How can I get over her sexual past as this is the only problem in the relationship??
Q. I'm currently in a serious relationship with a girl I love. The only problem is that I cant get over her sexual past (which really isnt that bad) She's 21 and has been with 6 guys, all of them short flings that lasted a couple weeks. (the tot. ...
A. 1 March 2008: Although you may feel upset about her sexual history, in my opinion you don't really have any right to.
Her sexual history is just that - 'hers' and 'history.' It doesn't belong to you, and unless there are sexually transmitted diseases involved... (read in full...)
What are the erogenous zones a women has?
Q. hi, what are the erogenous zones women have? i know the G-spot, but what others are there .... i think that there are 7? thankyou h xxx ...
A. 22 February 2008: There is one really big erogenous zone that takes precedence over all others - the brain and the mind that dwells within it.... (read in full...)
How long do I have to wait for oral?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral -I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesn't have to prove it that way - I say ...
A. 22 February 2008: I think you've answered your own question - "I did ask him and he says he tried it before and didnt like it". If he really is one of those people who don't like (or are even repulsed by) oral sex, he's one of those people. All I can suggest is t... (read in full...)
He called me by an ex girlfriend's name while we were having sex!!
Q. I have never been self concious before, but I have been having a problem with coping with a lot of issues in my sex life lately. I know that it is completely normal for a man to pretend like he is have having sex with another woman while he is ...
A. 22 February 2008: It may be completely normal but I think that stinks. Look, it's one thing when you've been in a relationship for years and you shut the lights out and pretend it's Angelina or Brad in bed with you for the night, it's quite another when you... (read in full...)
Help! Can any one help make some sense of this?????
Q. Okay please help me... I just found this site and from what I could see people here seem friendly enough and certainly mature. I am not a young girl and I believe I know in my heart what is right here but I have to ask some mature men out there a ...
A. 22 February 2008: Stress can certainly make a man impotent - it has me in the past. Although I was desirous, I was not performing (which added to my stress, lol). Still, it wouldn't surprise me if his libido (which slows down as men age) is affected also. Your... (read in full...)
How long do I have to wait for oral?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral -I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesn't have to prove it that way - I say ...
A. 22 February 2008: I concur with Ann1056263 - it's doesn't mean that he doesn't love you simply because he doesn't perform certain actions with you in bed. That said, I can understand why you're concerned - a satisfactory sex-life is important in most relationshi... (read in full...)
I tried speaking to him but not getting anywhere
Q. Hey guys, I've been with my husband for 5 years but only married for 5 months. We have a little boy together which I love more then life itself. Since we've been married I've been extremly unhappy. He smokes marijana everyday, sometime more then onc...
A. 11 February 2008: A lot of Aunts here are probably going to say 'drop him, he's a loser, you can do better' - which I'm sure you can. However, it sounds to me that the main problem is his consumption of marijuana, and his usage of it as a tool of avoidance. I... (read in full...)
15 years old and still wetting the bed!
Q. Help me please. Im 15 and wet the bed. I usually dream about urinating then find myself doing it. I do it when i need the toilet and i usually go to the toilet in my dream and it seems weird in the dream and realistic. Because I really did it. Help ...
A. 8 February 2008: You're not alone in having your 'pee dreams.' I've had them in the past and occaissonally still get them - so do many of my friends.
You'll no doubt have noticed that it's always (or nearly always) the same dream - you've mentioned being on... (read in full...)
How can I approach girls to make them like me
Q. What is the best thing to say to a girl, when you walk up to them. i.e. hi, blah blah blah Also what is a great thing to talk about that makes girls laugh?...
A. 4 February 2008: Mate, there is no set formula on how to impress girls. There are no magic words that will make them swoon into your arms immediately.
The best advice I can offer is to simply be true to yourself - don't try and bluff or fake your way through ... (read in full...)
Bereavement...
Q. How is it best to deal with grief? My girlfriend/partner has been diagnosed as seriously ill. She has roughly eighteen days left. She has no knowledge of her serious condition and must not know whatsoever. I would also like some advice on how to ...
A. 3 February 2008: You have my sincere condolences.
As I'm sure you know, you will be in for some really tough days ahead, but it will get better for you eventually.
You will always have and know the great loss of your loved one, that deep knowledge never ... (read in full...)
She never had a real teenage life.
Q. hang on or let go part 2 well i forgot to mention in the first one that my girlfriend is now hanging out with guys and girls in group settings not 1 on 1 but my problem is that she is talking on the phone and hanging out with one of her ex's she ...
A. 2 February 2008: It certainly is possible to be friends with your exes. That said, it can also be problematical. It needs a good deal of maturity on both sides to happen properly. If one person is still hankering after the same intimacy once shared then it can be ... (read in full...)
If he liked me, he'd ask for my number
Q. Hey, i seriously need your help and i think this may be a long one, hope you don't mind. Well i started at college last year and everything is great, i've never had a bf before as its never been a main priority to me. But i met this lad and we are ...
A. 2 February 2008: It sounds to me as though he has had a crush on you in the past, but as he didn't get the signals he was looking for he's figured you don't like him like that and he is starting to look elsewhere. I think your dream of him having a girlfriend was... (read in full...)
Will the morning after pill stop me getting pregant?
Q. hello, a friend of mine said morning after pills really works: like when you take it within 73 hours, it really works like it clean everything in you out. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me. After that i put spermcid...
A. 2 February 2008: Girl, if you continue as you have been you are on a fast track to getting pregnant. The morning after pill won't stop you from getting pregnant, it's basically an abortion pill that causes you to miscarry by triggering your period. It does... (read in full...)
If I don't do what my friend wants she throws a tantrum...but she gets me in trouble...what should I do??
Q. I have this friend that keeps causing me trouble, She always told me to wait for her,(she takes as slow as she can) becuase of that I keep getting told off by my teachers for being late to lessons. If I don't do what she says, she gets in a tamtrum ...
A. 2 February 2008: You need to stick up for yourself. Good friends won't want to get you into trouble, and will understand the reasons why you can't faff about when you need to get to class. The next time your friend throws a wobbly, tell her not to be so immatur... (read in full...)
Was this an erection and does it mean he likes me??
Q. Does an erection mean he likes me? Okay well me and my best friend are amazingly close, he is a boy, and i really like him alot more than a friend, its a long story, but we are pretty much in love with each other, although we have never kissed o...
A. 2 February 2008: That certainly sounds like he had an erection to me. Teenage boys (I was on once myself too) frequently get erections at odd moments; especially when there is some form of intimacy taking place. What it means is that he is a normal teenage boy,... (read in full...)
How can I ask her out and get to know her better?
Q. I want you to help me, there is this girl I so much love but when we were in school she was going out with a friend of mine and now they are no longer dating and I soooo much love her. What do I do to make her know that I love her? Thanks. ...
A. 2 February 2008: It's not surprising that people are often attracted to friend's partners. After all, we're usually friends because we like the same sorts of things and share similar values.
But before you make a move towards this girl who you like you need to ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my sister
Q. Hi I have a problem. I'm 16, and I'm in love with my 14 year old sister. At first I thought it was just hormones, but it's been 4 years and I still feel the same way. Also I think she already knows, but I can't be sure. Help! ...
A. 2 February 2008: It's perfectly natural, especially during your teenage years, to have strong emotions of a sexual nature. It's also quite probable that you're feeling like this due to the hormonal changes we all undergo through teenage years, and that as your ... (read in full...)
He found messages from another guy on my phone, but I'm innocent, how can I get things back to normal?
Q. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months (I’m 27, he’s 25). Everything has been going really, really well, until about 3 days ago. He went into my cell phone and found text messages from another guy. There were two series of ...
A. 31 January 2008: I fail to understand how you can be responsible for messages sent by someone else to your phone.
It seems obvious to me that your boyfriend has been cheated on in the past and that this is pushing his buttons. Therefore, this isn't really a... (read in full...)
When do I start shaving? I'm too embarassed to ask my mum.
Q. my problem is when do i start shaaving im imbarresd to ask my mum...
A. 31 January 2008: I come from a very hairy family, and am pretty hirsute myself.
I would recommend holding off from shaving for as long as possible, as once you've started, the hair will begin to grow back thicker and stronger in response.... (read in full...)
He hates condoms!
Q. I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...
A. 31 January 2008: Love, the answer is simple.
Tell him 'No condom, no sex.' He'll soon come around to your way of thinking.
Tell him you don't mind him taking longer to orgasm as it means more fun for the both of you - sex doesn't only have to be about the big... (read in full...)
What's wrong with 'My Guy'?
Q. Ok today i was gonna have sex with my gf and for some reason i just couldnt get it up...i mean it would get hard but when id put the condom on and go for the kill nothing my guy just couldnt perform...whats wrong with me?...
A. 31 January 2008: I've had trouble getting an erection before, and once I was impotent for about a fortnight. For me, the reason was stress. Even though I was hot to trot with my girl, external factors meant that I wasn't actually in the mood for sex.
Anoth... (read in full...)
My girlfriend likes her jerk Ex as a friend
Q. Ok, I just want a general opinon from people to see if I'm out of line. My girlfriend of a few years has a platonic relationship with her ex. The ex and I don't like each other because, I feel he harbors resentment for me taking her away and because ...
A. 29 January 2008: Mate, you've been more than fair.
If your girl insists, maybe you should ask her to make a choice - you or the ex. (Scary huh? But at least you'll know where you stand.)
And by the by, I don't think it's your being controlling, som... (read in full...)
Cheated before, I have the right to know if she has after we got married
Q. My wife is an oral sex freak, by that I mean going down on guys. Before we were engaged she told me she blew about 12-15 guys and wasn't sure of the exact amount because lots of guys she did lots of times. I overlooked this because her reas...
A. 29 January 2008: Mate, you're misplacing the blame - your wife's fat friend is not at fault here. No one forced your wife to go down on that fellow, she chose to do it herself. And what has your wife's previous sexual experience got to do with you? Provided there ... (read in full...)
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