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writes:Okau I have a couple of questions so please try to answer them!!!THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION - I told my boyfriend that I've had sex with a lot of guys when I was younger (and I have) but he really don't like it and I don't want him thinking I'm a slut so if I tell him that I was just playing about me and them guys but I did have sex 1 or 2 times, do you think he won't think I'm a slut anymore??? I've liked some black people and I'm white but he don't like whites and blacks going out but I don't have a problom with it!!!! I've also liked a lot of other people while we was going out!!! So what can I do-every night on the phone he asks me if I like anyone like all the guys I've liked?!?!? and I don't want him to do that but he does anyway and he knows I don't like him doing that!!!If I even flirt with a guy he gets mad and I really can't help flirting with other guys!!! Why do some guys think that if they fight over a girl that the winner gets the girl?????Please at least try to answer my questions, I know it's a lot but I got all of this on my mind!!!!!!!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 July 2007):
 It's just a shame to hear that a child of 12 or younger HAS a past. Please consider my advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe's white and im white just to let everyone no!!!and he hasn't told me i was a slut but he said if i did do that stuff with that many guys then i was a slut and as long as im not doing that anymore then he don't care about my past!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 July 2007):
You are 12 or younger, you shouldn't be dealing with all this stuff at your age. You WILL be branded a slut if you have sex at your age, not to mention the physical dangers you could inflict on your body. Who needs a boyfriend at your age, friends of both sexes, yes, but boyfriends, no. Concentrate on your studies, hobbies, and just having great fun with your friends. There is plenty of time in you future to deal with these more adult problems.
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reader, kit_e_kat  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Simply put it too him first your past is your past and its nothing to do with him. You are with him now and thats all that matters and if he can't understand that then whats the point. If he really thinks you are a slut why is he going out with you, did he actually tell you that? if he did he isn't worth the time of day. As for liking other people it happens, i bet he likes others too, doesn't mean if you are a committed couple that you will go and leave him for another person. If your so sick of him asking you the questions refuse to answer them, ask some of your own, or maybe to make him feel better tell him that he is the only guy you are interested in rather than telling him you fancy others too. The way he is acting makes me think he is insecure and probably has deep feelings for you. The consatnt bombardment of question can be frustarting, remember why he does it, and tell him if it gets on your nerves. Just make sure he knows you just want him, he just wants his ego pampering by the sound of it
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reader, love-him +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Why is he with you if he has a problem with white and black people going out, as he is black and you are white? Your past has nothing to do with him, however there is nothing stopping him thinking you are a slut. The simple and most easy solution is to not flirt with other guys, and at your age, most lads are too immature to think that fighting is wrong, especial for the winner to get the girl. I suggest you drop this lad, before it gets dangerous.. Good luck babe, Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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