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writes:My girlfriend and I have known each other for years and have dated for a while now. I think she is really cute. Naturally I want to have sex with her. How should I tell her this? What should I say? What advice do you have about conversations like this one? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): Just using someone's body to please your genitals is "SICK! SICK! SICK!"
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reader, Joe158  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 Well firstly make sure you're ready for sex! Condoms and what not.Now as for "asking" her for sex, that might be a little too forward. hehe.Maybe you should try hinting to her, or taking it in steps. As in start of with something small ie. hugging, then move it on from there...i don't know, like playfully put your hands on her bum. If you feel she's a bit anxious then maybe stop. You have to understand that she may NOT be ready for sex. So if she says no, then stop...just say that you will wait until she is ready.She may possibly be in the same situation with you...she might want to have sex with you but doesn't know what to do.It's different with different people, i guess you have to figure it out for yourself in a sense. Trust your instincts, and remember that she has to be ready too.And the best way, however awkward it might be, is to just talk to her about it. Maybe not just blurting out "i want to have sex with you", but calmly talking to her about it. and don't make her feel pressured into it either never good for a relationship :D.I hope this helps in some way-Joe
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