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writes:Me and my ex were in a relationship for almost a year, we broke up in november but carried on he flirting and doing stuff until very recent, he suddenly decided he doesnt like me like that anymore, we where so in love it was magic! first love:) but i just found out that him and a best mate got off with eachother when we were going out..i know i shouldnt let it get to me but OH MY GOD. i have not stopped crying..what do i do?Lots of love X
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Be good to yourself. Take hot baths. Soak your feet. Paint your nails, etc. Read magazines. Find something to occupy your time, but at the same time, don't get so occupied that you try to skip the grieving process. You are going to grieve, but be good to yourself during this time.
You have my condolensces.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 If it is true, then he is just a worm and not worthy to cry over.
Don't cry for such a low life creature.
He is not worth your tears.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Awww =( I think that was horribly insensitive of both of them!!
Just remember that he did a horrible thing and you'll see that you can do sooo much better than someone like that! I understand that it's difficult to not be upset, but try your best! And one day you'll meet a guy who appreciates you properly and wouldn't dare do something like that!
I hope you feel better about it soon!!
xx Hope xx
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reader, Katie-ann +, writes (7 March 2008):
 There is nothing you can do sweetie. It will hurt and you will cry, lots. Which I know doesnt help much but in time you will feel better. Its not fair for him to treat you like this. What you shouldnt do now is to take him back or make excuses for his mistake. Are you even sure that it is true? If the relationship has been over since November then it may be best to move on so you can start to heal. It happens to us all.
Best of luck.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Why are you exes? Although it hurts, if he's not yours anymore then surely it's water under the bridge, honey? I know it's upsetting to be lied to, but just rise above it.. Make them feel guilty for it if it makes you feel better... ;] Best wishes. x
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