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writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and we live 2 hrs drive apart. We are very serious about each other. We spend every weekends together. He will come down one weekend, and I will go stay with him for the next weekend. We used to have lots of fun and excitment when he was living on his own. Now he moved back to his parents (temporary), I have feeling every weekend is very boring. It almost seems like he will do his own thing and I will do my own thing. Occassionally we will cuddle and hug each other, and went to bed together. It is certainly not helping when he's now into playing computer games too. I know I love him and I know he loves me too. But how come the excitment to do things together disappeared? I have a feeling it is partly because we cannot do things freely since we are both staying with our parents. Is it temporary or will it be even worst after we moved into our own house?
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reader, kelpel +, writes (13 March 2007):
moving in together might not be the answer to all your problems, but i think it will definately help. every couple needs their own space, and time to spend alone together, and that can be very difficult to find when you have 2 sets of parents treading on your toes! you must have something, why else would you still, 2 years on, be travelling 2hours every weekend to be together? sounds to me like the 'honeymoon period' is over and now you are comfortable with each other you both do as you please as you think the other accepts it. my advice would be try not to think about the whole situation too much and enjoy the time you have together, if your man decides to play on his computer - talk to him! tell him you'd like to spend some time together - even if you just go out for a walk, you have the time alone to just absorb each other if you like. i'm sure you'll be fine - and good luck with the move if you are planning that soon xx
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