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Why is my ex playing games with me? Is he trying to spite me?

Q.   I guess my ex and I just ended our super dragged out relationship of 11 months when he randomly started ignoring me. He and I don't go to the same school but we go to the same train station. Since like two weeks ago he has been arriving at different ...

A.   13 December 2011: I havent even attempted to talk to him in a while...... (read in full...)

This girl won't leave my b/f alone. Should I break up with him?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now we have 4 month old daughter together. the problem is. this girl has been getting in the middle of our relationship the whole time we have been together. she wont leave him alone she has ...

A.   29 November 2011: I broke up with my bf for it. I regret it, so dont... (read in full...)

Do you think he could have cheated on me?

Q.   hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a ...

A.   29 November 2011: Probably not... (read in full...)

If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?

Q.   Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ...

A.   27 November 2011: Tell him to wear a condom AND pull out. Trust me. ... (read in full...)

Should I move on or wait for my boyfriend?

Q.   Well my bf and I decided to split cuzz im 16 and he 21. Its safer. I love him alot, I would do anything for him! We planned on gettn back together when I turn 18, we still see each other and call each other! Just like were still dating. But I dnt ...

A.   26 November 2011: Move on, he probably will... (read in full...)

LD Boyfriend takes snapshots of me on skype.

Q.   Hi. I just found out recently that my boyfriend takes snapshots of me while we talk on Skype. He did that for every time we talked on Skype, we are in a long distance relationship. And he took SO MANY like really TOO MUCH pictures. He just showe...

A.   25 November 2011: It means he really likes you? If you are uncomfortable with that, just ask him to stop or ask permission before he does it.... (read in full...)

It's time to end this inconsistent lukewarm relationship, isn't it?

Q.   My boyfriend of 1 year doesn't know I have a deadline in mind for him to really show me that he loves me. We HAVE talked, numerous times and I am always in control of myself and rational and non-accusing. He has had a "meh" attitude in the past and ...

A.   25 November 2011: He has a "nap time"....... (read in full...)

He acts like a complete jackass towards me but I cant let him go, help!

Q.   Hello. What to do when your boyfriend of almost 3 years stops having sex with you, doesn't talk to you like that anymore, ignores your calls/texts, acts like he doesn't want you around, constantly lies about little simple things, rarely spends times ...

A.   25 November 2011: I just got out of this kind of relationship. I promise everything will be fine. But you gotta let him go, as hard as that is. When you finally do it, you'll feel relieved, trust me. I spent so much time trying to figure out what was wrong with me, ... (read in full...)

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

Q.   Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...

A.   27 September 2011: Forget about him. He will do it again.... (read in full...)

My ex has shown that he really doesn't care but I want him back!

Q.   Hello! I'm in an emotional wreck right now. Well i broke up with my bf last week and now im hurt so bad. I had good reasons to let him go, but im just so in love with him that no matter what he do, i'll take him back/be with him. We've been together ...

A.   9 June 2011: You do not need him. It will take a while for this to sink in, but he is doing nothing but using you. Think for a second, there is a guy out there that will treat you right, but you won't find him until you let go of this guy. He is doing noth... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is in the army and I miss him like crazy.

Q.   Hey, I have a boyfriend, and he is now in the army. He hasn't left yet but he will in August. He just turned 18 in March. Lets call him....Rambo XD. I love Rambo with all my heart and soul. He says his job doesn't involve any combat so he cant ge...

A.   30 March 2010: thanks a lot for that. It made me feel a little better. Im an artist too actually. I think I will put more time into my art...Three years is a long time though...... (read in full...)

My breast size is affecting my self esteem. Any tips on how to make them bigger?

Q.   My life is just crazy I guess. I have low self esteem very low I think I am so ugly. Everyone tells me Im beautiful and that I have a pretty smile and pretty eyes, I just don't believe. So I like this guy well love actually I have known him forever ...

A.   30 March 2010: dont do anything to them some guys dont mind it at all i promise you will be fine... (read in full...)

What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?

Q.   For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches lon...

A.   30 March 2010: well, i say youre okay My boyfriends is 6 inches thats a little small compared to what Im used to but i dont care ^_^ its all about what you do with it a girl wouldnt like if u commented on her and a lot of guys accept female flaws so girls s... (read in full...)

Is it normal for straight males to sometimes have a crush on another male?

Q.   I am a senior in all boys high school. I play football so I know students from th 9th grade thru the 12th grade. I have a problem. I am not gay, but I am starting to have a crush on a freshman that is 14 years old. He can make me laugh and we ...

A.   30 March 2010: you're not bi or gay. dont worry or anything. unless you find yourself liking men more than women or not liking women at all. then maybe you are.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is falling for me way too fast after losing his virginity

Q.   Hello everyone, well this is my problem. I been with my boyfriend for about 3 months going on 4 and I'm his first everything. In the beginning I knew he was falling for me and he was falling fast. But now that I took his virginity I know that he i...

A.   30 March 2010: DO NOT LIE AND SAY YOU LOVE HIM WHATEVER YOU DO love will come to you when you are not looking do not force yourself. if you think you MAY love him,someday then say that but dont lie. dont lead him on you will regret it. ... (read in full...)

I want to help him with his drug problem but I don't know how to... help!

Q.   Hi, i really need help! My boyfriend is a very honest person, he's shared a lot of information with me since we've got together. It's been hard to take it all in; his past etc. However, i'm willing to accept him as a person. I really like him ...

A.   30 March 2010: I've been in your spot. The sad sad truth is, you cant take on a drug addict. The drugs are stronger than you. He may love you with his heart But his body and mind love the drugs. I dated a few drug addicts I DEFINATLEY AM NOT ONE. I always sta... (read in full...)

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