He's stood me up 3 times, I guess he never liked me?
Q. Why couldn't he have told me he's not into me instead of leading me on? So there's this guy that I like, I thought he liked me too. He told me he wanted us to take things slow. But he's stood me up 3times. We'd make plans but when the day come...
A. 6 November 2011: It may just be a simple case of you guys just not having matching schedules. But 3 times? I don't blame you. If a guy can't make time for me when he said he would then he's not good enough. I'd probably forget about him and if he comes around with a ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm falling apart. Am I a fool to think happiness could be mine?
Q. I have just split up from my partner of nearly 12 years. We have 2 young children. I had stopped loving my partner many years ago although i only told him it was about 2 years ago. It took me a long time to admit it to myself and even longer to ...
A. 6 November 2011: First I would be worried that it was a stranger who gave you what you needed to end it and not your own strength or not because he was unkind to you and your family. I don't condone this type of behavior at all, but I do hope you find the happiness ... (read in full...)
I adore my boyfriend. But what can I do about his rude behavior?'
Q. Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I do love him very much. However, I've really gone off him recently. He's rude to everyone. He yells at his mum and orders her about, he doesn't talk to my parents even when he is ...
A. 6 November 2011: Just because he buys you things and all does not mean that equals total happiness and it's pretty immature to think that. He shouldn't expect you to be happy and not ever bring up your needs in the relationship. I'd say some of it has to do with ... (read in full...)
Did he lie and cheat, even though he denies it? What would suggest he lied?
Q. I know this is ridiculously long but please, I really really need help. Just skim over it maybe? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for ...
A. 6 November 2011: "The guy wasn't perfect, but definitely liked you" iS NOT a reason to stay with anyone! I also want to say kudos to you for staying a virgin! Brave and admirable! OK, now honestly, it sounds like this guy has MAJOR emotional issues or somethin... (read in full...)
Should I try to get rid of my sexual fantasies about my language teacher? Especially as I do have a Bf?
Q. I am 19 years old, I have a boyfriend for 2 years now, I love him and he's very nice with me we also get along very well in bed. He is a german so he wants me to learn his language so I took a course at my university. I have never this type who fall...
A. 6 November 2011: Yea! If you love him and you're thoughts/fantasies are this out of control you need to do some serious thinking. The man is married!? Whoa! I would say you need to avoid this man altogether. You don't want to end up breaking hearts and wrecking ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets angry when I mention things I want to do. How can I cope better with her reactions?
Q. Hi.. My name is Chris and i am 23 years old.. i have a girlfriend for 1 year and 3 months.. we are happy and in love.. sometimes i feel like i cannot do anything else than seeing her..i feel like i cannot watch soccer or generally do anything ...
A. 6 November 2011: She may be insecure, but think about it. People with insecurities that large turn into more than just a small flaw. It turns into fear and can be really devastating. Honestly, it sounds like she simply has a hard time trusting. Maybe she does... (read in full...)
By having a dream about this guy, does that mean I like him?
Q. So, I have been talking to this guy, L, quite a bit lately. He's called me a few times and we sit at the same table at lunch now. Last night, i had a dream that i kissed him. I remembered it really vividly at first, but now all i can remember is ...
A. 6 November 2011: A smile? I would certainly think it means he was happy! Probably a little shy, shocked or too darn excited to move! Lol. It sounds like a good sign to me. :)
Dreams mean a lot of things and actually have much deeper meanings than you know. Yo... (read in full...)
What's happening to me? I get this warm fuzzy feeling when she is there.
Q. I met this girl at school and she is really pretty. We have a lot in common. When ever I see her I get a warm fuzzy new feeling. I feel really shy around her. My face feel hot and I notice my cheeks get red. Whats happening to me? Why am I feeling ...
A. 6 November 2011: You like her, dear! :) Maybe ask her out?... (read in full...)
Change a bad boyfriend?
Q. i dont know how to make my boyfriend change! we have been dating for a year now and...well he cheated on me like 9 months into it and i forgave him because of the situation its a long story. but my current problem is he doesn't treat me well and i ...
A. 6 November 2011: Wow! It sounds like he has no respect for you what so ever! I've had past relationships like this and I will be the first to tell you, you truly cannot change a person. He's already shown no respect for you, he's belittled you and hurt you, che... (read in full...)
I can't help feeling like there's someone better for her
Q. My girlfriend and I are in love with each other, I know that for a fact. But today she was telling me she doesn't see the point in living, and that it was all so boring. She's told me I'm one of the reasons she's still here, but I can't help ...
A. 6 November 2011: AW! That is sad and it's serious! Are you sure you're not suddenly feeling that someone else is better for her because you are frightened and want to run from this situation? It's hard, but truly loving someone means being there through hard... (read in full...)
I want to stay faithful. How can I control my attraction to this other gorgeous gal?
Q. Thank you for listening. I have a major problem. I have been with this girl for a few months and I like her a lot. She doesnt trust people often and is happy with me. I take pride in keeping her happy and she loves that. The problem is, I met this...
A. 6 November 2011: "I must get this girl who's drop dead gorgeous". You MUST "GET" her? Strike one! Lol. OK, I'll give you my raw, honest advice. If I were your g/f I'd want you to tell me and I'd end things for you happily. You said you were "devoted" to this girl... (read in full...)
My wife is lazy
Q. I have been married for a couple of years now and most things are fine but I find my wife is lazy. This laziness does not extend to her work, as she works very hard and for long hours (we both do), its every other aspect of our lives she is lazy. I ...
A. 6 November 2011: Oh wow! It sounds like there's a bigger issue for her than just simple laziness. I'd be trying to get to the root of why she feels the need to do these things. Ask her what triggers her impusle shopping. I hate to say it, but some people are just... (read in full...)
My girlfriend could be jealous of my creative mind
Q. I am in a relationship with this girl for the last 5 years . We graduated from the same university but she was one year junior to me. She is pretty and loving girl . She is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family. She has a good job ...
A. 6 November 2011: "What should I do to MAKE her say this?" Well, now that stood out to me. You shouldn't do anything to make or maniplulate her into saying it. I don't know much about your relationship, but it doesn't sound like she's got a problem. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
I can never talk to my LDR boyfriend anymore and I may be pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a Long distance relationship only a 2hour drive away. Were almost at a year in January but have been friends for 5 year going on 6. These past three months he's hardly talked to me but he doesn't stop completely. One ...
A. 3 November 2011: This is a hard one. Any other strange activity from him? Did he ever explain the girl answering the phone? It's really hard to tell with just those messages, but I've had several instances where a guy moved away and little by little quit calling or ... (read in full...)
Was boyfriend posing as someone else?
Q. Today i logged into hotmail on my boyfriends ipad and another person was logged on. The profile was just started. I think November 1st. I had no time to look cuz he was asking what i was looking at. I said nothing but he knew it was something. he ...
A. 3 November 2011: Aw! I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how upset you've been. To be honest, I'd have a very hard time believing it was some freak accident. It sounds like it was him, but like they say, you always catch them sooner or later. Keep your eyes ... (read in full...)
I'm 6 weeks pregnant, against abortion and the guy is no longer interested in me and has a girlfriend
Q. 6 wks pregnant and worried about our relationship? Is he done with me now? What should I do? I'm 18 and have been in college mostly interested in singing only interesting thing about college is this guy I'm highly attracted to. We had hooked up...
A. 3 November 2011: Wow! First, I want to say I am very sorry you're going through such a stressful time. Second, you are very brave! In my honest opinion, it sounds like you and the baby will benefit if you cut all ties with him. He's apparently not ready for a ... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 3 November 2011: Yes! They absolutely exist! I have personal issues with porn and rape to be honest. It doesn't go over well with me and without giong into too much detail, I'll keep it simple here. I had a very traumatic experience a few years back and went through ... (read in full...)
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