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writes:Hi.I just found out recently that my boyfriend takes snapshots of me while we talk on Skype.He did that for every time we talked on Skype, we are in a long distance relationship.And he took SO MANY like really TOO MUCH pictures.He just showed them to me saying that he likes each one of them.What does that mean?
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reader, Moon_Light  +, writes (26 November 2011):
He probably just likes to feel close to you, although I do understand because I wouldn't like pictures being taken of me either. If you find it really uncomfortable, then you could talk to him about it and maybe ask him to stop?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Are any onf them inappropriate? as in you undressed? If not, I wouldn't worry too much, though that really depends on how well you know the guy.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (25 November 2011):
 I guess I'd say it depends on how many he's taken for me to find it entirely weird. Is it hundreds? I mean there's nothing wrong with him liking you and wanting to look at pictures of you, but I would ask him why he doesn't warn you about when he takes the photos, because you didn't know you were being 'recorded' like that and most people warn you when you get a photo taken. consider what would make you feel most comfortable-that he gets rid of all of the pictures of you, that he warns you before he takes a shot, or that the sheer volume of the # of photos is bordering on obsessive, and it should be easier to determine how to proceed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2011): He's probably just missing your face! My LDR boyfriend can never have enough pictures of me. I'm not at all a photograph sort of person either, so he generally has to ask if he wants any. We never use webcam, because I can't stand it - probably for the aforementioned reason haha - but if we did I think he'd be the type to get rather snap-happy too.
If it's bothering you though, just have an honest word with your boyfriend; tell him it makes you feel a bit uncomfortable that he took so many pictures without you knowing... and if he wants photos in future, you'd prefer him to ask you first so you can at least smile nicely! Keep it lighthearted. Chances are he did it because he didn't think you'd mind :) Good luck and take care x
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reader, kandykane +, writes (25 November 2011):
It means he really likes you? If you are uncomfortable with that, just ask him to stop or ask permission before he does it.
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (25 November 2011):
 perhaps he like photography and you are very photogenic. Don, t read to much into it!
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