My boyfriends looking at other guys!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and we have a pretty good relationship and I love him very much. He does a lot of nice things for me and with me and I do the same for him too. We are in a same sex relationship. ...
A. 16 September 2010: Puzzle Solver, they are both guys ;)
And to answer the question, that's what guys do. It is in our nature to be very sexual beings (obviously varies from person to person).
If he has said he only has eyes for you whilst under the influence, I... (read in full...)
I think I want to break up with my boyfriend!
Q. Ok so here's the problem...after a long time of thinking i have decided that i want to break up with my boyfriend. Because i get so nervous talking to him about serious things (which leaves me forgetting what i was meant to say) i decided it was b...
A. 22 July 2009: UPDATE:
So i finally got the courage today to say something...and it got a bit...erm...messy. Not bad messy...but just messier than i'd like.
So after an awkward 30 mins it ended with me saying i care about you, but my feelings have changed.... (read in full...)
When two guys are having sex, who exactly takes the role of the man?
Q. Picture this, one guy is getting penetrated helplessly and the other is DOING the penetration. Theyre both enjoying it, which guy is more masculine or "manly" and why? Now the guy who is being penetrated cums because he got penetrated for.....
A. 4 September 2008: haha i laughed when i saw this. Well firstly being manly or feminine has nothing to do with sex. As a gay guy myself i can honestly say it's the truth.
Being a Top (penetrating) or a bottom (receiving) has absolutely nothing to do with how masc... (read in full...)
I'm caught under my dads pressure, what can I do about it?
Q. School starts up again soon and I was planning to try my best for A-level. I haven't been working for a while so I thought it would be easy to get back into it. The only thing is, last year my Dad continously blackmailed me with chucking me out ...
A. 31 August 2008: yeah mate if your dad told you he had to sign a concent form to allow you to do you A-levels he's talking crap. Over16 education (Alevels and furhter stuff) is completely up to you, and only you make the decision. Not family members.
But if he's... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my younger brother's destructive ways?
Q. I'm literally at the end of my rope with my younger brother, and I'm looking for some advice on what I can actually do about it. He's always been louder, more social and more physically fit than me. In a lot of ways, he's the brawn and I'm th...
A. 30 August 2008: Hmm i know the type, although i'm the younger of both of my brothers. I think i know the solution to the problem.
One day calmly go up to him and say something along the lines of "I'm fed up of your behaviour" but dont get arguementative with it ... (read in full...)
I clearly prefer sex with a girl but I can't see me in a relationship with one, so am I lesbian?
Q. For some reason when i have sex with a guy...it does not feel good...but when i do with a girl i like it mor...am finding myself looking at girls now and feel more attarcted to them...but at the same time to see me in a realtionship with a girl....i ...
A. 30 August 2008: Well for starters it may just be an "experimental phase" in your Life. It's not uncommon for people to go through this. As for the sex with men not feeling good it may just not be with the right man.
However! If you like having sex with girls i ... (read in full...)
My family have chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son...
Q. my family has chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son and she always tries to cause trouble between my new wife and me what to do...
A. 30 August 2008: Hmm thats quite a situation. First things first is to seperate the matters into 3 things.
-Family siding with ex
-Exwife interfering with new wife
-Son matters
So firstly the Ex-wife problem. There are probably 2 reasons for her actions.... (read in full...)
I'm caught under my dads pressure, what can I do about it?
Q. School starts up again soon and I was planning to try my best for A-level. I haven't been working for a while so I thought it would be easy to get back into it. The only thing is, last year my Dad continously blackmailed me with chucking me out ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hmm well to be frank your Dad is being an Ass. Although everybody does need to be pushed sometimes when motivation is low, it seems he is pushing you way too hard. Perhaps he is pushing you "because he doesn't want you to make the same mistakes as ... (read in full...)
She told me she doesn't know how she feels any more. What do I do?
Q. What to do when your Gf says she doesnt love you? It hurts so much!!!, My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 years now. A couple of months ago she told me she didnt know how she felt anymore? I was pretty shocked but we agreed...
A. 28 July 2008: Hmm darn unlucky mate!
Well firstly i suggest that you forget about it for the 2 weeks. I know it's easier said than done, but if she's on holiday there's no reason to be thinking about it. It's the summer, i want you to go out with friends and ... (read in full...)
Would I be better off in a relationship with someone of my own age?
Q. So i'm a gay 18 year old guy, and am going out with a 36 year old. True not the most conventional of relationships, but i've known i like older guys, so that's sorted. We've been going out for over a year, and like with most relationships we've ha...
A. 23 July 2008: Hehe thanks, yeah i see what you're saying,although he does seriously tickel me...it hurts and makes me feel uncomfortable...and we both stomp off :P
I know i'm a little insecure about the whole age thing but it's just changed so much from when... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I have other girls - and all because of a silly game. Is this normal behaviour? How do I put the trust back?
Q. Hello All. To get straight to the point. I have been living with my girlfriend for about 2 months. We've been seeing each other for just over 3 years on and off. She went away for work last month and as a surprise i bought her the game s...
A. 23 July 2008: Firstly i'm guessing the friend who said "That's not the only girl he had round" was joking right?
You have to love girls for over-reacting sometimes don't ya?
My suggestion would be firstly to sit her down and talk to her.
Tell her that firstly... (read in full...)
I'm really worried about my girlfriend RIGHT NOW.
Q. I'm really worried about my GF, She doesnt live near mine and she stayed over night and I have to go to work today and I gave her money to go town so she wouldnt get bored at my house, now that she's in town and im at work it worries me, she has not ...
A. 23 July 2008: Firstly, calm down mate! As long as she's not 6 years old i'm sure she'll be fine walking around town on her own. hehe
Although not having a phone it may make it a bit harder for you 2 to find each other, i'm sure it'll all be fine. She can ask ... (read in full...)
How do I stop people saying I'm gay? And how do I cope with a long-dtsiance relationship? And tell me about shaving for the first time please.
Q. i have 3 questions ite first one is im 13 and im strait but everybody thinks im gay. all my friends ,exept one, r girls any advise on how to get people to stop saying this? the second one is im 13 and i met a girl that i only get 2 c in the summer ...
A. 23 July 2008: Yeah i completely agree with Typical...
Firstly so what if they call you gay? You know if you're gay or not...it's just like any other insult...do you worry if people call you stupid? I would hope you don't because they're just trying to hurt your... (read in full...)
Dating, just dating. And he's dating someone else too. So how long before dating should become an (exclusive) relationship?
Q. Okay quick question. Im 15, I'm dating this guy.. He is keeping his options open because he is 16. Dating me, and dating someone else. Nothing is official so I am okay with it, and before we started dating he told me, so I am okay with it....
A. 23 July 2008: Yeah i agree with Bethy...there's no real "set" length of dating before it becomes exclusive. It's generally just you go out together more and till you feel comfortable, then eventually asking him out, or being asked out.... (read in full...)
I'm lying to my whole family
Q. At the moment I'm lying to my whole family. My 14y/o sister is dating an 18y/o who I know well as have been mates for a while. The issue is the rest of my family completely disagrees with it as through past experiences within the family we are...
A. 22 January 2008: Hmm looks like i'm going to give the complete opposite to everyone else's answers, a nice change :P
Firstly, all these answers are from an outside perspective. Your sister may be young, but she may seriously like this guy. And for another point yo... (read in full...)
55 Year old boyfriend that's married! Should I leave him?
Q. i am seening this man of the age 55 im am 20yr old male i love him he treats me so right that is when he isnt with his second wife and kids all his kids are older than me i know it sounds weird but wat can i do should i just walk away or stick it ...
A. 22 January 2008: Hmm the age gap isn't the problem, it's the fact that he's actually married? (you were'nt very clear in the problem...still married or divorced to his second wife??)
If he's treating you badly when he's with his second wife confront him with it. ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hmm that's good (the therapy part anyway), that should help somewhat...have you noticed any difference with the therapy? As in can you do things that you couldn't before?
As for the depression that's conpletely understandable, I mean, not many peo... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 8 January 2008: Hey there, sorry to hear about your problems.
Hmm...I can see the awkwardness you're having with sex, i guess you just have to find a position that is comfortable for both of you. Maybe you on your right side and her sideways? I'm not entirely sure... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to what might be wrong with me?
Q. hey i need some help here. does any1 av any suggestions whats wrong with me? was out@ dinner with friends a few nights ago and i was fine during the starter but when the main courses came i felt really sick and had to go home. this has happened a ...
A. 26 December 2007: It is possible that you are suffering from some sort of anxiety disorder...nothing major, a lot of people get them at random times in their lives. You say you felt sick...any other synptoms...examples - dizzyness, hot (as in temperature)...does the ... (read in full...)
I like him but am worried that I will clam up as I am 'rusty' at dating
Q. I like this guy named Joey. We've been flirting for a few months now, and I think I'd like to go out with him...but he's a Senior. I'm a Junior. I know that may not seem like much of an age difference, it's just I think he could go for any other ...
A. 25 December 2007: Firstly, don't worry about the age gap. Besides, it's hardly an age gap. I have 19 years between me and my partner (yes, 19 years...a bit insane). "He kind of asked me out to go see Sweeney Todd, and he said he's not even a Johnny Depp fan. Does t... (read in full...)
How can I tell my gf I want to have sex with her??
Q. My girlfriend and I have known each other for years and have dated for a while now. I think she is really cute. Naturally I want to have sex with her. How should I tell her this? What should I say? What advice do you have about conversations like ...
A. 25 December 2007: Well firstly make sure you're ready for sex! Condoms and what not. Now as for "asking" her for sex, that might be a little too forward. hehe. Maybe you should try hinting to her, or taking it in steps. As in start of with something small ie. hugg... (read in full...)
I don't like people staring at my penis...what should I do??
Q. I am 12 years old and i have a 6" (16cm) soft and 7.5 inch (19cm)erect penis. In changing rooms people just stare, even adults. I don't like it sometimes, children of my age say how i get it so big i dont like what should i do? ...
A. 25 December 2007: yeah i agree with "peoriaman", they're envious. The average penis size for adults is about 5"/6". And considering you're only 12 a 7.5" erect is pretty damn impressive! You may even get larger than that. As for people staring at you in the changing... (read in full...)
How can I stop craving sex with much older men??
Q. Could you please advise on my current practice of having sex with older men. I have a boyfriend my own age with good sex but I crave sex with much older men, They are usually business men passing through and I go to their hotels for seedy sex, I'm ...
A. 25 December 2007: Well firstly, you should try and stop going to other men and you should understand that the urges you having are NOT bad. They're urges...they're things you want, and are obviously there for good reason. You have to ask yourself what exactly about ... (read in full...)
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