He was my first love...but I just founf out he cheated on me with my best mate and I can't stop crying.
Q. Me and my ex were in a relationship for almost a year, we broke up in november but carried on he flirting and doing stuff until very recent, he suddenly decided he doesnt like me like that anymore, we where so in love it was magic! first love:) but ...
A. 7 March 2008: There is nothing you can do sweetie. It will hurt and you will cry, lots. Which I know doesnt help much but in time you will feel better. Its not fair for him to treat you like this. What you shouldnt do now is to take him back or make excuses for ... (read in full...)
After the gym...everything is hurting and I am worried I have damaged something.
Q. I was in the gym yesterday and everything was okay...some weights, some treadmill etc etc- the norm. Today however my shoulder muscles are hurting terribly and i am worried i might have done damage or something. please help. thanks....
A. 7 March 2008: It is normal, dont worry. I am not an expert but what I do know is when you exercise whether it be Cardio Vascular or Resistance (weights) you are building the muscles you already have. Through building these muscles they can tear and then repaired ... (read in full...)
My bf is a serial flirter...how do I make him stop this or prevent him crossing the line??
Q. My boyfriend is a serial flirter when it comes to other women.I have lived with him for the past 16 months and although he knows how it makes me feel he still continues to do it even going as far as getting a co workers number at work which I called ...
A. 7 March 2008: It sounds that he doesnt deserve the chances you keep giving him. People cross the line and continue to do so when they know they can get away with it. You need to tell him just how much it upsets you and show him that you are serious! If he does it ... (read in full...)
I worry about breaking up with my boyfriend
Q. Hello ! Me and my boyfriend are really happy together .. but i worry losing him as i have done before.. we get along realy well just laods of rumors go around but we still stay strong. i cant bare losing him . if we split what is the best i ca...
A. 7 March 2008: If you worry about breaking up and dont enjoy the happy times you have with your boyfriend then your whole relationship will be tainted by the thought that you might loose him. I know its a horrible thought to have, but you need to enjoy the here ... (read in full...)
My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hiya, I am a teacher myself and i know how stressful it can be. Why dont you ask her how her trip was and if anything happened with the kids or other teachers? There may be something bothering her whilst away and is now just relieved to be b... (read in full...)
I'm not keen on giving oral. But I want to please him. I feel a bit guilty?
Q. ok well me (20) and my new boyfriend (26) have started having sex and hes given me oral but i havent given him yet because it makes me feel sick doing it so ive only done it twice before. i want to please him but im worried as i will be rubbish as ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hiya, You need to ask yourself; are you worried that you will be bad or is it that you just dont like doing it? Either way i think you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. He will appreciate your honesty and you can work through it toget... (read in full...)
Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?
Q. ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hiya,
And doesn’t he just know it! He knows how much you love him and that why he thinks its ok to leave you and when it doesn’t work out with this new gf he knows that you will take him back. Your not wrong to love him, he's the father of your ... (read in full...)
I just want to know if I was wrong to ask my BF to leave for about and hour while she was there, or was he just being an inconsiderate jerk?
Q. My boyfriend and I moved in together after being together for 10 months. I have yet to tell my mom. But it is not just me and him, one of my friends is there as well as my guys bro and his friend. The thing is, my mom thinks that I live with 4 ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hiya,
So your mum will worry if you live with other guys? I think even my mum would worry if I told her that, but that’s their job; to worry!
I think that your bf felt loyal to his brother as well as you; after all they pay rent and have ju... (read in full...)
How do i help her and get her to open up to me more and relax?
Q. Right, when your wife/gf is a teacher obviously its a stressfull job how can you help her through the stressfull times when shes tired out and getting herself upset and worked up. Because thats how my gf, soon wife to be is at the moment. Shes not ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hello Anon,
I am a teacher and it’s a great start that you’re so understanding about the nature of our work. It is very stressful and very difficult not to get to emotionally involved with the children that we look after everyday. There may be s... (read in full...)
I caught my friend kissing a teacher--what do I do?
Q. I caught my best friend with another female teacher in a cupboard. They were stood in front of me kissing and I didn't know what to do so I pretended I didn't see. This teacher is engaged and doesn't seem to talk to my best friend--...
A. 29 August 2007: Hiya, I think although this is your best friend a teacher is someone you look up to and respect. This teacher is abusing this trust with your friend, as an adult they should know better. I think you need to confide in a parent or another teacher,... (read in full...)
Can't seem to stop looking through his e-mails, though my conscience bothers me as he's the best man I've known.
Q. I am in love, and have been for 2 years. but I have serious trust issues, I even see a therapist about my turst issues. I recently learned my boyfriends email passwords and have been looking in his email and its making me crazy. I can't stop. I ...
A. 28 August 2007: Have you been cheated on in the past? Either way you need to accept that this man has been with you for a long time and must love you very much. I think that unless you have any genuine suspicions you need to let go. Talk to him and tell him your ... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me or what?
Q. Alright I'm not exactly sure if one of my co-workers is interested in me or not. There are some signs that I believe he is. Such as in one aspect of my job I put products back on the shelves when they are not wanted. Once he threw a pack of pads ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hiya, I think you sound like a responsible adult and it sounds like he is flirting with you. There is nothing wrong with that! You should find it flattering! If not knowing his age is bothering you then talk to him about it? You need to ask your... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and he's 18 and has a girlfriend, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hiya, Its a difficult situation, firstly because he is so much older than you. I think you need to think, if you did tell Jesse what do you hope he will do? If he leaves his girlfriend for you, would you want this adult relationship; he... (read in full...)
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