to. You probably shared something really special with him but instead of going to his wife you should have told him to perhaps try counselling with his wife to ... (read in full...)
What does that mean?
Q. theres this guy dat hates the guy im datinn because he likes me...so i broke up with himmmm then he finally started to talk to him. i broke up infront of the guy i likeee den he started to laugh he told my ex "first is nicole now jamie....why dont ...
A. 21 January 2008: I am just trying to understand you broke up with the guy youwere dating in front the guy you like, but who doesnt't like the guy you were dating. You still remain friends with your ex's and when the guy you like see's you with them he makes fun of ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental
Q. hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!...
A. 16 January 2008: Your mother is just looking out for your best interests. Maybe you should explain to her what is going on. He is nearly ten years older than you which is a huge difference. What is the extent of your relationship and where did you meet this man? ... (read in full...)
I got naughty with my ex on webcam while my boyfriend slept
Q. Last night I got naughty with my ex on webcam. My boyfriend was asleep in the other room at the time and I feel really bad about it but I don't want to stop. I don't want to be a lying cheat but I just can't help myself. My ex wants to be with me ...
A. 16 January 2008: Well you may want both but you can't have it. Its not fair on either of them (your ex and bf). You have to think about who you really want. He's your ex so why did you break up in the first place ie is he actually worth it? do you really still ... (read in full...)
Was it an orgasm or not?
Q. Well, I lost my virginity 6 months ago and I've always masturbated me. The first time I had sex I felt a big pressure, like an orgasm, but not the regular one I always got every time I masturbate, however I'd like to know if that was really an ...
A. 16 January 2008: Well one, don't worry an orgasm during sexual intercourse is different to one felt through clitoral stimulation. And a majority of women cannot orgasm from sexual intercourse alone. So if you find you can't you are not alone. It is possible that ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?
Q. Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...
A. 14 October 2007: For one incest is illegal and not only that if you did have sex with your cousin, think about what might happen next, your families find out and that won't be good. Then even if you two did make it there are biological problems that occurr when two ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should go see him regardless of the fact he doesn't want that or I should go on with my life?
Q. Hi. I've been in a relationship for about a year now and we hardly see each other. We stay about 8 hours apart and I've been trying to get him to travel down or for me to go see him. He thinks it is a bad idea since we promised each other to avoid ...
A. 13 July 2007: It sounds to me like he isn't doing enough to give you the time you deserve out of this relationship. You may not want to hear this, but there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are too young to be trying to hold on to a guy so far from you. I ... (read in full...)
He is my guy now, but his ex still calls him Babe and talks all nice to him!
Q. I am in this same situation! My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now, and I realized that he still contacts his ex girlfriend. They dated for about 7 months or so. My boyfriend and I started off as friends, and I've helped him ...
A. 13 July 2007: Don't worry urself about it, i've bin through a similar thing. My boyfriend is best friends with both his ex's and it still annoys me even though they broke up ages ago. I know how you feel i never wanted to be the kind of girl thats stops her guy ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend continually asking me questions about my past boyfriends?
Q. Okau I have a couple of questions so please try to answer them!!! THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION - I told my boyfriend that I've had sex with a lot of guys when I was younger (and I have) but he really don't like it and I don't want him thinking...
A. 11 July 2007: Simply put it too him first your past is your past and its nothing to do with him. You are with him now and thats all that matters and if he can't understand that then whats the point. If he really thinks you are a slut why is he going out with ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to be apart from my boyfriend without it driving me nuts?
Q. i dont know what to do. I have been with my b/f for over 2 years and i think i have changed since meeting him. He is my first serious relationship so i never really got attached to a guy before. But for a long time now--i found myself thinkin...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey well snap i'm in a similar situation. At the moment i'm not with the love of my life, we are apart for a month because of holidays and commitments we have been forced to make. i haven't been with him for the past 2 and a half weeks and i won't ... (read in full...)
I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.
Q. Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...
A. 11 July 2007: Well she might have thought you were joking, she may have not known what to say, you could have made her nervous. Do you know how experienced she is. All in all it doesn't matter it's more special for most women when its your first time and often ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like how wet I get... Are there anti-lubricants? Any advice?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't really like how wet I get down there when we're having sex. He says its very excessive and also difficult to feel himself inside of me. We are okay in other positions but the missionary position doesn't seem to work. Are ...
A. 11 July 2007: I don't think there are anti-lubricants available. Make sure you don't use lubricant when having sex if you are getting wet enough you don't need it. Are you enjoying sex? usually being excessively wet probably means you are, is that so difficult ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I've never missed a period before now
Q. I'm having some unusual symptoms and I was wondering if I could be pregnant. I didn't have my period this month and I've never been late or missed before. Sometimes I have pains or uncomfort in my abdomen, like when I have my period, but a little ...
A. 11 July 2007: There is a possibility you could be if you had unprotected sex or forgot the pill. If not don't worry, go see a doctor or even buy a test if you're that worried. Sometimes women miss periods because of stress, a change in situation or even ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex; he prefers masturbating before he comes to bed
Q. hi, I have a boyfriend,we just got back together after a long time apart.We broke up originally because of lack of sex and other issues,particularly abuse in his childhood.I love him very much. However the sex is still a problem.We sleep in the sam...
A. 11 July 2007: I know it must be difficult as you say you have a good relationship and friendship doesn't work. But he doesn't seem to even eant to try to satisfy your needs. Talk it throuh with him. If this still doesn't work you give him the ultimatum and ... (read in full...)
To all the women who AREN'T bothered by their partner watching porn; why?
Q. Wow, this porn issue is huge and obviously we women are bothered a lot by it. But there are women out there who AREN'T, and it is to these impressive women that I go to for advice: Why aren't you bothered by it, and what can you suggest to help ...
A. 11 July 2007: I may not be the girl your looking for to answer your question cos i would get jealous if my boyfriend went back to his old ways of buying porn magazines etc. Yet when we started becoming an item he did'nt feel the need to see it anymore. It's ... (read in full...)
I do really want to go but dont want to break his heart. Should i go or stay???
Q. Im 19 and have been in a relationship for 5 years, i do love my boyfriend but he doesn't get on with my family or friends and im not sure about us anymore. I feel that im so young and havn't really lived! My best friend who i do everything with has ...
A. 11 July 2007: You have to think about what you want, put his feelings aside. What's important to you? you have been in this relationship along time, do you love him? maybe a break is appropriate. Weigh up the prose and cons of your relationship. From what you ... (read in full...)
He's leaving for the army; should I tell him my true feelings?
Q. hey everyone...i got a problem...i fell in love with one of my guy friends. we knew each other since i was a freshman and he was a sophmore. well he has graduated and is about to leave to the army. the problem is that i don't know if i should tell ...
A. 11 July 2007: You should tell him, you'll regret it forever if you don't. Whether he shares the same feelings or not tell him you don't want what you are saying to affect the relationship you already have but he is going to be gone along time probably and you ... (read in full...)
I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark
Q. hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...
A. 11 July 2007: First be true too yourself forget the nagging anti-commitment voice inside your head for a second, and figure out how you really feel. If you really don't want to let this one go or perhaps try and take it further you have to talk to him ok. Tell ... (read in full...)
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