I took my ex back, he lied has another girl
Q. hi there i need advice I have a problem with my bf, we have been together for 2yrs now, we having our ups and downs, last year it happens dat we break up but he asked me to come back to him and tell me that he does'nt have gf. i found out that h...
A. 21 January 2009: Leave him! Oh my gosh what is this man doing to you?? He is not worth having all these feelings for - I know you can't help that right now, but time will help you - trust me. You can do so much better than a liar who only wants you for sex!
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To have sex? or not?
Q. im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer?...
A. 21 January 2009: In my opinion, if you were ready, you wouldn't be asking for advice if you thought it was the right thing to do babe.
Sex / making love is a very special for a couple who love each other and both give their consent. Please don't do it if you are ... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend of a year cheated on me?
Q. Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??...
A. 1 August 2007: what other ways do you mean? like kissing? The only way you will find out why is by asking him directly. No one else will know that except him.
Try not to be sad, is he really worth the heartache if hes cheating on you?
keep your chin up girl xx... (read in full...)
He seems to be busy all the time, what's wrong?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about 10 months, and we used to spend most of the days with eachother and we always had fun times. But lately everytime I invite him to hang out with me he seems to always have an excuse not to, and when ...
A. 1 August 2007: sounds like the 'honeymoon period' has ended for him, but not for you. This isnt neccessarily a bad thing, he probably just wants his own space too.
If you are meant to be together things will work out for you. Try going along with what he want... (read in full...)
How would I tell my mum if I accidentally got pregnant?
Q. Ok well here goes.. Im 14 nd ma bf is 15 nd we are havin sex. Im completly comfortable wit it. Ive discussed wat would happen if i got pregnant nd he said he would stay wit me nd help look afta da baby. But im still worried. If he does get me ...
A. 1 August 2007: You wouldnt mind having a baby now, but you might feel differently when you are in your early 20's with a small child to look after while all your friends are out partying and on holiday enjoying their lives.
I think 'wouldnt mind' is comp... (read in full...)
I don't know if he wants out and doesn't know how to do it or what he is thinking
Q. Iv been in a relationship for 4 months and 2 weeks ago we had our first argument my boyfriend said that I put him on the spot when Im drunk and ask questions like "why are you with me" after the argument I said I love him for the first time and he ...
A. 13 March 2007: you've only been together for a short time, just go with the flow and see how things are - the only way to really know if he wants out is to ask him. just go out together and have a laugh, if its meant to be it will be! too many of us worry so much ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to tell my boyfriend that I don't think it's right him accepting phone numbers of other women?
Q. Is it wrong for me to tell my boyfriend that I don't think it's right him accepting phone numbers of other women? I have found a couple phone numbers and I wasn't too happy about it. I don't think it's appropriate that he accepts these since he is ...
A. 13 March 2007: you are right. I would not be happy if my boyfriend had accepted numbers from other women! hes with you now so why would he need other womens numbers anyway - and i'd question that too. stand up for yourself girl!! :) xxx... (read in full...)
He doesn't think there is anything wrong with seeing me AND another woman!
Q. My man cheated, I caught him out by looking at his phone while he was in the shower. He said why can't he love two women? we are not married so he sees nothing wrong with it. Refuses to give up other woman, wants to do what he wants to do, but ...
A. 13 March 2007: why are you still with this man?? why are you putting up with someone who's putting you through this and obviously has no respect for you as a person. sounds to me like he doesnt know what he wants! bad enough that you caught him cheating - but then ... (read in full...)
How can I keep the spark in my relationship going?
Q. hi just wondering if anyone could give me advice as to how to keep the spark in my relationship going? i dont want my boyfrend-26 to get bored of me-22! wev been together for two years and we get on well, make each other laugh etc, maybe more so ...
A. 13 March 2007: well the 2 of you travelling together is a start to put that spark back into the relationship - what could be more exciting than that! just remember - he's with you for a reason, he loves you - a man that is happy spending time infront of the tv ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? I'm very confused.
Q. does he like me, i am very confused? i have been seeing a guy for about 5 months now, and we sleep together and also he comes round and we spend time together. everytime i bring up that we start a proper relationship as girlfriend/boyfr...
A. 13 March 2007: just think about what you already know, his last relationship ended badley, you have been friends for years and it would be a lot to loose (he must value you very much as a friend) and the last girl took him away from his friends - so not only has ... (read in full...)
Boredom seems to have set in now. Will this change when we get our own house?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and we live 2 hrs drive apart. We are very serious about each other. We spend every weekends together. He will come down one weekend, and I will go stay with him for the next weekend. We used ...
A. 13 March 2007: moving in together might not be the answer to all your problems, but i think it will definately help. every couple needs their own space, and time to spend alone together, and that can be very difficult to find when you have 2 sets of parents ... (read in full...)
I seem to be infatuated with a guy who says he has bi-sexual tendencies but basically is straight.
Q. i seem to be infatuated with a guy who says he has bi-sexual tendencies but basically is straight. he has major past and present issues. i know this is going nowhere, how do i move on?...
A. 13 March 2007: first, figure out WHY you feel you are infatuated with him - try listing ten reasons. is he really 'all that' - esp as you know he has issues and has had a severe past. do something to take your focus away from this guy. go out somewhere new, do ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken!
Q. my heart is broken and i cant bare the pain..........help...
A. 7 February 2007: oh darling, keep your chin up.
a broken heart is the worst feeling in the world - I know youre probably feeling at your ultimate lowest, and like you can no longer live. I honestly guarentee you - it will mend - unfortunately there is only one... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two boys!
Q. What do you do when you fall in love with two boys? please help me...I fell in love or I love two boys! Can that even happen? I'm 17 I really love my ex boyfriend but I'm not with him anymore(long story) and know I have a new boyfriend and I real...
A. 5 January 2007: I completely agree with helpful girl, you are just not over your ex yet. Its natural to still love someone you are no longer with - you cant just turn off your feelings over night it takes time. Again, focus on the future, try to spend some time ... (read in full...)
I've only just lost my virginity but he says I'm too loose and he can't feel anything!
Q. ok girls, I need some advice on a delicate subject ... Me and my bf started sleeping together a few weeks ago - first time for both of us. the problem is that i'm worried about whether there might be something wrong with me, and since he's my fi...
A. 5 January 2007: first of all dont worry; the pain when he first enters may be if you are tense, or nervous, or not quite ready for penetration. then as things progress you start to loosen up - thats pretty much the same as many young women, especially in a new ... (read in full...)
He's everything I've ever wanted... except for these negatives
Q. my boyfriend ignores my fone calls is allways late to meet me and sometimes stands me up i get told he's cheating and find texts on his fone from girls he allways has an excuse but when were together its perfect he's everything i ever wanted i love ...
A. 5 January 2007: Have you tried sitting down and talking about how you feel together? I think that would be the best way forward. After all if he his cheating do you really want to be living a lie? The longer this goes on the more difficult it will become to ... (read in full...)
He tests the condoms afterwards... but I'm still worried I could be preggas!
Q. My body tells me my period should come anytime now, but I'm still worrying. I've been having the usual pre-mentsrual cramps, but no period as yet. Started my last period on the 16th of November, it is now the 21st of December. The last time we had...
A. 21 December 2006: the best thing to do is take another pregnancy test, although it is highly unlikely as you are both very careful - it is still always possible. are your periods usually regular? you could visis your doctor or family planning clinic for a free test. ... (read in full...)
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